FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence

By *heGriswolds OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

[Removed by poster at 02/06/18 21:07:26]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots of people on Fab have body image issues and lack confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fucking fat lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of we all were the same it woukd be boring..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is so attractive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Confidence is so attractive. "
my cock is called ‘confidence’

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is so attractive. my cock is called ‘confidence’

Well there's a coincidence, huh?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have body image issues yet I am relatively confident regardless. Mainly because I am fully aware that they are my issues and no one else's so I don't see why they should affect my outward confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I would never give my confidence a battering when there are so many people out there willing to do it for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Film called I feel Pretty starring Amy Schumer currently at the flicks. The main character has so much confidence

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they most certainly do OP.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That amy needs it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm not perfect , but , I'm happy being me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I would never give my confidence a battering when there are so many people out there willing to do it for me. "

For the life of me, I can't imagine why - or perhaps more saliently - how they could possibly try and do that. What is there to criticise?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Ten years since the first time i walked down a public road in a frock. Since then I've given lectures at public events, chatted with bishops, travelled around the country, co-written a paper that was presented at a high profile psychology conference, danced in my underwear in front of 300 swingers. I still have some confidence issues but I'm getting there...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/06/18 04:35:41]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Yes, yes you are !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"I would never give my confidence a battering when there are so many people out there willing to do it for me.

For the life of me, I can't imagine why - or perhaps more saliently - how they could possibly try and do that. What is there to criticise?"

Because the world is full of lovely people and arseholes, in equal measure.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Confidence is so attractive. my cock is called ‘confidence’

Thought it was called “confi”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazes me why people put photos of themselves up disguising there bodies...ie , making them look slim, or long legged , etc etc etc

best to just do natural photos surely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Confidence is so attractive. my cock is called ‘confidence’

Seriously made me chuckle

Fab has given me more confidence. Yes there are still parts of my body I don't like but it's given me the push to do something about it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agicman2010Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Looking at your photos I have to agree with you there x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

"
that you are

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im confident and comfortable with my body. Life is too short for hang ups. We are all made differently but beautiful in our own way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am Failed man when it come to mind or more lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I would never give my confidence a battering when there are so many people out there willing to do it for me.

For the life of me, I can't imagine why - or perhaps more saliently - how they could possibly try and do that. What is there to criticise?

Because the world is full of lovely people and arseholes, in equal measure. "

True.

For what it's worth, your username is incredibly apt, because you are extremely aesthetically pleasing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston

" Because the world is full of lovely people and arseholes, in equal measure. "

From my experience I think there are probably more lovely people than arseholes ....

Unfortunately with all the crappy things going on in the world it sometimes seems the other way round

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes though confidence crosses over to arrogance ...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!"

There you go fella have some of ours we’ve got some going spare

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

There you go fella have some of ours we’ve got some going spare

iv some spare if anyone needs to borrow till next week??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Abso-fucking-lutely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Yes, yes you are !"

Too right

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Abso-fucking-lutely

High five

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes though confidence crosses over to arrogance ..."

Whatever!!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!"

I'll get it back for ya

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes though confidence crosses over to arrogance ..."

But when you've got confidence you don't give a fuck anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/06/18 14:14:51]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

I'll get it back for ya

xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am fucking fat lol"

I’m fucking fat and gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me . I'm fucking gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes though confidence crosses over to arrogance ...

Whatever!!!!"

Rats arse

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!"

Why? Interesting to hear from a male perspective

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes though confidence crosses over to arrogance ...

But when you've got confidence you don't give a fuck anyway

Guess so.

I'm not made that way...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

Why? Interesting to hear from a male perspective "

When females or couples don't even reply to messages, self doubt creeps in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"amazes me why people put photos of themselves up disguising there bodies...ie , making them look slim, or long legged , etc etc etc

best to just do natural photos surely"

I’d be kicked off fab for terrifying people if I put up the straight on fat pics

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I would never give my confidence a battering when there are so many people out there willing to do it for me. "

I heartily agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am fucking fat lol

I’m fucking fat and gorgeous

And my wingman

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet and sites like these and dating apps etc make lots of people self conscious. Its sad.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/06/18 18:37:21]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is so attractive. my cock is called ‘confidence’

Seriously made me chuckle

Fab has given me more confidence. Yes there are still parts of my body I don't like but it's given me the push to do something about it "

Same here. I am actually going to brush the dust off my treadmill.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Everyone should have confidence! It’s sexy as hell. We can’t change who we are or how people view us.. so who gives a fuck!

I certainly don’t !

Miss P

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence has just been destroyed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet and sites like these and dating apps etc make lots of people self conscious. Its sad."

I don't think it makes them self conscious. It just highlights their already existing insecurities.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andS_GlasgowCouple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Ts (Fem of the couple) confidence is low low low - so low she isnt up for meeting which in turn is annoying her that the social aspect has gone as well !!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet and sites like these and dating apps etc make lots of people self conscious. Its sad.

I don't think it makes them self conscious. It just highlights their already existing insecurities. "

Not always true, I wasn't insecure until I joined here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

Why? Interesting to hear from a male perspective "

I've never really had any confidence, but getting knocked back does quite a bit of damage to my confidence. Not just on here, but anywhere. It plays into the idea I have that I'm not good-looking enough. It's probably not the best place to be, but I only mainly come for the forums now.

I guess it's why I dislike messages been read but then being deleted without a reply. The recipient of that message has no idea what the sender is dealing with. That could be really damaging to that person's self-esteem.

And before anyone says it, I despise the ''why should I care about upsetting random strangers on the internet'' attitude. You shouldn't necessarily care, but you also shouldn't knowingly do something you wouldn't want being done to yourself. Getting knocked back or ignored hurts no matter who you are and anyone who says it doesn't is lying to themselves.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is the habitual voyeur of what is known as...(parklife!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet and sites like these and dating apps etc make lots of people self conscious. Its sad.

I don't think it makes them self conscious. It just highlights their already existing insecurities.

Not always true, I wasn't insecure until I joined here."

I don't believe that joining a website makes you insecure! If a website has done that to you then why on earth would you stay??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackoff13Man
over a year ago

Confidence is sexy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is the habitual voyeur of what is known as...(parklife!)"

Cut down on the pork life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

You don’t need confidence when you coast through life “wingin’ it”

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

Why? Interesting to hear from a male perspective

Frankly, this is the worst possible place for an average bloke with confidence issues. Given the ratios, a good 95% of your approaches will be rejected without a reply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"This place is slowly ruining any confidence I had!

Why? Interesting to hear from a male perspective

Frankly, this is the worst possible place for an average bloke with confidence issues. Given the ratios, a good 95% of your approaches will be rejected without a reply. "

I disagree, single males do get rejected a hell of a lot but I find that most of the time if I were to get rejected it’s because people have children around the same age or something similar, doesn’t knock me though because more often than not I get appreciation for either my photos or the way I conduct myself which gave me a lot more confidence over time. I was not half as comfortable when I first joined like two years ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread