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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs "

Perhaps your not in the doesnt exist cliques on fab ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

Perhaps your not in the doesnt exist cliques on fab , "

Sorry lost me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs "

When we first joined the site we were taking things very slowly, and yes we got a lot of abuse for being on a long time and only having a few verifications. Although most of it was from single men who we seid no to

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It’s not necessarily newbies - but it can get a little OTT sometimes!

Rise above it ... not worth getting dragged down by xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

When we first joined the site we were taking things very slowly, and yes we got a lot of abuse for being on a long time and only having a few verifications. Although most of it was from single men who we seid no to "

Ahhh I see thanks and yes we going slow. But we get braver each time. Loving it so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not necessarily newbies - but it can get a little OTT sometimes!

Rise above it ... not worth getting dragged down by xx"

Thanks

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I wouldn't say it is. I wonder if you're taking things personally, but not having seen the comments I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

When we first joined the site we were taking things very slowly, and yes we got a lot of abuse for being on a long time and only having a few verifications. Although most of it was from single men who we seid no to "

I’ve had no negative at all despite being in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

When we first joined the site we were taking things very slowly, and yes we got a lot of abuse for being on a long time and only having a few verifications. Although most of it was from single men who we seid no to

Ahhh I see thanks and yes we going slow. But we get braver each time. Loving it so far. "

That's the best way just go at your own pace and just block the dick heads and haters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say it is. I wonder if you're taking things personally, but not having seen the comments I don't know. "

Maybe I just feeling it tonight thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs

When we first joined the site we were taking things very slowly, and yes we got a lot of abuse for being on a long time and only having a few verifications. Although most of it was from single men who we seid no to

Really good advice thank you

Ahhh I see thanks and yes we going slow. But we get braver each time. Loving it so far.

That's the best way just go at your own pace and just block the dick heads and haters. "

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan


"I wouldn't say it is. I wonder if you're taking things personally, but not having seen the comments I don't know.

Maybe I just feeling it tonight thanks "

Block rude people,its your way or no way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say it is. I wonder if you're taking things personally, but not having seen the comments I don't know.

Maybe I just feeling it tonight thanks

Block rude people,its your way or no way "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs "
No thats just ridiculous everyone was new at sometime we would never dream of such a thing,it's huge step for people no need for it imo. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s common, we know how you feel we were newbies 4 years ago and took our time, best advice is to ignore people and hide most of your social only veifications

Why you ask?

Well when people view your profile they will immediately look at your verifications and see they are all social only, some people will take this to mean you are never going to play.

Take it all at your own pace and you’ll get into the real swing of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs "

Do you mean in mail or on the forums?

People are always taking the piss out of newbies on the forums. Would you want to meet someone like that? There's lots of nice people too though.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Just a quick one is it common place to take the piss out of newbies? Had it 3 times here in a week. Yes we been to 2 clubs and no we have not swung yet.

I don’t mind banter but ffs "
very. U either get ignored or absolutely slated. I received first hand bitchville replies for aabout a year. Good luck be u and hold ur own xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again guys really good advice

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yup. Happens a LOT!

There's a wolf pack on this forum and newbies are their prey, especially young single male newbies.

Of course, their advice is always to 'join in the forum and interact' but it's just bait to lure them out into the open.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup. Happens a LOT!

There's a wolf pack on this forum and newbies are their prey, especially young single male newbies.

Of course, their advice is always to 'join in the forum and interact' but it's just bait to lure them out into the open."

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