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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?"

yes of course it is

you cant go and choose who looks at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes thats the fun of going to a clubs mixing with new people have fun . Dressing up so people think you look sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious as to why the club must have loud music???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?"

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The F Club is a night club based swingers club.

HTH.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious as to why the club must have loud music???"

We won't be able to have fun without. It's not the drinks and the atmosphere but the music which does it for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???"

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all."

it was a statement ... not a question ... could not give a toss if your wife knows or not as it wont affect me in the slightest.

and if you dont like the answers... or people knowing your business... then dont ask the question !!!!

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By *r n mrs happy101Couple
over a year ago

telford,shropshire

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By *r n mrs happy101Couple
over a year ago

telford,shropshire


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all.

it was a statement ... not a question ... could not give a toss if your wife knows or not as it wont affect me in the slightest.

and if you dont like the answers... or people knowing your business... then dont ask the question !!!!"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Let me know if you find such club then i can avoid it. Cant bare loud music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[quote/]I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?[\quote]

Alot of clubs have music, however, i don't think you should try and convince/coerce/persuade or however you want to put it, your wife into going to a club, if she doesn't feel comfortable then its not the right environment for her. but whatever, your choice.

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By *oobbiensarCouple
over a year ago

erith

Yes the busiest club we have been to with loud dance/nightclub music is Eureka's in Kent only 6 miles from Dartford tunnel.

They hold regular Sat night parties and attract around 200+ swingers of all ages.

It's a great place for the nervous newbie mainly because of it's nightclub atmosphere and friendly members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really a fan of loud music.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all.

it was a statement ... not a question ... could not give a toss if your wife knows or not as it wont affect me in the slightest.

and if you dont like the answers... or people knowing your business... then dont ask the question !!!!"

It was a statement with question mark(s). What a hostile response. Is there really any need to treat fellow forumites like this?

I can understand why you got the response you did

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Not a swingers club but a club that welcomes ALL genders and has an incredibly loud disco is the Pink Punters at Fenny Stratford near Milton Keynes. There`s no mistaking the club with it`s "Gay, Lesbian, Transgender" proclaimation outside. You`ll find plety of cross dressers and TVs there and the disco provides ear plugs FOC!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all.

it was a statement ... not a question ... could not give a toss if your wife knows or not as it wont affect me in the slightest.

and if you dont like the answers... or people knowing your business... then dont ask the question !!!!

It was a statement with question mark(s). What a hostile response. Is there really any need to treat fellow forumites like this?

I can understand why you got the response you did"

a question mark is always used in text, when asking a direct question, or when asking someone else to ask themselves a question, even when compiling a quiz. you use question marks.

if you read a newspaper report that says a lawyer said to the defendent did you do it, it is printed with a question mark after it.

hope this helps you to make sense of my comments, it was meant as, are you doing the right thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[quote/]I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?[\quote]

Alot of clubs have music, however, i don't think you should try and convince/coerce/persuade or however you want to put it, your wife into going to a club, if she doesn't feel comfortable then its not the right environment for her. but whatever, your choice. "

Thank you all for your replies.

No, is not like that, we discussed about it, as a joke, and I feel there might be a little interest and I would simply like to throw the idea at her one evening.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I might be able to persuade my wife into going to such a club, see how it is, have some fun eventually.

Are there any clubs in London with loud music, and people dancing, like in a normal club?

Also, what's the atmosphere like, is it gonna be crowded with single guys eye balling you knowing we are there to possibly have fun?

"may be able to persuade your wife"

sounds to us as if you are having to push her into the lifestyle a bit ???

if so, not advisable. also looking at your verifications ... seems you have been meeting on your own ... does your wife know about this ???

"Persuade" might not be the correct word, I meant "convince", I am not a native English speaker hence the confusion.

As for who/why/when I've met people, I'd rather go to a church and tell them what's going on instead of answering your question, I honestly don't think this is your business, no disrespect at all.

it was a statement ... not a question ... could not give a toss if your wife knows or not as it wont affect me in the slightest.

and if you dont like the answers... or people knowing your business... then dont ask the question !!!!

It was a statement with question mark(s). What a hostile response. Is there really any need to treat fellow forumites like this?

I can understand why you got the response you did

a question mark is always used in text, when asking a direct question, or when asking someone else to ask themselves a question, even when compiling a quiz. you use question marks.

if you read a newspaper report that says a lawyer said to the defendent did you do it, it is printed with a question mark after it.

hope this helps you to make sense of my comments, it was meant as, are you doing the right thing?"

Of course, how silly of me to confuse the use of a question mark!!!!!

I hope that clears your conscience then?????? That wasn't a question but a statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course, how silly of me to confuse the use of a question mark!!!!! I hope that clears your conscience then?????? That wasn't a question but a statement

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Thanks Elkie, I feel the same. I initially replied with regards the "statement" but I have realised I am a bit better than that and dropped it.

I can't stand rudeness, that's the reason I left my fucking country but it seems I will never get rid of such people.

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