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By *lackOnlyGF OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately!

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

How you both choose to earn your living is no one else business. You are on a swinging site to play!...and that's what you're doing.. I suspect the critism is probably more to do with jealousy than anything else. Good luck to you both, you both seem lovely so enjoy...

Jen..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find those who send abusive mail are the types you'd never meet in a million years! Jealousy springs to mind.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Two separate things, people shouldn't confuse them..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Had no idea you worked in porn, it's not on your profile. Some guys have way too much times on their hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're getting hate for doing something you enjoy and it doesn't harm in anyway. Then ignore, block and report the haters

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By *lackOnlyGF OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

thank you everyone xx

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

sheesh can you imagine a world without porn ...shudders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that is the problem with swinging today. Too many people confuse the two!

As others have said, it's down to jealousy. They can't differentiate between work and relaxation.

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

The same could be said for many professions.

Police

Lawyer

Judge

School teacher

Yet swinging is for whoever wants to do it regardless of what you do for a living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people have a problem distinguishing between fantasy and reality online, and this is why they find it hard to distinguish between your work and your lifestyle

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

It's you life to do what you want with can't ,understand why people would judge you both on here at the end of the day a job is a job. And if you enjoy it how is that effecting anyone else they will always be haters in the world just press the block button. There are plenty on here to meet that won't judge you both

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I know people in the adult entertainment industry as well as sex workers who also happen to enjoy swinging. The work and fun are separate.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

You don’t have to work in porn to get horrible messages on Fab. Pretty much every hot couple we know gets them. Block and ignore

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

By the mis guided messages your getting a Chef can’t cook at home then ?

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Nobody ever criticised me and I did both parallel from 1983-2015. But I suppose it's different for girls !

PS I didn't retire from porn. The internet just made it to difficult to make money from shooting it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

If you guys ever fancy a break come visit us

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By *rsRogersTelfordWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I have no problem people working in porn and swinging, to us it’s a profession, no different from working in a chippy. The few people I’ve spokwn to when out who have worked in porn have all said the same thing... everything is staged, all the pics and angles take ages to get, and it’s not some romantic romp, but a job.

However...

The people I do take a bit of an issue with are the people who are convinced they are porn stars. They pretty much always look the exact same way; Big headed but average looking, with an ugly bloke, and a bit of a bimbo. Can’t stand that sort...

But people like you who actually know what you’re on about? Play on! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life if very short..so it's each to their own ..you do not have to answer to anyone... it's about being happy ..

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I think some people have a problem distinguishing between fantasy and reality online, and this is why they find it hard to distinguish between your work and your lifestyle "

But thankfully on here, many may as well walk around with a target on their head. So easy to spot, so easy to block, and have nothing to offer than just another cock...

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We’ve played with a porn star recently in a club and can confirm it was very much real and AMAZING

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Had no idea you worked in porn, it's not on your profile. Some guys have way too much times on their hands!"

Exactly this. We were looking at your profile earlier because your pics are amazing. Now we understand why they are so professional. Ignore and block the hate mailers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like watching porn and playing with myself Mmmmmm lol

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz just stay happy x

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on minute! Porn is fake!!! Where was the spolier alert on this post?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Black Bulls

Having read your profile maybe you get unpleasant messages because of how you come accross.

For me I found it to be unfriendly and aggressive but hey you can always block me.

Great pics btw

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I do not think that being porn actors and being swingers are mutually exclusive

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"Black Bulls

Having read your profile maybe you get unpleasant messages because of how you come accross.

For me I found it to be unfriendly and aggressive but hey you can always block me.

Great pics btw"

What’s wrong with there profile? Are you sure you read the right one ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

For some reason there's a growing sense of entitlement on here of late.

You're in adult entertainment so you're an easy ride in their mind, so how dare you have preferences to exclude them.

Report abuse and enjoy your life. Don't waste it on nonentities.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Amateur porn is so much better than porn films that is all fake ,in amateur films you know its happning there and then ,there are so many tricks of the trade in porn movies ....

