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"We love women been bi curious/sexual why not men?" Its Just the way it's I am afraid but it is changing every year and becoming more accepted year on year. It does seems more guys are coming out as Bi these days and that can only be a good and healthy thing for them and the bisexual swinging community as a whole Xx | |||
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"We love women been bi curious/sexual why not men?" Sexism perhaps. It was never illegal for women. Men are supposed to be macho. Submitting to another man can be seen as not being. Gay/bi men are statistically a higher risk of carrying nasties than non swingers. | |||
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"There are plenty out there that are accepting of male bisexuality and even better that actively look for it - in fact I'd go as far as to say that for every couples or single lady profile on here that won't meet bisexual men, there are an equal number that look for it. Similarly clubs are offering specified Bi Nights more. Agree there's a long way to go until the ideal situation of clubs accepting male bi play on any night, and I think that's more to do with the clientele that attend them than the clubs themselves in most cases. I don't think you'll ever completely change some people's opinions though, especially where they're grounded in bigotry but that's the same with any other "ism" out there. Sadly a lot of bi men on here don't help the cause or themselves by hiding their sexuality in a misguided attempt to get round the preferences of those that won't meet bi guys (overlooking the fact that they close the door on people that look for them by doing so). Or by trying to push other people's boundaries where it's not welcome. Personally I'm happily and openly bisexual and totally accept that some people will have valid reasons/preferences for not wanting to meet me, just as they might not want to meet me because of the fact I am in my 50s, have greying hair and an average body." Just looked at your profile. It’s very tastefully done. X  | |||
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"We love women been bi curious/sexual why not men?" The many posts on these forums seem to indicate that bi men are very popular with many couples and single females let alone other bi men. | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. " Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . | |||
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" Personally I'm happily and openly bisexual and totally accept that some people will have valid reasons/preferences for not wanting to meet me, just as they might not want to meet me because of the fact I am in my 50s, have greying hair and an average body. Just looked at your profile. It’s very tastefully done. X "Thank you - that's what I aim for so that's a huge compliment  | |||
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"It's a question that's puzzled me for some time too...could never decide if it is down to sexism, after all, bi women are in incredible demand... stereotyping, I don't know the stats on it, but I know I certainly take care of myself and get regularly checked, as do most of us on here...or whether it's just down to a little squeamishness... I'm openly bi and while I do get why guys hide it and pretend to be straight on their profiles I don't think they do themselves any favours, as has been said already there are plenty of open minded or bi people on here that are more than happy to play with bi guys, realising it just adds to the fun... It seems to be a growing thing too, long may it last..." Amen to that | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . " Statistically swingers/prolific people carry as many sti’s as bi men. Fact. | |||
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"Personally I love bi men. Mmmmmmmm. Hello fellas "Hello. | |||
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"Good question OP. Is it because women are more open to trying new things? I have met so many men who won't even discuss men being bi, they shoot it down in flames. " I think there are "some" men who struggle with the whole concept of male on male sex and even in this day and age relate it to "being gay" so fear plays it's part, even though it's a totally irrational and illogical fear. I'm not saying all men have a bisexual side in the slightest but logic dictates that there are a number who are "curious", either consciously or sub-consciously, who don't explore it because they're scared of what it might mean and put on a macho/closed minded front to hide it as a result. I've fully embraced my bisexual side now and whilst I've not had a male only meet, wouldn't rule it out if the right person came along that I felt comfortable exploring with, and would do so just as happily as I would if I were meeting a woman safe in the knowledge that it doesn't mean anything other than I am just as happy playing with a cock as I am a lady. | |||
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"Good question OP. Is it because women are more open to trying new things? I have met so many men who won't even discuss men being bi, they shoot it down in flames. I think there are "some" men who struggle with the whole concept of male on male sex and even in this day and age relate it to "being gay" so fear plays it's part, even though it's a totally irrational and illogical fear. I'm not saying all men have a bisexual side in the slightest but logic dictates that there are a number who are "curious", either consciously or sub-consciously, who don't explore it because they're scared of what it might mean and put on a macho/closed minded front to hide it as a result. I've fully embraced my bisexual side now and whilst I've not had a male only meet, wouldn't rule it out if the right person came along that I felt comfortable exploring with, and would do so just as happily as I would if I were meeting a woman safe in the knowledge that it doesn't mean anything other than I am just as happy playing with a cock as I am a lady." You're a very wise man | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . Statistically swingers/prolific people carry as many sti’s as bi men. Fact. "Sorry but anyone that doesn't use a condom wether bi or straight will get sdi's fairly easily and those of us who like to play safe wont catch one. Ah you say what about oral sex, well everyone of us that likes to suck cock have as much chance of catching something wether you are straight or bi unless you know all of your partner's ex partners etc etc allways used condoms. There are so many ways to be bi from full on anal to just a bit of touchy feely play and all things inbetween so I think the question would be to a partner bi or straight is do you use condoms. Bi fun is the way for us. I have a beautiful wife who likes to watch me and join in sucking a nice cock or play with a sexy lady. | |||
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Sorry but anyone that doesn't use a condom wether bi or straight will get sdi's fairly easily and those of us who like to play safe wont catch one. Ah you say what about oral sex, well everyone of us that likes to suck cock have as much chance of catching something wether you are straight or bi unless you know all of your partner's ex partners etc etc allways used condoms. There are so many ways to be bi from full on anal to just a bit of touchy feely play and all things inbetween so I think the question would be to a partner bi or straight is do you use condoms. Bi fun is the way for us. I have a beautiful wife who likes to watch me and join in sucking a nice cock or play with a sexy lady. [/quote
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We also wouldlike to say being bi for us is a 3some or moresome and isn't one on one sex in same or seperate rooms and we don't just swap which it maybe the way for some. Maybe we are on the wrong site. What do you think guys bi's and Gals and everyone one else too xx | |||
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"quote] We also would like to say being bi for us is a 3some or moresome and isn't one on one sex in same or seperate rooms and we don't just swap which it maybe the way for some. Maybe we are on the wrong site. What do you think guys bi's and Gals and everyone one else too xx" I think we all find our own way on the site and there's no right or wrong way about it - we're all entitled to use it how we like in terms of what we're looking for. I love group bi sessions just as much as I do one on one they each have their different appeals | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . Statistically swingers/prolific people carry as many sti’s as bi men. Fact.
