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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Can people please have a look at my profile and give me some advice as to how it looks or how it could be improved.

Thanks

Ian

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

that bit at the bottom re legal disclaimer... useless and has no authority whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks, will update with any other comments I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

cant see anything wrong with your profile, looks ok to me.

I guess if i was looking with a meet in mind (im not cos i dont live nr you!!) I'd be put off by your pics a little bit.

Lack of a body pic, and your not trimmed/ shaved.

But that's only my personal preference, so wouldn't necessarily put other women off.

Are you sending out lots of messages to people who you fit their preferences??

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I am sending out lots, but don't seem to get many replies.

Maybe should put all pics in private and send when requested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey there,

Yeah, you need to get rid of cock shots and replace with body/face shots,

That really puts alot of people off... xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Different pics might help, without the sink...maybe bum/ chest/ teasy shots. A pic for your avatar.

The rest of it looks ok to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) says you can accomodate sometimes in profile text - but in the usual section says you cannot, be consistant, some people wont read your profile text and assume you cant accomodate.

no accomodate as a single man is a massive warning sign, means your not single in most peoples eyes - dont matter if you have an excuse its still what people think, and what people think dictactes if you get a reply

2) no photos - says your "ample" but no photos to let people know what you class as ample, with no photo it also helps cause more suspicions and negative thoughts along the same lines as cannot accomodate (not single), again it does not matter if you have reasons why you cant show your face, it will still stop people contacting you.

also like i said you said you are ample, people need to see some photos so they can see what you class as ample as it wont be alot of peoples type, and often you get used to people picking a body type which they are bigger than, no photo and a undisriable body type probs makes some people think your hiding your photo, which does not make a woman feel safe if thats who you are trying to attract.

3) lack of verifications - your verified by another single man - yet your not down as bi/gay, this is immediatley suspicious and people might not even consider you truely verfied, looking at the dates it seems to me you joined the site and got someone to instantly verifiy, thats an alarm bell also.

I doubt your going to get much action if the above arnt sorted,

all your profile does is really say your age, that your ample and that you working in a pub want to find people to have sex with, theres nothing on there to make a woman or a couple gooo phrrroaarr i wouldnt mind meeting him, its a very very bland profile what could be anyone tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) says you can accomodate sometimes in profile text - but in the usual section says you cannot, be consistant, some people wont read your profile text and assume you cant accomodate.

no accomodate as a single man is a massive warning sign, means your not single in most peoples eyes - dont matter if you have an excuse its still what people think, and what people think dictactes if you get a reply

2) no photos - says your "ample" but no photos to let people know what you class as ample, with no photo it also helps cause more suspicions and negative thoughts along the same lines as cannot accomodate (not single), again it does not matter if you have reasons why you cant show your face, it will still stop people contacting you.

also like i said you said you are ample, people need to see some photos so they can see what you class as ample as it wont be alot of peoples type, and often you get used to people picking a body type which they are bigger than, no photo and a undisriable body type probs makes some people think your hiding your photo, which does not make a woman feel safe if thats who you are trying to attract.

3) lack of verifications - your verified by another single man - yet your not down as bi/gay, this is immediatley suspicious and people might not even consider you truely verfied, looking at the dates it seems to me you joined the site and got someone to instantly verifiy, thats an alarm bell also.

I doubt your going to get much action if the above arnt sorted,

all your profile does is really say your age, that your ample and that you working in a pub want to find people to have sex with, theres nothing on there to make a woman or a couple gooo phrrroaarr i wouldnt mind meeting him, its a very very bland profile what could be anyone tbh"

Think he may have more chance of a meet than you do now tho IMO

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"1) says you can accomodate sometimes in profile text - but in the usual section says you cannot, be consistant, some people wont read your profile text and assume you cant accomodate.

no accomodate as a single man is a massive warning sign, means your not single in most peoples eyes - dont matter if you have an excuse its still what people think, and what people think dictactes if you get a reply

2) no photos - says your "ample" but no photos to let people know what you class as ample, with no photo it also helps cause more suspicions and negative thoughts along the same lines as cannot accomodate (not single), again it does not matter if you have reasons why you cant show your face, it will still stop people contacting you.

also like i said you said you are ample, people need to see some photos so they can see what you class as ample as it wont be alot of peoples type, and often you get used to people picking a body type which they are bigger than, no photo and a undisriable body type probs makes some people think your hiding your photo, which does not make a woman feel safe if thats who you are trying to attract.

3) lack of verifications - your verified by another single man - yet your not down as bi/gay, this is immediatley suspicious and people might not even consider you truely verfied, looking at the dates it seems to me you joined the site and got someone to instantly verifiy, thats an alarm bell also.

