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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Have developed quite an intense relationship with someone on here (female) and we want to share something new with each other which is just for us, that we’ll remember.

Any ideas or inspiration...?

J x

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

A day out at World of Wicker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always nice to be welcomed to the forum with such open arms!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An option.... any others?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?"

No, neither of us have got into it heavily. Sorry I’ve been a bit vague! I guess we just want something intimate that is our own.... perhaps I’m not being clear enough!

Thanks for replies though!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?

No, neither of us have got into it heavily. Sorry I’ve been a bit vague! I guess we just want something intimate that is our own.... perhaps I’m not being clear enough!

Thanks for replies though!"

I'm not being obstructive but it's only truly going to be your own if you come up with the idea yourselves.

How about reading some literature fiction and non-fiction together and seeing if you can get some ideas to build on. Or discussing your most intimate fantasies and trying to make one reality.

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?

No, neither of us have got into it heavily. Sorry I’ve been a bit vague! I guess we just want something intimate that is our own.... perhaps I’m not being clear enough!

Thanks for replies though!"

Well if u can beat several hundred thousand years of human intercourse....I take my hat off to u...it's all been tried before but the ladies will love u if u succeed. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?

No, neither of us have got into it heavily. Sorry I’ve been a bit vague! I guess we just want something intimate that is our own.... perhaps I’m not being clear enough!

Thanks for replies though!

I'm not being obstructive but it's only truly going to be your own if you come up with the idea yourselves.

How about reading some literature fiction and non-fiction together and seeing if you can get some ideas to build on. Or discussing your most intimate fantasies and trying to make one reality."

Thanks, that’s a good idea. And yes, I’m not suggesting anything no-one has ever tried before! Just wondering what people here have shared with someone where it’s about intimacy and not just a fuck!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sexually? I doubt there's anything that'll be unique to you two. If you mean something that neither of you have tried with anyone else you'll have to give us a bit of direction.

Have either of you experimented with BDSM?

No, neither of us have got into it heavily. Sorry I’ve been a bit vague! I guess we just want something intimate that is our own.... perhaps I’m not being clear enough!

Thanks for replies though!

I'm not being obstructive but it's only truly going to be your own if you come up with the idea yourselves.

How about reading some literature fiction and non-fiction together and seeing if you can get some ideas to build on. Or discussing your most intimate fantasies and trying to make one reality.

Thanks, that’s a good idea. And yes, I’m not suggesting anything no-one has ever tried before! Just wondering what people here have shared with someone where it’s about intimacy and not just a fuck! "

The intensity of your relationship makes it more than just a fuck surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea. New experiences strengthen and enrich relationships. You just have to find something that is new and exciting to both of you.

Given the context of this forum I'll suggest a romantic trip to a sex club in Amsterdam, Fun4Two or Fata Morgana.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasabi

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi all,

Have developed quite an intense relationship with someone on here (female) and we want to share something new with each other which is just for us, that we’ll remember.

Any ideas or inspiration...?

J x"

STI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Have developed quite an intense relationship with someone on here (female) and we want to share something new with each other which is just for us, that we’ll remember.

Any ideas or inspiration...?

J x"

There are a few video's about of guys that like there balls nailing to planks of wood, you could try that?

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

How about role play.

A scenario that you are both into! Different characters, hotel bar, parking lot, on a boat, whatever you both like?? both keep in character and play it out as you both want it to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the key. Everyone has fantasies or things they would like to try......... discuss..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask her to piss on you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ask her to piss on you ?"

Isn't that like standard second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fishing here as, like others, I'm a bit unclear as to what you're looking for. But a recent date of mine had a big thing for gin. So we have gin and start to fuck. We kiss gin kisses. I lick her. We kiss with her wetness. I drink gin. We kiss and she licks the gin off my tongue mixed with her wetness. It's cute little erotic things like that which can become a couple's "thing"

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve seen this guy several times over the last three years or so. I’ve seen him fullly dresses once and that was our first social meet. Since then any time I’ve gone to his flat,

I’ve arrived naked and in a coat and he’s been in his bath robe just out the shower. That’s become ‘our thing’ I guess. We play, have a chat and give each other a massage.

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester


"I’ve seen this guy several times over the last three years or so. I’ve seen him fullly dresses once and that was our first social meet. Since then any time I’ve gone to his flat,

I’ve arrived naked and in a coat and he’s been in his bath robe just out the shower. That’s become ‘our thing’ I guess. We play, have a chat and give each other a massage. "

If you have only ever seen each other naked, then why not go out for dinner with clothes on, that would be pretty unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lunch at ikea

The meatballs are lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fishing here as, like others, I'm a bit unclear as to what you're looking for. But a recent date of mine had a big thing for gin. So we have gin and start to fuck. We kiss gin kisses. I lick her. We kiss with her wetness. I drink gin. We kiss and she licks the gin off my tongue mixed with her wetness. It's cute little erotic things like that which can become a couple's "thing" "

I love this, I do it with whiskey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about non painful restraints? This is something I’ve been looking at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all, lots of good (and not so good!) suggestions! Keep em coming if you have more!

Next time we meet she is answering the door in a short skirt and tight top (she is tiny) and riding my face on the stairs...

But we’re still discussing and on the lookout for something that feels special between us that we’ve not done with others

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why don't you ask her to piss on you ?

Isn't that like standard second meet "

Dammit, I've been keeping that to the third meet! -sighs- I'll need a copy of the rules again.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Thanks all, lots of good (and not so good!) suggestions! Keep em coming if you have more!

Next time we meet she is answering the door in a short skirt and tight top (she is tiny) and riding my face on the stairs...

But we’re still discussing and on the lookout for something that feels special between us that we’ve not done with others"
have you no imagination? You both know what you like so just elaborate a bit on that rather than asking a bunch of strangers what they are into?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best intimate sex I've had on here was at swingers club , me and this man i when with was so much into each other we just when in the swimming pool stayed in there all night it was one of most horniest the sexiest things ever just me and him no one joined in I don't know if anybody was watching I really don't care we was in a world of our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best intimate sex I've had on here was at swingers club , me and this man i when with was so much into each other we just when in the swimming pool stayed in there all night it was one of most horniest the sexiest things ever just me and him no one joined in I don't know if anybody was watching I really don't care we was in a world of our own"

Is sex allowed to happen in club swimming pools?

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