Sorry but anyone that doesn't use a condom wether bi or straight will get sdi's fairly easily and those of us who like to play safe wont catch one. Ah you say what about oral sex, well everyone of us that likes to suck cock have as much chance of catching something wether you are straight or bi unless you know all of your partner's ex partners etc etc allways used condoms. There are so many ways to be bi from full on anal to just a bit of touchy feely play and all things inbetween so I think the question would be to a partner bi or straight is do you use condoms. Bi fun is the way for us. I have a beautiful wife who likes to watch me and join in sucking a nice cock or play with a sexy lady. "Sorry? Confused by that. Sounds like we agree with each other. I didn’t say anything about people not using condoms. | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . Statistically swingers/prolific people carry as many sti’s as bi men. Fact.
Sorry but anyone that doesn't use a condom wether bi or straight will get sdi's fairly easily and those of us who like to play safe wont catch one. Ah you say what about oral sex, well everyone of us that likes to suck cock have as much chance of catching something wether you are straight or bi unless you know all of your partner's ex partners etc etc allways used condoms. There are so many ways to be bi from full on anal to just a bit of touchy feely play and all things inbetween so I think the question would be to a partner bi or straight is do you use condoms. Bi fun is the way for us. I have a beautiful wife who likes to watch me and join in sucking a nice cock or play with a sexy lady.
Sorry? Confused by that. Sounds like we agree with each other. I didn’t say anything about people not using condoms. "My answer was to the stats. The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's so if your straight or bi you have the same chance of getting one but if you factor in people who have sex everyday in the woods or beaches or toilets or clubs or just swinging parties your chances of catching something go higher wether you are straight or bi so the stigma of being bi should disapere soon as the younger generation seem to be taking there sexual freedoms in a more open way these days so let's hope they use condoms | |||
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" My answer was to the stats. The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's so if your straight or bi you have the same chance of getting one but if you factor in people who have sex everyday in the woods or beaches or toilets or clubs or just swinging parties your chances of catching something go higher wether you are straight or bi so the stigma of being bi should disapere soon as the younger generation seem to be taking there sexual freedoms in a more open way these days so let's hope they use condoms " I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. | |||
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" My answer was to the stats. The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's so if your straight or bi you have the same chance of getting one but if you factor in people who have sex everyday in the woods or beaches or toilets or clubs or just swinging parties your chances of catching something go higher wether you are straight or bi so the stigma of being bi should disapere soon as the younger generation seem to be taking there sexual freedoms in a more open way these days so let's hope they use condoms I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. " As I said if your promiscuous your likely catch something wether your straight or bi and I am far from ill-informed as swingers are spreading sdi's around the world because of the amount of swingers who dont use condoms so dont blame us bi people like ypu are and yes Mr cleverclogs you can still gets things even with a condom so maybe have a good look first before diving in | |||
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" I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. As I said if your promiscuous your likely catch something wether your straight or bi and I am far from ill-informed as swingers are spreading sdi's around the world because of the amount of swingers who dont use condoms so dont blame us bi people like ypu are and yes Mr cleverclogs you can still gets things even with a condom so maybe have a good look first before diving in" Errrrr where did I blame bisexuality on the spread of STI's?! If you'd actually read any of my posts here or looked at my profile you'd know I am openly and proudly bisexual myself and actually very defendant of anyone that is. It was you that said, and I quote "The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's" which is wholly inaccurate and nowhere did you acknowledge that there are other ways STI's can be contracted even with the use of condoms in your original statement and it was THAT which needed addressing. Also being promiscuous does NOT mean that you will catch an STI but being irresponsible WILL increase the likelihood. If you're as well informed as you claim then that's great but your posts here so far haven't shown a great deal of that to be honest. | |||
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"They sound like a Daily Mail reader." Your showing your Intelligence mate. It should be he sounds like a daily mail reader or they probably read the daily mail. You sound like a bully mate. Don't get personal | |||
