FabSwingers.com forum: Married but Solo

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on the site a while had a few meets and some goodtimes but feel that I'm missing out on more I'm married but play solo and looking for daytimes nsa not desperate or an evil person and fed up being treated like that so would love to hear any comments folks might have that will.help me out

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Being married will have an impact but you have it on your profile so the people who will meet attached people can make an informed choice.

You will only be treated a certain way if you allow people to treat you that way... The site is open to all.

By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Sum ppl will meet you if they r meeting single blokes.With ourself we do meet single female married or not.Its the persons choice n who r we to question?after all this is just nsa fun.So gudluck.......

By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

One positive is that you saqy your married on your profile so thats in your favour. Many wont meet purely because thats their/our choice but we would never berate or critisize what you decide to do. There are those on here that may do so but then thats aloso their choice. one thing maybe we could offer as some constructive advice is that neither the married men who dont tell others they are married who are lets just say "cheats" Never say whether if its in the full knowledge of their spouses. I know a least 2 ladies who swing at clubs whos hubbies cant have sex any more and its been discussed and agreed, they are in love but undrstand each other and there is no deceit involved either with each other or their potential playmates, to us thats totally understandable and great communication. If your ife does know then say that as well as it will make a lot of difference with some people and may help you, we wish you well and good luck with your search x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will meet attached people, as long as there isn't any deception with their partner.

If you are honest and open with your partner and them, then perhaps they just don't like meeting single(solo) men.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont think anyone can give you any comments that will help you out. You have been honest and as others have said it is up to individuals should they want to meet up with you. One thing i would say though is dont assume people do not want to meet with you because you are married you may purely just be "not their cup of tea" so to speak. good luck x