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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message

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By *aughtius MaximiusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message "

Read the persons/couples profile carefully and check what they like/dislike and age limit. If it’s a couple write to both to the man and woman. Then write a respectable message telling them how you match their requirements. Send a face if they ask for it. Don’t send a cock pic! Your message message may well be deleted if you do.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message "

Introduce yourself, mention briefly where you feel your profiles match and ask them to get back to you if interested.

A lot of profiles ask for certain words to be included or certain types of message. If you're happy to do that make sure you comply.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I tend to look at a profile as well as read a message, and if no effort has been made with either, it’ll get deleted. Anything where someone has clearly made an effort, or has a good profile / message will always get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something I struggle with. What makes a decent first message "

If it makes me smile. Win

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

... although having read your profile, you’d be a delete for me, unless your message was amazing!

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