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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I havn’t been on this site for too long but I’ve been on it for a few weeks now and I seem to be having the exact same problem anytime I try to arrange a meet with someone

It usually says on their profile or they will bring it up that they don’t like to meet people who are unverified but I can’t get verified by someone unless they meet me so how will I ever get verified ??

If anyone has and advice on the topic feel free to share it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic "

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ?

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By *oneythiefMan
over a year ago

Perthshire


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ? "

Your profile seems ok. No offence but if you were bi I would pump you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ?

Your profile seems ok. No offence but if you were bi I would pump you "

I’m blushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ? "

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ? "

Yes

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Don’t change your profile, it tells me everything I need to know.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I havn’t been on this site for too long but I’ve been on it for a few weeks now and I seem to be having the exact same problem anytime I try to arrange a meet with someone

It usually says on their profile or they will bring it up that they don’t like to meet people who are unverified but I can’t get verified by someone unless they meet me so how will I ever get verified ??

If anyone has and advice on the topic feel free to share it ! "

You don't know what a paradox is, do you?

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Op please, please, please use a spell checker on your profile.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

You're 18. 99% of women on here will think you are too young. In addition your profile is aggressive and insulting.

Any man aged 18 to 22ish is not going to appeal to most on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You don't know what a paradox is, do you?"

I was just thinking the same thing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t change your profile, it tells me everything I need to know. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I havn’t been on this site for too long but I’ve been on it for a few weeks now and I seem to be having the exact same problem anytime I try to arrange a meet with someone

It usually says on their profile or they will bring it up that they don’t like to meet people who are unverified but I can’t get verified by someone unless they meet me so how will I ever get verified ??

If anyone has and advice on the topic feel free to share it ! "

mate just get to a club if your in liverpool you have several close by options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ?"

Yup

Failing that, try to get along to a social or a club night and get chatting to people there.

C

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"You haven’t asked for profile advice OP, you may like to look at any of the numerous threads on the topic

Do you think the problem is related to my profile ? "

Yikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id fuck ye

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Don’t change your profile, it tells me everything I need to know. "

Couldn't have put it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a Fab social or a club. Chat to people then hopefully they will verify you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I havn’t been on this site for too long but I’ve been on it for a few weeks now and I seem to be having the exact same problem anytime I try to arrange a meet with someone

It usually says on their profile or they will bring it up that they don’t like to meet people who are unverified but I can’t get verified by someone unless they meet me so how will I ever get verified ??

If anyone has and advice on the topic feel free to share it ! "

Try meeting people in person (at a social or a club) rather than relying on your profile and messaging to work the magic.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

"

Or reads it all.

OP, even if you were verified you could well still have trouble meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP obviously doesn't care as he's not bother to respond to any of his messages. Oh well, onwards and upwards.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

"

Although it’s very informative, isn’t it Fux.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

Although it’s very informative, isn’t it Fux. "

Isn't it just

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

That’s not an example of a paradox

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

Although it’s very informative, isn’t it Fux.

Isn't it just "

Ah, the wisdom of youth and the energy of old age

There’s a possibility that if you met him in a club he’d turn out to be a nice young man that just needed a woman’s guidance... I’m a firm believer in the adage that real gentlemen are created by women - unfortunately in the modern online world toxic masculinity is drip fed to young men

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Get yourself to a Cougars and Cubs or Young Guns club event, have a fucking ball. Ask to be verified.

PS

Your profile is shite and is putting off everybody who starts to read it....

Although it’s very informative, isn’t it Fux.

Isn't it just

Ah, the wisdom of youth and the energy of old age

There’s a possibility that if you met him in a club he’d turn out to be a nice young man that just needed a woman’s guidance... I’m a firm believer in the adage that real gentlemen are created by women - unfortunately in the modern online world toxic masculinity is drip fed to young men"

Of that I have no doubt but he needs to own his profile so it represents who he is and not how others think he should be just to get laid.

I applaud his guts to join in and attempt this at such a young age.

I wish all men would just go to socials and good club events to really understand the dynamic between the sexes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I havnt been active on the forum I was caught up with uni work !!

It’s a bit pointless replying to everyone individually now but I appreciate all the feeedback and I’ll be sure to take it on board

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohhh dear erm we not allowed to comment.

If you need verifying go to chat rooms and talk to people who may or may not help you out.

If using a computer please download Grammarly or an other spell checker. This can be very helpful.

I may be old but not deaf no need to shout. Good luck in your quest.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I havn’t been on this site for too long but I’ve been on it for a few weeks now and I seem to be having the exact same problem anytime I try to arrange a meet with someone

It usually says on their profile or they will bring it up that they don’t like to meet people who are unverified but I can’t get verified by someone unless they meet me so how will I ever get verified ??

If anyone has and advice on the topic feel free to share it ! "
Aggressive profile i cant imagine any female replying to u " maybe a desperate slut??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Based on your profile, I wouldn't meet you. You are alienating the very people you wish to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your profile. It's as blunt as a hammer and probably what most guys don't have the balls to say. Don't change x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love your profile. It's as blunt as a hammer and probably what most guys don't have the balls to say. Don't change x"

Looks like you've pulled OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love your profile. It's as blunt as a hammer and probably what most guys don't have the balls to say. Don't change x

Looks like you've pulled OP. "

Not in my age range but gets a fist bump from me for being as straight as a die x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Don’t change your profile, it tells me everything I need to know. "

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