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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont go

dont do it

youll be a target and in the firing line

ffs just go ya woose lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. "

I think you will be approached , so don’t worry and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. "
they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

To be honest I wouldnt expect women to approach but its nice if they do lol.

Have a drink and mingle and getting to people would be my advice.

We've seen single guys in clubs just sit in a corner with there drink all night. Yes people can be nervous but at the same time make an effort.

All the best.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've started conversations with lone guys in clubs before. Not to play but more just to make them feel involved. If you can look approachable and happy to be there then that helps!

Have a smile on your face and greet people as you pass them or as you wait for drinks alongside them. Have some openers ready for when they do want to engage with you. We find talking about club experiences is a fairly fertile ground for getting a conversation in a club off the ground. Then go from there. They might not drag you to the nearest playroom but you'll probably stick in their minds as a decent bloke who didn't try and grope them at the first opportunity

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"We've started conversations with lone guys in clubs before. Not to play but more just to make them feel involved. If you can look approachable and happy to be there then that helps!

Have a smile on your face and greet people as you pass them or as you wait for drinks alongside them. Have some openers ready for when they do want to engage with you. We find talking about club experiences is a fairly fertile ground for getting a conversation in a club off the ground. Then go from there. They might not drag you to the nearest playroom but you'll probably stick in their minds as a decent bloke who didn't try and grope them at the first opportunity "

Great advice.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert "

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it "
I would of said that but I'm classy

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it I would of said that but I'm classy "

Hahahaha *cough cough righto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it I would of said that but I'm classy

Hahahaha *cough cough righto "
one is

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it I would of said that but I'm classy

Hahahaha *cough cough righto one is "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. they like flies round shit . you will be knee deep in naked women . like that lynx advert

Knee deep in clunge sorry I had to say it I would of said that but I'm classy

Hahahaha *cough cough righto one is

"

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. "

You might find the scene works better to be a bit more involved and pro active rather than waiting to be approached.

But yes, people play with single males at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not new to swinging but I am new to the club scene. Do people tend to approach single men in clubs to play or can it get awkward?

Alex. "

We go specifically to meet single men. You’ll be fine!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Go to the jacuzzi!!! It is soooooo easy to start talking to people in the spa areas - much more chilled and less pressure for newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be awkward as a single, but it can also be great fun. You'll never know unless you try, and do you really want to spend the rest of your days wondering?

Just go and do it, I did.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I know it has been said many times, however, it is true, expect nothing,, have fun, respect others, if it clicks, others will be more welcoming.

Go the opposite, suggest a prostitute would be a better bet.

The ladies and men in clubs are not unpaid prositutes, just people having fun with likeminded people in a relaxed atmosphere, well in my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fellow single bloke I would advise you do the following.

Put up a meet and status saying what club your going to and when. Likewise look out for others on Fab going the same night as you.

That's what I did when I started going to parties/clubs/spa's. It meant I had people to go with and talk to once I was there.

When your there be sociable talk to everyone and even and make it clear your happy to be there. Try not to end up sitting/standing in a corner on your own.

If there's a bar area or a tub they can be good for breaking the ice.

Don't expect too much and be proactive in approaching people you like the look of. As long as your polite, cheerful and not pushy you should be fine.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"As a fellow single bloke I would advise you do the following.

Put up a meet and status saying what club your going to and when. Likewise look out for others on Fab going the same night as you.

That's what I did when I started going to parties/clubs/spa's. It meant I had people to go with and talk to once I was there.

When your there be sociable talk to everyone and even and make it clear your happy to be there. Try not to end up sitting/standing in a corner on your own.

If there's a bar area or a tub they can be good for breaking the ice.

Don't expect too much and be proactive in approaching people you like the look of. As long as your polite, cheerful and not pushy you should be fine. "

That's good advice

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By *alacious_SymposiumMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Have a smile on your face and greet people as you pass them or as you wait for drinks alongside them. "

Smiling and looking as approachable as possible is the key.

The other option is to try and meet someone on here to take as a wingman or female partner. There are normally a few women looking for escorts to club nights.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You wouldn't be the odd one out though, as lots of people go to clubs alone. I go to lots of clubs by myself, and I like the fact that single gay guys go as that's who I look for.

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

Closest one to you is townhouse is fun friendly and a laugh x

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