FabSwingers.com forum: Just a little help and advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know this has been asked many times before by us single guys but here goes. I read all profiles as careful as I can so that I don't waste mine or their time, but when I have chatted with certain people we have become 'friends' on here then all of a sudden I get deleted with no reason given and then blocked! I had to turn down 3 meets due to illness and was being honest but 1 couple deleted me straight away! May be better we didnt meet if they are like that. Also can anyone give me a bit more advice on my profile, constructive criticism is welcome, thanks, Chip

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it all comes down to the reality of being on a swingers site. There are no guarantees and things can change at the drop of a hat, and at anytime. As for your profile, as you asked, it looks fine except for the part where you demand a response to your messages. This will be seen by some as you trying to tell them how to behave, and may therefore have the opposite effect.

By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Dont take deleting and blocking personally is the best advice i can give you.These are not real friends,just people you have spoken to online who for whatever reason have chosen to utilize two of the sight functions.

Demanding a response to messages is an instant block and delete for me.As i have said before if a pizza company puts a flyer through your door whilst you are at work do you call them and say thank you for your menu,i am not looking for pizza today but i will keep you in mind should my dietary requirements in the future involve pizza garlic bread or any italian influenced take away products?

By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

bugger site not sight

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bugger site not sight"

PMSL xxx