FabSwingers.com forum: Bondage - bed restraints and being dom

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys. I've an assignment I'm a little out of practise with at the moment. A girl I know, wants to be tied to the bed. I know she has some accessories like a pinwheel and nipple clamps. My question is, how do you make a request like this flow into something sexy?

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By *penminded respectableMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How do you mean flow into something sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm well I guess I mean steps to take? How to make it natural and not awkward? What sensations to tease and how/when to male the transition to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm well I guess I mean steps to take? How to make it natural and not awkward? What sensations to tease and how/when to male the transition to sex?"

I don't think you can plan it, it comes down to the moment.

The only advice I can give is don't rush it, that is the worse thing you can do. The tying and teasing is meant to be a build up, a foreplay as such. Take your time, don't be nervous and take your cues from her body language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm well I guess I mean steps to take? How to make it natural and not awkward? What sensations to tease and how/when to male the transition to sex?"

I know what you mean...

I get her to lay her toys out in preference order. I preplan, think about transitions, positions, rope work etc. I find it useful to remove senses... blindfold her and put on headphones with relaxing music (or something harder... white noise, porn audio, your voice). I find this makes it flow as she can't see you getting toys ready etc.

I have a general plan but you have to be attuned to the senses and feelings. It's just sex... the teasing will evolve into and include foreplay. I also set down ground rules. If she has to ask/beg for sexual contact... you will know when to strike

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Discuss with the lady if she likes to be teased for ages or if she wants you to go with what feels right.

There is no manual to suggest do this for 3 minutes, touch inner thigh for 30 seconds. Move to nipples blah blah blah

I would tune in to her moans and movements and just enjoy it.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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