I doubt your going to get much action if the above arnt sorted,

all your profile does is really say your age, that your ample and that you working in a pub want to find people to have sex with, theres nothing on there to make a woman or a couple gooo phrrroaarr i wouldnt mind meeting him, its a very very bland profile what could be anyone tbh"

Everything said here^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) says you can accomodate sometimes in profile text - but in the usual section says you cannot, be consistant, some people wont read your profile text and assume you cant accomodate.

no accomodate as a single man is a massive warning sign, means your not single in most peoples eyes - dont matter if you have an excuse its still what people think, and what people think dictactes if you get a reply

2) no photos - says your "ample" but no photos to let people know what you class as ample, with no photo it also helps cause more suspicions and negative thoughts along the same lines as cannot accomodate (not single), again it does not matter if you have reasons why you cant show your face, it will still stop people contacting you.

also like i said you said you are ample, people need to see some photos so they can see what you class as ample as it wont be alot of peoples type, and often you get used to people picking a body type which they are bigger than, no photo and a undisriable body type probs makes some people think your hiding your photo, which does not make a woman feel safe if thats who you are trying to attract.

3) lack of verifications - your verified by another single man - yet your not down as bi/gay, this is immediatley suspicious and people might not even consider you truely verfied, looking at the dates it seems to me you joined the site and got someone to instantly verifiy, thats an alarm bell also.

I doubt your going to get much action if the above arnt sorted,

all your profile does is really say your age, that your ample and that you working in a pub want to find people to have sex with, theres nothing on there to make a woman or a couple gooo phrrroaarr i wouldnt mind meeting him, its a very very bland profile what could be anyone tbh"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) says you can accomodate sometimes in profile text - but in the usual section says you cannot, be consistant, some people wont read your profile text and assume you cant accomodate.

no accomodate as a single man is a massive warning sign, means your not single in most peoples eyes - dont matter if you have an excuse its still what people think, and what people think dictactes if you get a reply

2) no photos - says your "ample" but no photos to let people know what you class as ample, with no photo it also helps cause more suspicions and negative thoughts along the same lines as cannot accomodate (not single), again it does not matter if you have reasons why you cant show your face, it will still stop people contacting you.

also like i said you said you are ample, people need to see some photos so they can see what you class as ample as it wont be alot of peoples type, and often you get used to people picking a body type which they are bigger than, no photo and a undisriable body type probs makes some people think your hiding your photo, which does not make a woman feel safe if thats who you are trying to attract.

3) lack of verifications - your verified by another single man - yet your not down as bi/gay, this is immediatley suspicious and people might not even consider you truely verfied, looking at the dates it seems to me you joined the site and got someone to instantly verifiy, thats an alarm bell also.

I doubt your going to get much action if the above arnt sorted,

all your profile does is really say your age, that your ample and that you working in a pub want to find people to have sex with, theres nothing on there to make a woman or a couple gooo phrrroaarr i wouldnt mind meeting him, its a very very bland profile what could be anyone tbh

Think he may have more chance of a meet than you do now tho IMO "

To be fair I agree 100% with his constructive comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I agree completely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do agree with this it is very good however for reasons I will keep to myself I do think he may have burnt his bridges some where else but to be fair to him that's is really just me and the way I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avatar pic

There is a filter for no avatars so ya may open ya scope up a bit with one xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

spell check...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"straight" profile but a friends list full of bi/gay men, that's very off putting!

Swinging is all about being honest about your sexuality in the quest for pleasure so it would be a big no no for me sorry

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I do agree with this it is very good however for reasons I will keep to myself I do think he may have burnt his bridges some where else but to be fair to him that's is really just me and the way I think. "

Not really helpful to the OP though...and im not sure if off site stuff should be brought up

Apologies if its a forum comment you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do agree with this it is very good however for reasons I will keep to myself I do think he may have burnt his bridges some where else but to be fair to him that's is really just me and the way I think.

Not really helpful to the OP though...and im not sure if off site stuff should be brought up

Apologies if its a forum comment you mean "

Don't understand myself what this comment is about "burning my bridges"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I do agree with this it is very good however for reasons I will keep to myself I do think he may have burnt his bridges some where else but to be fair to him that's is really just me and the way I think.

Not really helpful to the OP though...and im not sure if off site stuff should be brought up

Apologies if its a forum comment you mean

Don't understand myself what this comment is about "burning my bridges"

"

It wasnt to you hun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the Op no I am really sorry it wasn't directed at you in anyway shape or form. It is forum related however I saw red after another thread and I am sorry to say I carried it over to this thread.

All I can say is I am really sorry for any upset I may have caused you.

Debs

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