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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ive sorted my profile changed my pics.

Why i am wondering as it seams most couples and singles mess you about and always put obstecales in the way. They start off keen and end up finding reasons why not.

Its getting tendius is it worth bothering im thinking to myself

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I just use it for the forums. If someone arranged a meet that’s a bonus

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's been three weeks, I'm curious, how long did you think it would take to meet someone? Three weeks isn't a long time, I assumed you'd been trying for months on end from your post!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well ive sorted my profile changed my pics.

Why i am wondering as it seams most couples and singles mess you about and always put obstecales in the way. They start off keen and end up finding reasons why not.

Its getting tendius is it worth bothering im thinking to myself "

You're the only person who can decide if it's worth it or not.

You could stick around with changed expectations maybe.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps after talking to you they have realised that you aren't who they want to meet?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Well ive sorted my profile changed my pics.

Why i am wondering as it seams most couples and singles mess you about and always put obstecales in the way. They start off keen and end up finding reasons why not.

Its getting tendius is it worth bothering im thinking to myself "

I’ve never found this to be the case.

What are you doing or saying to put people off meeting you?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe life gets in the way,or they thought you wouldn't gel

If it's happening alot ,it may be you are putting them off in some way.

Miss

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Maybe you are too pushy, maybe they aren't free the times you are. But as you have only been here 3 weeks and you are already having conversations with people and getting close to meeting up, you must be doing something right.

Be patient and give people chance to get to know you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you are too pushy, maybe they aren't free the times you are. But as you have only been here 3 weeks and you are already having conversations with people and getting close to meeting up, you must be doing something right.

Be patient and give people chance to get to know you ."

As Lizzy says

It took months before I finally got to meet this charming lady in person... maybe months before we meet again too... but worth the wait

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Maybe you are too pushy, maybe they aren't free the times you are. But as you have only been here 3 weeks and you are already having conversations with people and getting close to meeting up, you must be doing something right.

Be patient and give people chance to get to know you .

As Lizzy says

It took months before I finally got to meet this charming lady in person... maybe months before we meet again too... but worth the wait "

Flattery will get you everywhere Mr Marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you are too pushy, maybe they aren't free the times you are. But as you have only been here 3 weeks and you are already having conversations with people and getting close to meeting up, you must be doing something right.

Be patient and give people chance to get to know you .

As Lizzy says

It took months before I finally got to meet this charming lady in person... maybe months before we meet again too... but worth the wait

Flattery will get you everywhere Mr Marmite "

i do try my hardest sometimes missy

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