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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decided to do up my profile yesterday from something quite basic. Constructive feedback would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok but could be better. You could say more about what you have to offer and put some more pics of you up especially body pics and face if you can. The line about asking if anyone wants to know more always irritates me for some reason! There are so many single guys on here that most people haven't got time or inclination to send messages asking questions. Not being able to accomodate means some people will assume you're married so if thats not the case you could say so on your profile. Good luck and hope this is helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback. I do have body/face pics in private, guess I should say so. And will explain why I can't accom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis in vagina shot as an avatar means an instant deletion from me. All your pics are of your penis so I haven't got the faintest idea of whether you're the body type I go for, and I wouldn't bother asking for one when other men have one openly displayed.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Dave,

The main issue here isn't so much the Profile, just the fact you are competing with so many other single males.

So, you have to sell yourself. For many people, just seeing Cock "shots" is a turn-off after the main text within your Profile.

You state you have face and body pics in your Friends page; make one of them "public" instead, and move the cock shots to the Friends only section.

That way, you have something else in reserve, to show once you have someone hooked!

Winks! Always a thorny topic. For me, I always ask if I can send a wink, if I have someone I'm talking to me.

I find more often than not, just asking if I can do so, pays dividends. Many people don't like winks being sent without a little bit of courtesy first.

But you have put together a Profile which is spaced out, that is in paragraphs, has no spelling errors, so well done.

Good Luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback. I will of course take it all on board

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Looks fine, but as per other comments on here, if I had a message from you, I'd want to see a pic of you and not just your cock x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Working on that over the weekend, thanks for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Penis in vagina shot as an avatar means an instant deletion from me. All your pics are of your penis so I haven't got the faintest idea of whether you're the body type I go for, and I wouldn't bother asking for one when other men have one openly displayed."

Same here...I would instantly delete - very off putting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok folks,

Made some changes. Hows it looking now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks ok to me but reading the bit about your messy break up makes me hope that the pics showing the fem is not your ex as that would not be right

Best of luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had a message from you i wouldn't reply due to the cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile looks ok to me but reading the bit about your messy break up makes me hope that the pics showing the fem is not your ex as that would not be right

Best of luck x"

Put that in to explain why can't accom. The photo is not of my ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text reads better than before but you still need better pics in public. Saying you've recently broken up with someone to explain why you can't accomodate is fine but using the weird "messy" could put people off as it implies emotional baggage which isn't welcome in swinging situations. My advice would be to drop all the cock pics with a woman attached and put some body pics up. Good luck. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with SouthNotts: mentioning a break up at all is a red flag to me: still carrying emotional baggage...not good in playmates.

Another no-no from me is prominence of different women on male profiles. Showing more of the female playmate than the person whose profile it is doesn't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys thanks for the feedback

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