FabSwingers.com forum: No love for a new member, need some help and advice!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning all...

This is probs the most common question asked by single guys but I’m starting to wonder now!

Where am I going wrong? Ive sent messages to ladies on here but I don’t get much joy I’m not one to bombard people with dick pics or forcefully perverted messages on the first contact, I try be polite and respectful but it’s not getting me any where.

I know you need to have good patience as the male to female ratio is rather high but come one get me meet verified already!!!

Any way please check my profile out any tips or advise welcome

Have a good day and thanks for taking the time to read this.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's probably not a case of you going wrong anywhere,your profile looks fine to me. I don't know would you go to a club where you can meet face to face that may be better.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Photos are ok, just a bit samey - try & be a bit more imaginative, use a mirror or the timer. Open shirt, bum pic, well placed towel, in the shower ...

Your write up is terrible.

What does ‘takes care of herself mentally & physically’ mean.

And great, you want NSA sex & a party +1 ... but what’s in it for the woman? What is special about you?

For every woman you message, there are probably another 50-100 messaging her. Why are you the one she should reply to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its called effort,get out what you put in .

spending an hour a day now and again and expecting ladies to come flocking isn't how it works

ask ya mum maybe if you still cant do it yourself

if your not good at this stage people may think not worth meeting him ,he even has to ask how to write his own profile ..

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

You really need to take the plunge and mingle either attending organised socials or one hosted by a club. It can be a bit awkward to begin with but it gets easier and there are many men in the same position that are likely to attend. Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The photos are all very similar. You’ve got abs. One pic will show them. The Sydney University thing at the end.....really? That’s all nonsense and putting it in makes you look gullible. Not much about why a lady should choose you, what have you got to offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's all a bit vague, doesn't say much. And for me, the username would put me off immediatly i'm afraid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the bit where it says "takes care of herself mentally ect" is doing you any favours to be honest. One would hope that the vast majority of fab females would be doing this anyway. I don't think that many turn up to meets unkempt and sporting a dirt encrusted fanny.

My suggestion is to have a read of a few single men's profiles ( ones with verifications) and reword your profile text.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

If possible try and go to a few socials check the London forums as every so often there are socials in London and Heathrow which looking at your location may be ok for you.Check the club reviews and where they are located again depending on your location and how far you can travel.Keep on sending respectful messages and try not to get to down if no response as there is lots of us single guys so the single ladies and couples have more choices.Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All points taken on board thank you

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"All points taken on board thank you

Good luck

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

You are a single guy with the dreaded "cannot accommodate". Lots will think you are cheating. Harsh but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are a single guy with the dreaded "cannot accommodate". Lots will think you are cheating. Harsh but there you go. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Photos are ok, just a bit samey - try & be a bit more imaginative, use a mirror or the timer. Open shirt, bum pic, well placed towel, in the shower ...

Your write up is terrible.

What does ‘takes care of herself mentally & physically’ mean.

And great, you want NSA sex & a party +1 ... but what’s in it for the woman? What is special about you?

For every woman you message, there are probably another 50-100 messaging her. Why are you the one she should reply to?"

Your last paragraph is so putting off any average bloke with half a chance.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least you’ve removed the Sydney Uni warning. You’re welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you’ve removed the Sydney Uni warning. You’re welcome. "

LOL. I use this as a filter. If someone has this on their profile.. it's a no from me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"At least you’ve removed the Sydney Uni warning. You’re welcome.

LOL. I use this as a filter. If someone has this on their profile.. it's a no from me."

Damn! Maybe I won’t bother mentioning that advice again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you’ve removed the Sydney Uni warning. You’re welcome.

LOL. I use this as a filter. If someone has this on their profile.. it's a no from me.

Damn! Maybe I won’t bother mentioning that advice again. "

Oh no definately mention it.

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