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We've been on Fab for quite a few years now & have never noticed any bad feeling about us being in the industry & swinging too, being around in the porn industry for 20 years most know of us before they meet us if that make sense so its half the battle won.

You shoot a different porn to us using only fit hard bodied people where we shoot people porn anyone from 21 to 80 all sizes & colours, the average swinger might feel intimidated by the way you have wrote your profile as its rather direct with a lot of shouting so a friendlier approach with your likes /dislikes might work a bit better.

We get sent free invites to get into lots clubs/parties here & in Europe not because we shoot porn but because we are real friendly & within the reach of the normal swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no reason why you shouldn't enjoy swinging just because you work in the adult industry. NO one has the right to judge you.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would love to get into porn and fuck pornstars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

Their just jealous. Your a very sexy couple that look great together

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Had no idea you worked in porn, it's not on your profile. Some guys have way too much times on their hands!"

Adult industries right at the end after all the shouty bits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters are going to hate. Sounds like pure jealously to me. Ignore and or block the meanies and keep living in the way that makes you both happy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Haters are going to hate. Sounds like pure jealously to me. Ignore and or block the meanies and keep living in the way that makes you both happy "

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life you should do what makes you happy and not worry about what anyone else thinks!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Haters are going to hate. Sounds like pure jealously to me. Ignore and or block the meanies and keep living in the way that makes you both happy

This x"

This....

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

How you doin'

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By *osabellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I've slept with or seen at parties several people who have worked in porn (both A-list and lesser known). They enjoy sex as much as anyone else.

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside


"I've slept with or seen at parties several people who have worked in porn (both A-list and lesser known). They enjoy sex as much as anyone else."

I once had a threesome with a woman who worked for playboy (yes this is all true) she loved sex and was lovely and chatty. Course you can do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

You can swing in any profession...just so happens your profession looks like a lot of fun!

After looking at your profile, I’ll certainly be checking out your, erm, work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep no notice of them,

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

We were the opposite to you guys having made/produced porn for years we were introduced to the swinging world, at the time we were as dubious of swingers as they were of adult industry workers so we can understand their fears.

It's off putting at clubs sometimes because people think you are in porn mode 24/7 & want you to do the same things as they've seen in my films.

It would be great to a actually go to a party/club & not be recognised one time, if you are a car salesman or a tax inspector no one asks about your job but if you do porn people don’t stop talking about it...porn stars are people too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with working in Porn and swinging....

But if you two were married playing away and barebacked.... People would have the pitchforks and torches out

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By *ealskipperMan
over a year ago

between london and


"I think some people have a problem distinguishing between fantasy and reality online, and this is why they find it hard to distinguish between your work and your lifestyle "

You say some I say “many” on here

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By *ealskipperMan
over a year ago

between london and


"Black Bulls

Having read your profile maybe you get unpleasant messages because of how you come accross.

For me I found it to be unfriendly and aggressive but hey you can always block me.

Great pics btw"

Badly written and long I’ll give you but aggressive......... probably just written the way they fuck. CAPS ON, caps off with lots of resting space inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

Not sure, but can you get me a pizza and fix the kitchen sink?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Working in porn or the sex industry is a job, swinging is a recreation. Don't see why anyone should object to anybody swinging for their own pleasure.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Any of these porn jobs going 9” plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

We've all had horrible messages... Welcome to the Internet. Always somebody who doesn't like something!

Anyway there are coppers, traffic wardens, people in politics on here - I'm sure if they tell everyone what they did, they would be hated at least by one. Just block! You can't keep everybody happy!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

No horrible messages from me.....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "
your life is your life nothing to do with swing ...i think who said that you its kinda close minded...

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Wow is this thread still going lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel some people seem to think that because we work in porn you cannot be a swinger.

Newsflash..PORN IS FAKE..its a job

Swinging to us anyway is a lifestyle and we have enjoyed it before we ever got into the porn biz

What are your thoughts on this as we have had some really horrible messages lately! "

We know people who swing and work in porn - why shouldn’t they do both?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Absolutely think you should be fully able to enjoy both, I have no problem with it whatsoever, completely different things even though united by sexuality.

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