FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice please

By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

Hi All,

Been on here a year but have only really been putting the effort in again over the last month.

Last time I got a few ladies who started chatting, but just kept it there. Which isn't really what I'm after.

I am still yet to meet someone directly from fab, I attended a few socials and made some very nice connections, for which i received a few verifications.

So am I doing something wrong? is it the 3 eyes or the hump that's putting folk off.

I'm fun, honest, easy going and love to laugh. I do feel a bit sad writing this, but I am getting frustrated, by the lack of interest. Thanks x

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By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

Anyone please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures could be better and actual profile doesn’t really say what you can offer anyone.

Floppsy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are twirly bits??

Search the forums as this has been covered many, many times.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself more personable ... stand out from the crowd and sell yourself a bit more. Your profile is your shop window, make it appealing to would be customers, of course customers are very choosy but once you have their attention it’s then up to your sales pitch to bag the sale!

Happy shopping

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By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

Thanks all.

Flopsy - i need more detail and better pics

BBRose - Twirly bits, my way of saying i enjoy the details, not just the fire

Daddydom - Yup my shop looks a bit bland i guess

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would expect to see the verification from the man. I’m always suspicious of men who describe themselves as straight, have a meet veri from a man and then hide it. Especially Mr Hypocrite Steve

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can only agree with what has already been said - better pics are an easy fix with a camera on timer, a bit of imagination and using some basic filters like black and white etc - if you're not that creative look around at what other guys go for but avoid disembodied cock pics as they're not overly popular.

Profile text really could be a whole lot better - what you have currently is from the minimalist school and tells a reader nothing about you or what you think you can offer etc. - you need to standout from the crowd and get some personality across.

Socials, clubs and even the forums are all good places to get to know people and get known so consider getting along to more/getting more involved.

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By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

Thanks all, bloke Mr Secrets, who verified me from social is no longer on here. The verification was up but think it removed when he left, that's my guess.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Personally.. I don't think there's any right or wrong way to go about it...

All my meets.. Maybe a dozen... Have all been about being in the right place at the right time and met within the hour... No need for all the chit chat malarky,we just wanna fuck.. That's all

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

You actually sound like a nice guy, but yes experiment a bit with your pics and good luck

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By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

I've made some changes, it's that tug o war, between being yourself and standing out. Genuine wins out for me. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

Been on here a year but have only really been putting the effort in again over the last month.

Last time I got a few ladies who started chatting, but just kept it there. Which isn't really what I'm after.

I am still yet to meet someone directly from fab, I attended a few socials and made some very nice connections, for which i received a few verifications.

So am I doing something wrong? is it the 3 eyes or the hump that's putting folk off.

I'm fun, honest, easy going and love to laugh. I do feel a bit sad writing this, but I am getting frustrated, by the lack of interest. Thanks x"

Can't see why (from your profile) you not had a "naughty" meet to be honest as looks nice to us, maybe it's you're approach ?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've made some changes, it's that tug o war, between being yourself and standing out. Genuine wins out for me. Thanks"

Nice to see a smiley face!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I quite lijecthectext, ambivalent about the photos...

You would benefit from a recent verification I reckon

You have clearly been to socials in Derby, so maybe try The Attic. It's a friendly club, so even if you don't get sex, you should get to chat and hopefully a verification.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It should say "I quite like the text"

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By *agnumsrnnice OP Man
over a year ago

Town

Thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi every one.

Im new to this and could do with some help.

Im not really getting any where with this.

im no oil painting, but im good fun and easy going.

Any advice how to get a bit more female attention.

thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hi every one.

Im new to this and could do with some help.

Im not really getting any where with this.

im no oil painting, but im good fun and easy going.

Any advice how to get a bit more female attention.

thanks"

Type in ‘profile advice’ or something similar into the forum search box and start reading. Have a think about what is good advice that you could use.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Hi every one.

Im new to this and could do with some help.

Im not really getting any where with this.

im no oil painting, but im good fun and easy going.

Any advice how to get a bit more female attention.

thanks"

You could start by starting your own thread, rather than jumping on someone else's, otherwise things get confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

Been on here a year but have only really been putting the effort in again over the last month.

Last time I got a few ladies who started chatting, but just kept it there. Which isn't really what I'm after.

I am still yet to meet someone directly from fab, I attended a few socials and made some very nice connections, for which i received a few verifications.

So am I doing something wrong? is it the 3 eyes or the hump that's putting folk off.

I'm fun, honest, easy going and love to laugh. I do feel a bit sad writing this, but I am getting frustrated, by the lack of interest. Thanks x"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi every one.

Im new to this and could do with some help.

Im not really getting any where with this.

im no oil painting, but im good fun and easy going.

Any advice how to get a bit more female attention.

thanks"

Read through your profile carefully. There are a few typos.

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