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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I once met two friends who had set up a straight MM profile to meet women for MFM.

We chatted for a while first until I felt comfortable enough to meet socially. When we agreed to meet another time to play, I gave their car reg details and address to a friend who also arranged to call at a set time to check in on me and I also spoke to her when I left.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve. "

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Commenting so I can come back to this thread later to check the advice given.

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Good luck on your quest, as you know you make your own luck in life! To increase the odds of it happening plus from a safety point of view, it would be better to have one existing play partner then add another once you're happy and secure, safety wise!

Great pictures, you'll find what you're looking for! Enjoy x

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X"

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ...

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ... "

That’s my point, if that’s what she wishes to happen then that’s what should happen, regardless of who’s paying for it.

As a gentleman I would never let a lady pay though.

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

Apart from the usual chat fora while n meetfo a social, I Usually Confide in a friend (may a Fellow fabber whoknows exact details of when and where you are. Ask them to phone you during the meet then phone them when your finished and leaving thepla e. Of course any no answer or emergency call from yourself they can call for back up xx hope that helps x used it myself tho to be fair most guys I've met I feel comfortable with anyway xx maybe get recommendations of guys off other fems you may know x I've done that too as long as you do t mind sloppy seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ... "

I think she just wanted to say that she knows it would be safe in a club, as guys usually need membership and there is a lot of people around who could hear you if things go wrong, but she prefers privacy and comfort of hotel room. I might be wrong though

Kitten

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ...

I think she just wanted to say that she knows it would be safe in a club, as guys usually need membership and there is a lot of people around who could hear you if things go wrong, but she prefers privacy and comfort of hotel room. I might be wrong though

Kitten"

Yes you could be right, didn’t think of it that way, makes sense

HG

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ...

I think she just wanted to say that she knows it would be safe in a club, as guys usually need membership and there is a lot of people around who could hear you if things go wrong, but she prefers privacy and comfort of hotel room. I might be wrong though

Kitten"

Yep spot on. For me, CFNM crosses over with role play. My persona changes and I become more confident and bossy than in everyday life. A nice hotel room would add to the drama. A club is my second choice if I can’t find the right men to meet at a hotel, but rubbery wipe down beds and the sound of people tramping up and down corridors just doesn’t have the same sexy effect!

I will gladly pay for the hotel. In fact it all adds to the play scenario, I’m the one in charge nd the guys are basically there for my gratification. I’d arrive early, possibly have a spa treatment or just generally relax and enjoy myself. It’d likely be in the vicinity of a club so if they no show, I’m not comfortable or there’s just no attraction, then I can still go and enjoy myself elsewhere.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ...

I think she just wanted to say that she knows it would be safe in a club, as guys usually need membership and there is a lot of people around who could hear you if things go wrong, but she prefers privacy and comfort of hotel room. I might be wrong though

Kitten

Yep spot on. For me, CFNM crosses over with role play. My persona changes and I become more confident and bossy than in everyday life. A nice hotel room would add to the drama. A club is my second choice if I can’t find the right men to meet at a hotel, but rubbery wipe down beds and the sound of people tramping up and down corridors just doesn’t have the same sexy effect!

I will gladly pay for the hotel. In fact it all adds to the play scenario, I’m the one in charge nd the guys are basically there for my gratification. I’d arrive early, possibly have a spa treatment or just generally relax and enjoy myself. It’d likely be in the vicinity of a club so if they no show, I’m not comfortable or there’s just no attraction, then I can still go and enjoy myself elsewhere. "

Sounds like fun, you’ve thought most of it through, really hope it works out for you and it lives upto your dreams, keep us posted on the progress

HG

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By *wistedBoudoirCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Look up your local bdsm studio and hire it. Rates are normally quite cheap and you have the safety of staff nearby.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Aim for club or party meets so you have people near by. If my wife wants fun with more than one guy I'm either watching or nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did mine at a club

No problems or issues was a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure someone knows where you are and who you're with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’d like to arrange a MMF or double CFNM scenario where I have two males to play with instead of the usual one. Aside from the challenge of actually making this happen, I’m keen to here from single females, or female halves of couples who play alone this way, about what steps they take to ensure their safety.

I don’t have a regular male playmate at the moment so inviting an additional one to join isn’t an option. Hopefully will happen at a nice hotel for the luxury and comfort you don’t really get at clubs.

Thanks I’m advanve.

Can’t offer advice from a ladies point of view obviously, but would say extend the safety measures you take when meeting a single male to meeting two or more guys. Social first, get a feel for the type of guys they are, get their phone numbers and names etc so they are traceable etc.

And between two guys I’m sure they could come up with a few quid to pay for the luxury hotel you crave, infact if that’s what you want then insist on it.

Trust your instincts, if things don’t feel right, then don’t do it

Hope it works out for you.

And if you need someone then please just shout, my god your pictures are lovely..

All the best

HG

X

..”between two guys i’m Sure they could come up with a few quid...”????

As it’s her fantasy, her choice of venue type, when she’s arranged the men she doesn’t have to be hopeful she can simply book that luxury hotel. ...

I think she just wanted to say that she knows it would be safe in a club, as guys usually need membership and there is a lot of people around who could hear you if things go wrong, but she prefers privacy and comfort of hotel room. I might be wrong though

Kitten

Yep spot on. For me, CFNM crosses over with role play. My persona changes and I become more confident and bossy than in everyday life. A nice hotel room would add to the drama. A club is my second choice if I can’t find the right men to meet at a hotel, but rubbery wipe down beds and the sound of people tramping up and down corridors just doesn’t have the same sexy effect!

I will gladly pay for the hotel. In fact it all adds to the play scenario, I’m the one in charge nd the guys are basically there for my gratification. I’d arrive early, possibly have a spa treatment or just generally relax and enjoy myself. It’d likely be in the vicinity of a club so if they no show, I’m not comfortable or there’s just no attraction, then I can still go and enjoy myself elsewhere. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do this but with a partner. I'd suggest meeting one man first with a view to meeting another man with him later. I wouldn't trust 2 strangers but that's up to you.

It's definitely worth sorting out though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I arranged to meet two ladies at a hotel for a ffm, I told all my mates about it for safety purposes

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"When I arranged to meet two ladies at a hotel for a ffm, I told all my mates about it for safety purposes "

I think that was bragging rights really mate, and fair play to you

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Never NeverLand

As a fem who sometimes plays on her own. I will only play in clubs as it the safest way. Or if I know the person very well their house or hotel.

I think it's good idea to have a buddy you can tell your location to so someone know exactly where you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um, firstly what's CFNM?

Then......find another single girl or couple on here who you can buddy with. Look out for each other, compare notes etc.

Let her/them know who and where you are meeting. It's the swingers equivalent of posting a route plan before climbing a mountain! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, firstly what's CFNM?

Then......find another single girl or couple on here who you can buddy with. Look out for each other, compare notes etc.

Let her/them know who and where you are meeting. It's the swingers equivalent of posting a route plan before climbing a mountain! X"

Clothed

Female

Nude

Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, gotcha!

Never going to work here I'm afraid. Nude girl, nude boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, gotcha!

Never going to work here I'm afraid. Nude girl, nude boys! "

Haha! From the profiles it’s usually nude male clothed female

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Two straight well verified guys here available for MMF

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