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When your Mojo takes a kicking...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do to get back on track ASAP or do you just let it come back naturally and resign yourself to that fact that it could take some time?

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Surround yourself with friends and family who love you and can lift you x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I let mine return when it's ready.

We all have dips in our mojo, and you cannot force it to return. It will, when you are ready. And sometimes one just fluctuates between mojo-ish and mojo-less...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost mine after a relationship break-up. That was 4 months ago and it’s coming back. It does return, I think it’s just our body’s natural cycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hide away for ages and wait for it to come back "naturally" on its own. But I eventually realised that this was costing me huge swathes of my life, and now I try to get back on the horse as quickly as possible.

A very good friend once gave me some advice, when I was beating myself up over some nonsense or other. He said, treat yourself with the same compassion and patience and understanding that you would extend to anybody else. Easier said than done but keeping that in mind gets me through a lot of bad times.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

It will come back. Ours took bit hit year or two ago but now it's back to the most we've every had it. 3times thrus, 5 times FRi. 7 times on sat, 3 times Sunday, 2 times already today and this time last year, once every month or 6 weeks.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I lost mine July last year and still can’t find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the last 15 years my mantra has been that you only get one life and the one you get is short enough as it is. If your mojo is on a sabbatical, don't worry about it, see it as an opportunity to do other things that you enjoy and make you happy for a little while instead. A happy bear is a playful bear!

Sending good vibes your way fella

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost mine but it's come back with a very over stimulated vengence. Give your self time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if fab swingers is the greatest site to help restore mojo, I know sometimes our mojo is effected by feeling ugly and unsexy. When you try making contact with people and keep getting turned down it can knock the confidence even further which in turns lowers the mojo. However in the same breath I find a good sexy meet can respark the mojo for us.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Mine went for a while end of last year /beginning of this,due to illness.

I just let it return on its own and thankfully Jack understood and wasn't too bothered about us having meets.

I think most of us go through it,hope you enjoy your time away and come back all refreshed.

Miss

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I found mine behind the sofa

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Try the gym or cycling, exercise releases feel good endorphins and you will be felling and looking better before you know it. Plus there's always hot chicks in yoga pants. Triple win lol. Chin up buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is your mojo?

i'm assuming sex drive ?

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

I'm low and cant snap out of it at the moment

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By *_TelfordMan
over a year ago

Telford

I’ve heard Korean Ginsing works wonders for this, one of the few natural herbs that actually not only works, but works for a lot of things. Amazed it’s not talked about more really! G x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Lost mine a few years ago, but only for a few months. Realising you've lost it is pretty much the major first step to getting it back. You can't languish. You need to get straight back on that saddle.

Losing a bit of weight I'd put on pretty much sorted it. As soon as people start asking if you've lost weight and you start feeling better about yourself your mojo comes screaming back.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"what is your mojo?

i'm assuming sex drive ?"

Nope.

Google is your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently had a year away from playing, mojo seems to have returned so we're fully back on the scene, no good trying to rush it, it'll return when your ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexual mojo is literally always there, my life mojo however is a different story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s amazing what a little rest and sunshine can do!! Hope everyone’s Mojo is heading in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s amazing what a little rest and sunshine can do!! Hope everyone’s Mojo is heading in the right direction "

Ahh you’re back

Glad you’re feeling better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can loose mine occasionally and whenever I do it seems like everyone else on here are having the time of their lives, which really doesn't help.

So.......I take a little step back from here and spend time and chatting to those who genuinely care about me.

My mojo usually then returns pretty quickly of its own accord.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s amazing what a little rest and sunshine can do!! Hope everyone’s Mojo is heading in the right direction

Ahh you’re back

Glad you’re feeling better "

Yeah feeling good thanks hope your anniversary mojo is in full swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good news - i think it’s back

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