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"Once upon a time , there was a Conservative Politician, an orange, a gag and some vaseline ..... " Think I need a bit more detailed than that.. lol... I am trying to redeam myself on this task.. cali | |||
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"wouldnt people on your specialist sites you use no more about it?" They might be tied up right now... | |||
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"wouldnt people on your specialist sites you use no more about it?" Naw...they tend to be too far up their own arses to type | |||
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"wouldnt people on your specialist sites you use no more about it?" no because they all just give you grief for not already knowing things.. and I know that there are a lot of people on here that could help... | |||
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"caveman grabbed cavewoman by the hair...cavewoman orgasmed... The rest tends to be high protocol bollocks taken from leather culture and the story of O There was a court case in 1922,will ask Sir the reference cos i forget where a Policeman arrested a man who was caning his wife in the woods,consent was denied as a defence. Ping me after i clean the kitchen if u want but 90% of what you read will claim BDSM was invented in the 70s "yes that is what I am finding.. to be fair I have gone to looking at human behaviour over the time we have been on and seen that it really has been slowly led out of society and that it has never really been dead and buried just hidden... and in the 70s it seems to have got a boost in popularity..
and I am on msn just hiding btw.. so if I see you pop on I will give you a poke..
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"What do you wish to know about ? everything or one thing ??" my task is this: Research and write about how S& M came about as a fetish, have a look at where it came from and how it has adapted throughout history. cali x | |||
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"What do you wish to know about ? everything or one thing ?? my task is this: Research and write about how S& M came about as a fetish, have a look at where it came from and how it has adapted throughout history. cali x" is this for you ? as you like it ? and part of this ? why ? | |||
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"For the small amount of dabbling that I have enjoyed... I believe that BDSM is as much about mindset as the physical... Perhaps you could look into psychological history to avoid the "experience" side of current documentation... Just a thought... "i never new that about you xx see we have some things in common , xx | |||
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" cali x is this for you ? as you like it ? and part of this ? why ?" Its for me but not a personal view.. its more about the history of it.. I have looked at the psychological before.. so dont think that this is about that side of it really.. I have however noted that as it is a big part of it that it can never be ignored... I know why I enjoy it.. it was just something that my Master has set me while he is away.. its been interestign but I keep hitting so many sites that its all about someones personal opinion.. not about where things developed from... as everything comes from somewhere. Cali x | |||
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"For the small amount of dabbling that I have enjoyed... I believe that BDSM is as much about mindset as the physical... Perhaps you could look into psychological history to avoid the "experience" side of current documentation... Just a thought... i never new that about you xx see we have some things in common , xx "Theres a lot that people dont know about me Jo... 
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"I have just googled "Facts about BDSM through history" and bumped into the ubiquitous Wiki page.... It is what it is... But half way down is section 6, history... For what it is... It could be used as a starting point for a fresh starting point...;-)" Yes I have read that bit.. I know that many subs on here get tasks as such.. and whilst not cheating.. I thought that a few may ahve some good pointers.. as much on the internet you read and think WTF... lol
Have come across some very very funny reads though.. and got sidetracked a few times..
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" Have come across some very very funny reads though.. and got sidetracked a few times..
cali"In my working day I find that the occasional diversion break, for a giggle, sets off a new approach to a problem which is bogging me down...;-) | |||
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" cali x is this for you ? as you like it ? and part of this ? why ? Its for me but not a personal view.. its more about the history of it.. I have looked at the psychological before.. so dont think that this is about that side of it really.. I have however noted that as it is a big part of it that it can never be ignored... I know why I enjoy it.. it was just something that my Master has set me while he is away.. its been interestign but I keep hitting so many sites that its all about someones personal opinion.. not about where things developed from... as everything comes from somewhere. Cali x" Ok if i were doing this...which i wouldnt cos its like being asked to give a history of sex... id start wth the karma sutra...first recorded use of supension and bondage... Then look at dream of the red chamber...Chinese classic,age play D/s no SnM though...Enlightenment Europe ,Sade particually julliette,Masoch,,Anais Nin then of course the bible....O The development of BDSM as a political/quasi religious movement is easy,(i am sure you have read lots claiming the fact! that BDSM started on 1972 lol).The aol chatrooms gave rise to slashy speak and the rise of most internet conventions.The spanner case and the one i mentioned earlier give an idea of the discrimination...but please include a look to the future and the fact violet wands are a a common sex toy and ann summers sells floggers
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