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3 out of 7 - shameless plea for approval

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:

4x Not my type/no reply

1x At least you're normal ( )

1x Yeah, you're cute

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)

Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'd say you are doing way better than average with that sort of response.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Please feel free to put your face in my in box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please feel free to put your face in my in box "

Haha! Just sprayed beer on my phone! I may just do that!

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

At least you got a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least you got a reply "

Not always! Do hate that, though! I know Fab FAQ's say no reply = not interested but it just seems so rude! Especially after a good long, sexy message exchange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can a 44 year old man be 'cute ?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least you got a reply "

But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"At least you got a reply

But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?"

Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least you got a reply

But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?

Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply "

No sarcasm whatsoever, not my style, I assure you - you look delightful, genuinely! But that's true, a reply is a reply whatever it says. I'm just pretty thin skinned, I think!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can a 44 year old man be 'cute ????? "

Slightly cuter than a 55 yr old man

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"At least you got a reply

But don't tell me you don't get a reply to yours? Surely not?

Do I sense a hint of sarcasm??? Lol. My point is, most men complain about the lack of replies from single women. And all I’m saying is, even if it’s a thanks but no thanks, at least you got a reply

No sarcasm whatsoever, not my style, I assure you - you look delightful, genuinely! But that's true, a reply is a reply whatever it says. I'm just pretty thin skinned, I think!"

You’ve had 3 veris by 3 meets. I’d say don’t take it personally. It’s a case of personal preference. If we all liked the same thing, how boring would life be! Move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say you are doing way better than average with that sort of response. "

That's heartening, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are doing very well. Single blokes can send 100 different unique messages and get a lot less replies so count yourself lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a 44 year old man be 'cute ?????

Slightly cuter than a 55 yr old man "

Cute personality huh

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Do you mean you’re attaching a face pic to an early message? If that’s the case you’re doing well. Response rates to unsolicited stuff is low.

Or do you mean you’re chatting, getting on well, then you send a face pic and they scarper? Ouch. It stings but not everyone fancies everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last 10 all with full messages,no quick 1 liners and a face pics

7 no reply

2 reply and a nice flowing convo

1 block

Hard for a single man..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds interesting let's see what my next 10 will get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So 10 sent

4 replies (2 positive

2 neutral replies so maybe more talk )

4 read and ignored

2 read and deleted

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:

4x Not my type/no reply

1x At least you're normal ( )

1x Yeah, you're cute

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)

Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "

You’re getting replies though OP. Keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great response rate and I'm a bit puzzled as to why you'd think otherwise.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Send me your pics. I’ll rate you...

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Seem to be doing better then most men!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Even people I have met and friended sometimes don’t reply to me

But then they might off had loads of mails.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:

4x Not my type/no reply

1x At least you're normal ( )

1x Yeah, you're cute

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)

Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "

Try sending out 100 and see what u get ??

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i"

I am.surprised you have the time to read people's profiles, decide if you fit what they are looking for, and then written a personal message that would interest them.

Possibly you are sending cut and paste messages and not taking the time and effort needed to get replies. Just a thought

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:

4x Not my type/no reply

1x At least you're normal ( )

1x Yeah, you're cute

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)

Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "

Have you measured lately? Maybe you're a solid 6.5??

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL

Mate.....you got a reply FROM A GIRL!!! on fab!???? WTAF??? dude, fuck solid 7, you must be a whole 110%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, face pic sent to 7 people after some lengthy messaging. Out of 7 the responses were:

4x Not my type/no reply

1x At least you're normal ( )

1x Yeah, you're cute

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut (that was, to be fair, the cock pic not the face pic)

Call me Mr Doom and Gloom but it's hard not to accentuate the negative - is this a reasonable return rate or do I have to accept I'm not the solid 7 I thought I was before joining fab? "

Cute can sometimes be good OP. When I say someone is cute, it means I find them attractive. I can't be the only one who says that . That's an above average response rate. Take a bow

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"

1x Get here and fuck me like a slut "

Literally just cringed to high heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv sent 100s of messages with a face pic on the 1st message, iv had 3 responses, the rest are either no reply or delete, blocked or marked as unread. Id love to get on with this site but im slowly losing interest. Best off sticking to my right hand, just me, myself and i

I am.surprised you have the time to read people's profiles, decide if you fit what they are looking for, and then written a personal message that would interest them.

Possibly you are sending cut and paste messages and not taking the time and effort needed to get replies. Just a thought "

Utterly pointless reading profiles and writing new messages when 99% of women don't bother replying.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

3 responses out of 7 sounds pretty good if you read some of the posts on the forum.

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