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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

No still means no

But what other kind of rules ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?"

No torches allowed

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

No running, no shouting, no bombing, no wait that's the local pool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No still means no

But what other kind of rules ?"

Well when you go in is it just hands everywhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

No torches allowed"

Thanks for your witty comment. You have made me start my day with a smile

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?"

Same question here. In theory would love to try it. In practise I don't want to get mauled!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

Same question here. In theory would love to try it. In practise I don't want to get mauled! "

Don't play rugby then!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"No still means no

But what other kind of rules ?

Well when you go in is it just hands everywhere?"

No, there is still enough light to know who you are with and decide who touches you, where and how.

The usual rules do apply.

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

Same question here. In theory would love to try it. In practise I don't want to get mauled! "

I've been in them before, never been mauled (even in the dark I'm not good looking enough!) and never mauled anyone. I have enjoyed myself though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No still means no

But what other kind of rules ?

Well when you go in is it just hands everywhere?

No, there is still enough light to know who you are with and decide who touches you, where and how.

The usual rules do apply."

Thanks for the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people still think that just because you go into a swingers club that rules don’t apply... Bloody hell there’s more rules in a swingers club than there is in a pub/normal club. You’re still in control of what happens

Dark rooms are pretty sexy, you never know what will happen! C x

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

In most European clubs the dark rooms are exactly that, DARK.

While normal rules do still apply anyone who enters can expect to get (at least) groped. If you don't want that then don't go in.

We sometimes play a little game. We will play with someone in a dark room then from things we have touched (clothing, jewellery Etc) we will try to figure out later who we were playing with.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"A lot of people still think that just because you go into a swingers club that rules don’t apply... Bloody hell there’s more rules in a swingers club than there is in a pub/normal club. You’re still in control of what happens

Dark rooms are pretty sexy, you never know what will happen! C x"

I've been to clubs, but outside the darkroom I can choose who touches me and who to avoid .Even then I've had randoms thinking it was ok to sidle up and rub their cock against random bits of me (ie my foot!).

Therefore I have doubts that wandering hands and hard ons would be easy to avoid under the anonymity of darkness...

So maybe not for me .

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I think the general idea of a dark room is that you don't mind any wandering hands, groping, etc!!

If you really mind anyone of a certain age, ethnicity, whatever touching you---definitely not the place to be.

The ones I've been in were pitch black, no way of telling who was there or how many.

No still means no, of course, but I think that just going into a dark room implies you're there for the anonymous groping (much the same way that going to a glory hole implies what it does). You're certainly not there to watch any action???

I've never had a bad experience.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I do enjoy a good dark-room mauling!

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"I do enjoy a good dark-room mauling! "

I enjoy the anonymity of what goes on in a dark room.

If anyone is too rough or doing something I don't fancy it's easy to push them away.

Main issue is if you start to fuck in there checking they have a condom on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the male half used to love the dark room at fabs had some great fun in there the only rule I can tell you other than no means no was couples had to enter as couples and single ladies could go in alone but guys couldn't. That didn't stop some. There were also stories of guys getting someone to get them into the club then split up and take up residence in the dark room for the night, cannot confirm this to be true.

They are fun but keep your wits about you, there are often people who'll attempt bareback if your not prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule 1, no lego

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"I the male half used to love the dark room at fabs had some great fun in there the only rule I can tell you other than no means no was couples had to enter as couples and single ladies could go in alone but guys couldn't. That didn't stop some. There were also stories of guys getting someone to get them into the club then split up and take up residence in the dark room for the night, cannot confirm this to be true.

They are fun but keep your wits about you, there are often people who'll attempt bareback if your not prepared. "

We like the way some of the Spanish clubs arrange the dark rooms.

One side of the room is for couples and single lady's only and the other side is mixed.

Between the two sides they have prison style bars so if a lady want's to be groped, or do some groping herself, she can press herself up to the bars. When she has had enough she can just take one step back and she is out of range.

Of course if she wants full on she can just enter on the mixed side.

We've had some good fun in these rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do enjoy a good dark-room mauling!

I enjoy the anonymity of what goes on in a dark room.

If anyone is too rough or doing something I don't fancy it's easy to push them away.

Main issue is if you start to fuck in there checking they have a condom on."

Insist on glow in the dark rubbers... light sabers anyone?

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By *our LamourCouple
over a year ago

'near that London'

Sounds good... which Spanish clubs ? (Don’t think any in GC like that ?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People still use darkrooms?!?!

I thought it was all digital photography these days?

oh, hang on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

Same question here. In theory would love to try it. In practise I don't want to get mauled! "

Sure u could push one hand away or reposition it?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The one at Infusion's is a DARK dark room. Couldn't even see your hand in front of your face. When townhouse host RAW, their dark room is still fairly well lit with ambient light.

As others have said, by entering you give your consent to be groped initially but you still have the right to block further contact. Obviously in a total dark room it'll be hard to see things coming (so to speak) and harder to keep track of who's touching you.

We do like the anonymity of them

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Rule 1, no lego "

Rule 2: if you drop anything- don’t bend over to pick it up

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Sounds good... which Spanish clubs ? (Don’t think any in GC like that ?) "

Both Jardin del Eden and Cupido in Alicante have one.

Also La Arboleda de Similia (LADS) in Elche and as I remember Cupido Benidorm as well.

Come to think of it we don't remember any in GC either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The one at Infusion's is a DARK dark room. Couldn't even see your hand in front of your face. When townhouse host RAW, their dark room is still fairly well lit with ambient light.

As others have said, by entering you give your consent to be groped initially but you still have the right to block further contact. Obviously in a total dark room it'll be hard to see things coming (so to speak) and harder to keep track of who's touching you.

