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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am just wondering what people like to get. Obviously, no one liners, no calling people hun etc, addressing both people if writing to a couple etc.....

However, do people like a clean introduction or smutty?

What do you girls go for? What do you chaps find works well?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I am just wondering what people like to get. Obviously, no one liners, no calling people hun etc, addressing both people if writing to a couple etc.....

However, do people like a clean introduction or smutty?

What do you girls go for? What do you chaps find works well?"

They could offer me Shakespearean sonnets, but if their profile is not what I am looking for, it's a waste.

No long copypaste 'fantasy' messages though. They make me cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean for me, but I would have thought the profile of the person your messaging may give you a clue as to what kind of messages they are looking for........

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By *weetcorruptionCouple
over a year ago

At home

I'd have to say clean too,dirty once you know me.

I find it insulting if someone is rude before they've even taken the time to say hi.

S xx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

G-man - for someone who is never short on eloquence in the chatroom I'm surprised you have to ask.

But send me £50 and I'll PM you with my secrets lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"G-man - for someone who is never short on eloquence in the chatroom I'm surprised you have to ask.

But send me £50 and I'll PM you with my secrets lol!"

Lol m8 I guess i'll just have to ask for anal sex more often

I just kee forgetting how dificult it is to start again in a new city, after all I've only been in Liverpool a month....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowadays, I find it easier to strike up conversations via the forums, by commenting on a post privately etc...

Direct unsolicited messages tend to result in a block if I am not interested in whatever the senders may have to offer.

This way, it prevents further contacts and wasting each other's time and efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean and polite for us. A dirty first message results in the sender being blocked. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is no perfect message to suit everyone

you should read the profile and/or postings on here, look for common ground and find an anchor that way - if there is attraction and common ground, then you are more likely to get a response - but not always !

I find overt sexual references quite offputting in messages especially early ones.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"G-man - for someone who is never short on eloquence in the chatroom I'm surprised you have to ask.

But send me £50 and I'll PM you with my secrets lol!

Lol m8 I guess i'll just have to ask for anal sex more often

I just keep forgetting how dificult it is to start again in a new city, after all I've only been in Liverpool a month....

"

I feel you brother - was just the same when I moved to London but I know that you know the score and you're one of the blokes that "get it" so you don't need to be told what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a message to say something about them and not a copied profile clip

and maybe a ace pic and something that makes me smile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww Tobs I feel the love, brother....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just think what would keith lemon send them, then crank it up so its twice as filthy then press the send button and watch the fanny come flocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just think what would keith lemon send them, then crank it up so its twice as filthy then press the send button and watch the fanny come flocking "

Ahh if only Keith Lemon ran the country. Compulsory 'back door' smashing for everyone. Holly wiliboobie mmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just think what would keith lemon send them, then crank it up so its twice as filthy then press the send button and watch the fanny come flocking

Ahh if only Keith Lemon ran the country. Compulsory 'back door' smashing for everyone. Holly wiliboobie mmmmm."

if he did fab would replace facebook!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who the fuck is Kieth Lemon...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you not watch celeb juice? its the guy who did bo selector. but now he has a celeb game panel show where he mainly just cracks onto fit birds torturing them, its quite funny on thrusdays after ten itv 2 i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just think what would keith lemon send them, then crank it up so its twice as filthy then press the send button and watch the fanny come flocking "

This made me laugh - i guess you could be the current fab record holder for appearing on the most block lists!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just think what would keith lemon send them, then crank it up so its twice as filthy then press the send button and watch the fanny come flocking

This made me laugh - i guess you could be the current fab record holder for appearing on the most block lists!"

haha my messages are quite tame really im a good boy at heart who just likes being naughty :p

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