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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m starting to think that it doesn’t matter if you send a nice well articulated message or a naughty playful one! All them go automatically to the deleted icon!

I’ve been in other sites, but it seems here looks like single guys are not that welcome!

Probably I just need to be more patient!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe.

Are you messaging people whose criteria you definitely fit? That will increase your chances of a response.

Single men are welcome, many women and couples are looking to meet them.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are too busy observing your cucumber slicing skills XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have *no single guys* on our profile as do lots.

If a single guy hasn't taken the time to read and take heed they get blocked.

We did used to politely reply that we were not interested but good luck in your search, unfortunately this then normally got a reply such as "shame as I'd like to sniff your missuses knickers" or similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they are too busy observing your cucumber slicing skills XXX"

Hahaha, I never thought about it! But it’s sushi, not a cucumber!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe.

Are you messaging people whose criteria you definitely fit? That will increase your chances of a response.

Single men are welcome, many women and couples are looking to meet them.

Good luck."

Thank you for your message!

Yes, actually I prefer reading profiles and checking if the criteria matches, and then write! I don’t know if it’s because I still don’t have verifications. But then how if no one replies, lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have *no single guys* on our profile as do lots.

If a single guy hasn't taken the time to read and take heed they get blocked.

We did used to politely reply that we were not interested but good luck in your search, unfortunately this then normally got a reply such as "shame as I'd like to sniff your missuses knickers" or similar.

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You’re right, I’ve read lot of profiles that don’t allow single guys, and that’s a no for me to write as well!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about going to a social? I also zoomed in on the kitchen pic to see what you were doing

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP the kitchen pic has raised interest......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about going to a social? I also zoomed in on the kitchen pic to see what you were doing "

That sounds like a good idea to get the verifications, haha!

Probably I have to zoom the sushi roll, it might be more interesting, haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP the kitchen pic has raised interest......"

Ah least something is being on fire! Hahaha

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hey I'd rather see a pic of a cute guy making sushi than yet another tedious cock shot!

You've only been back three weeks so that's not long.

Don't take it too seriously and you'll be ok.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey I'd rather see a pic of a cute guy making sushi than yet another tedious cock shot!

You've only been back three weeks so that's not long.

Don't take it too seriously and you'll be ok.

Good luck "

Thank you Minnie, you’re so nice!

It’s what I tell myself, to take it easy, but you know in this matter is someone down there who is in charge, haha! I can’t help it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the way it is on here mate, you have to be able to take rejection. It’s all the sweeter then you succeed. The woman hold the cards until they meet us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'd rather see a pic of a cute guy making sushi than yet another tedious cock shot!

You've only been back three weeks so that's not long.

Don't take it too seriously and you'll be ok.

Good luck "

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Someone say sushi, yummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it was monster munch x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the way it is on here mate, you have to be able to take rejection. It’s all the sweeter then you succeed. The woman hold the cards until they meet us lol"

You’re completely right! ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone say sushi, yummy!"

It seems so!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s the way it is on here mate, you have to be able to take rejection. It’s all the sweeter then you succeed. The woman hold the cards until they meet us lol"

What happens after they meet you then ‘lol’?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes it makes no difference what message content it is, all women ate different so its impossible to het it right as we dont know the people when writing our first message, the biggest problem is new members get hundreds of messages, impossible fir to answer all so they mass delete, we need filters to stop messages from members hundreds of miles away as useless,the site needs filters to cut the messages even more than it has

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