We do like the anonymity of them "

This is exactly what we wanted to know. Of course when we enter we are giving consent to be groped but still want the right to refuse further contact

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By *our LamourCouple
over a year ago

'near that London'

Anybody know which UK clubs have proper, very dark, dark rooms?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Wow I've been missing out maybe I could tag along with one of you one day I'd love to be groped inappropriately lol

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

In dark rooms everyone looks green to me. Until I take my night vision goggles off, that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No running, no shouting, no bombing, no wait that's the local pool. "
you forgot no heavy petting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we love dark rooms. One of our favourite games when playing forfeits at home to get the party started is a card which states we all have to go to the dark room. It more or less guarantees the party will start as fondling and snogging quickly begin.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I the male half used to love the dark room at fabs had some great fun in there the only rule I can tell you other than no means no was couples had to enter as couples and single ladies could go in alone but guys couldn't. That didn't stop some. There were also stories of guys getting someone to get them into the club then split up and take up residence in the dark room for the night, cannot confirm this to be true.

They are fun but keep your wits about you, there are often people who'll attempt bareback if your not prepared.

We like the way some of the Spanish clubs arrange the dark rooms.

One side of the room is for couples and single lady's only and the other side is mixed.

Between the two sides they have prison style bars so if a lady want's to be groped, or do some groping herself, she can press herself up to the bars. When she has had enough she can just take one step back and she is out of range.

Of course if she wants full on she can just enter on the mixed side.

We've had some good fun in these rooms. "
sounds like the dark room at Pandoras in Leeds. Their room is deprecated by cell like bars and an entrance at each end

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I've been in a very dim lit room at the Greenhouse in Newport with 6 or 7 other guys. I couldn't see them but boy my hands everywhere. And the other guy's hands and mouths were licking and sucking me too.

It was so so horny.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Me and my girl have talked about dark rooms and both really turned on by the fantasy of it. But some of the practical implications ruin it for us in reality. I guess we'd would love to step into a dark play room and lose ourselves if there was some kind of vetting and control of entry for who was in the dark room. I suppose we'd like a scenario that the people in there would be all people we'd like to play with (and them us) and more importantly people we could trust.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth

I used to go in the dark room at abfabs with my ex , lots of groping goes on but my fav night was when she was riding me in there .........and a guy strted groping her then after a bit his cock was sliding into her arse.

Was pretty hotand still in my wank bank !

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I do enjoy a good dark-room mauling!

I enjoy the anonymity of what goes on in a dark room.

If anyone is too rough or doing something I don't fancy it's easy to push them away.

Main issue is if you start to fuck in there checking they have a condom on.

Insist on glow in the dark rubbers... light sabers anyone? "

Luminous condoms There is a great deal of potential with this idea but don’t they need some light on them first before they start glowing? *Lightsaber sounds “oooohh the force is strong in this one”

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Pick a dark room that is dark but not so dark you don’t know what’s happening. The dark room in Quest is good as light comes through the open door. It allows just enough light in. I once tried a dark room so dark I To this day have no idea who was in there. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close the door after you ve entered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then my only concern how would you know if they ve put the condom on - and keep it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the dark room at infusion.

When its pitch black it seems to heighten the senses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first rule of dark room is you do not talk about dark room.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Dark room rules.

Number one has got to be "don't turn the light on" surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go into a dark room and you’re accepting being groped? Errrr..... no!

Thank god the dark room I’ve been to is more respectful.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be confident and ready to assert your boundaries at all times.

Progressively let your eyes and brain adjust to the darkness: it helps if you don't immediately enter from the brightest possible place, as your eyes will see nothing at first.

Try to find the quietest spot, so that you can settle your vision. (This won't stop others scuttling to you but at least means you're not immediately impaled by accident. )

If you're with someone, keep in physical contact, so that you know which body you can trust.

I find it often better to enter and leave a few times, whilst I'm settling myself, before the fuller action. Your eyes will probably adjust quicker each time too. If you want 100% darkness, you could always wear an eye mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh we love dark rooms. One of our favourite games when playing forfeits at home to get the party started is a card which states we all have to go to the dark room. It more or less guarantees the party will start as fondling and snogging quickly begin. "

Sounds like a great start to the party! So you have a dark room at home or just black out curtains?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"We would love to try a dark room in a club. Is it a free for all or is there rules?

Same question here. In theory would love to try it. In practise I don't want to get mauled! "

They smell a naked woman from a mile away....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

“It must have broke ya poor lil heart when the boys used to say.. she looks better in the da-a-ark”

Sing along now.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Love the dark room at infusion.

When its pitch black it seems to heighten the senses."

The dark room at Infusion is good, but cannot help but giggle at how many folks go in to have a look

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By *our LamourCouple
over a year ago

'near that London'

Going to a dark room on a couples only nite is the plan ....

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

I went to a club in mercia in Spain and their dark room layout was brilliant. I actually went as a single guy as I was on holiday with a friend and they have a couples side and a male (or anyone) side. In between the 2 is a dark room with bars separating the two sides, whenever a couple enters the room they can press a button which turns on a light outside the room on the male side to let them know someone is in there. They can then do whatever they wish through the bars or just move out of reach if they wish. Was a brilliant setup and if I was to run a club over here is defiantly something I would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldnt resist going in shouting "Marco" lol

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I reckon I’m too clumsy... I’d be treading on folks’ fingers and spoiling the fun... “ooh sorry love...” “what’s that? Is it your nose”...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the dark room at infusion.

When its pitch black it seems to heighten the senses.

The dark room at Infusion is good, but cannot help but giggle at how many folks go in to have a look "

Its true we all say it tl ourselves.

What we want to say out loud is i will just go in and feel about

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