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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I get the Mrs back into the mood for regular sex any sagestions anyone?

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By *n it 86Man
over a year ago

stevenage


"How do I get the Mrs back into the mood for regular sex any sagestions anyone?"

Talk to him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried to talk to her but I get no response.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Have you done anything that could upset her? Even if you think she can’t know about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No but she did have a rash some time ago, since then she's been quite.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Do you think she could have something to hide and how long has this been going on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's been over a month now since she had a 9" and stretch her good

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Maybe now we know why she is reluctant

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

good relationships are sustained by great communication and honesty Imo, so it's about working at this.

It may be about asking the right questions, at the right time, in the right way. Your motivation is likely better if it's about how you can support her, rather than how you can get her to have ssex with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have left it to her she'll tell me when she is ready.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

If you do that she will think you don’t care

Talk to her, let her know how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" good relationships are sustained by great communication and honesty Imo, so it's about working at this.

It may be about asking the right questions, at the right time, in the right way. Your motivation is likely better if it's about how you can support her, rather than how you can get her to have ssex with you. "

Perfect advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody can advise you on this unless they know the reason she's not feeling it at the moment. To find that out you need to talk to her, if she's reluctant to discuss the matter make it easier for her by telling her how concerned you are for her, that you're worried in case something is on her mind or she's feeling ill. Reassure her that whatever the problem is you'll sort it out together. Once you know why she feels the way she does you can discuss ways to deal with it together. That could be anything from couples counselling or changing her contraception through to simply realising that almost everyone has periods where they just aren't interested in sex and many other things in between.

Good luck to you both.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can’t imagine she will too happy to see this thread if I’m honest .

Asking a bunch of strangers how you can get your wife interested in you again as she lost interest since she had a rash , and then 9 inches which stretched her .....mmm...

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway


"It's been over a month now since she had a 9" and stretch her good "

Did she want to and enjoy being ‘stretched’ by a 9”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys I'll try to talk to her again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes she said she enjoyed it and felt a bit of a tere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes she said she enjoyed it and felt a bit of a tere. "

She was actually injured? Could that be the problem do you think? Imagine tearing the skin on your penis...

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By *affquestCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

My two pennorth worth

Come off here and make her feel like the only girl in the world. Neutral ground such as a quiet country pub or a nice meal. Maybe a night away where you pay for a pamper session in the day time .

Tell her she looks great . Tell her you love her. Tell her that she is special and you don’t want to lose what you’ve got- ask her nicely “ talk to me”

Then fgs listen.

Some good advice onhere and you know her best

Good luck.

I’m off to give my love a cuddle now and tell her I love her x

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"It's been over a month now since she had a 9" and stretch her good "

Keep this up and you'll go blind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes she said she enjoyed it and felt a bit of a tere. "

Plus a rash? I’d get to the clinic of I were you 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments but she's fine now, we definitely had the best night ever and she's now ready to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was worried about nothing it's just the rash she had. Women.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe now we know why she is reluctant "

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thanks for all your comments but she's fine now, we definitely had the best night ever and she's now ready to meet. "

Really? 11 hours after you started this thread? How do you get on in a crisis situation?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

citizens advice

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Thanks for all your comments but she's fine now, we definitely had the best night ever and she's now ready to meet.

Really? 11 hours after you started this thread? How do you get on in a crisis situation?! "

Just thinking the same....

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

Thats why I love the forum. Always can find something entertaining here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing you can do mate is talk to your wife and not to strangers on here, would she be happy if she found out you were on here telling everyone your marriage problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My two pennorth worth

Come off here and make her feel like the only girl in the world. Neutral ground such as a quiet country pub or a nice meal. Maybe a night away where you pay for a pamper session in the day time .

Tell her she looks great . Tell her you love her. Tell her that she is special and you don’t want to lose what you’ve got- ask her nicely “ talk to me”

Then fgs listen.

Some good advice onhere and you know her best

Good luck.

I’m off to give my love a cuddle now and tell her I love her x"

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Tbh...I'd be fuming if my OH posted something like this on here instead of talking to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panic over. Meeting again and ready for sex.

all in the space of 12 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic over. Meeting again and ready for sex.

all in the space of 12 hours"

And they all lived happily ever after

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"How do I get the Mrs back into the mood for regular sex any sagestions anyone?"

Yeah mate , send to us for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get the Mrs back into the mood for regular sex any sagestions anyone?"

Do the dishes

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