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" I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. As I said if your promiscuous your likely catch something wether your straight or bi and I am far from ill-informed as swingers are spreading sdi's around the world because of the amount of swingers who dont use condoms so dont blame us bi people like ypu are and yes Mr cleverclogs you can still gets things even with a condom so maybe have a good look first before diving in Errrrr where did I blame bisexuality on the spread of STI's?! If you'd actually read any of my posts here or looked at my profile you'd know I am openly and proudly bisexual myself and actually very defendant of anyone that is. It was you that said, and I quote "The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's" which is wholly inaccurate and nowhere did you acknowledge that there are other ways STI's can be contracted even with the use of condoms in your original statement and it was THAT which needed addressing. Also being promiscuous does NOT mean that you will catch an STI but being irresponsible WILL increase the likelihood. If you're as well informed as you claim then that's great but your posts here so far haven't shown a great deal of that to be honest." Whatever. Being personal end the conversation. Tara | |||
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" I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. As I said if your promiscuous your likely catch something wether your straight or bi and I am far from ill-informed as swingers are spreading sdi's around the world because of the amount of swingers who dont use condoms so dont blame us bi people like ypu are and yes Mr cleverclogs you can still gets things even with a condom so maybe have a good look first before diving in Errrrr where did I blame bisexuality on the spread of STI's?! If you'd actually read any of my posts here or looked at my profile you'd know I am openly and proudly bisexual myself and actually very defendant of anyone that is. It was you that said, and I quote "The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's" which is wholly inaccurate and nowhere did you acknowledge that there are other ways STI's can be contracted even with the use of condoms in your original statement and it was THAT which needed addressing. Also being promiscuous does NOT mean that you will catch an STI but being irresponsible WILL increase the likelihood. If you're as well informed as you claim then that's great but your posts here so far haven't shown a great deal of that to be honest." | |||
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" I'm sorry to say but there's an awful lot wrong with what you have posted there, and you're incredibly ill informed and naive if you actually believe it. To say you won't get STI's if you use a condom is incorrect, and in fact quite foolhardy to believe - it reduces the risks significantly but is NOT 100% safe - there are also STI's that can be passed on even with condom use, herpes is one I believe, genital warts another and there are others besides. There's then the risk of infection through oral which many of us don't protect against and can result in many different STI's. Of course the more people you meet the higher the chance of coming across someone who is infected, which is why we all have to assess and take our own risks and mitigate against them through condom use and regular testing. Yes there is a stigma attached to bi/gay men due to a perceived higher risk of STI's and I'm all for reducing that stigma but it is partly borne (rightly or wrongly) out of the relatively higher levels of promiscuity amongst bi/gay men compared to others. Again though we each as individuals have to assess the risks we take and guard against them as best we can, and that includes by ensuring we are as knowledgeable as possible about those risks. As I said if your promiscuous your likely catch something wether your straight or bi and I am far from ill-informed as swingers are spreading sdi's around the world because of the amount of swingers who dont use condoms so dont blame us bi people like ypu are and yes Mr cleverclogs you can still gets things even with a condom so maybe have a good look first before diving in Errrrr where did I blame bisexuality on the spread of STI's?! If you'd actually read any of my posts here or looked at my profile you'd know I am openly and proudly bisexual myself and actually very defendant of anyone that is. It was you that said, and I quote "The only stat you need to know is that if you use a condom you won't get std's" which is wholly inaccurate and nowhere did you acknowledge that there are other ways STI's can be contracted even with the use of condoms in your original statement and it was THAT which needed addressing. Also being promiscuous does NOT mean that you will catch an STI but being irresponsible WILL increase the likelihood. If you're as well informed as you claim then that's great but your posts here so far haven't shown a great deal of that to be honest. " | |||
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"Hello guys. Bisexual people do not carry nasty things, we are just as clean as the next person, everyone with sense knows this, plus they get tested like we do. We are bisexual and we love to meet other bisexuals, be it a couple, two ladies, two guys, that goes for singles as well btw? Getting naked and naughty is the best feeling, we don’t need to worry who’s touching what and we tend to be more relaxed in company, this makes what ever happens a hell of a lot better. Statistically bi men carry the most sti’s . Fact . We aren’t bothered about that and have met as many bi men as straight , as we take care of ourselves . Statistically swingers/prolific people carry as many sti’s as bi men. Fact.
Sorry but anyone that doesn't use a condom wether bi or straight will get sdi's fairly easily and those of us who like to play safe wont catch one. Ah you say what about oral sex, well everyone of us that likes to suck cock have as much chance of catching something wether you are straight or bi unless you know all of your partner's ex partners etc etc allways used condoms. There are so many ways to be bi from full on anal to just a bit of touchy feely play and all things inbetween so I think the question would be to a partner bi or straight is do you use condoms. Bi fun is the way for us. I have a beautiful wife who likes to watch me and join in sucking a nice cock or play with a sexy lady. "We always use condoms. So we’re as safe as the next person, but orally, who knows? | |||
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