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Are Saturdays the worst day to try and schedule meets?

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By *otSoNewWalesCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.

However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc

But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to work I find Saturdays the easiest day to meet whether it be a social or whatever, i figure most people are free at weekends too.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep same around holiday times etc the “single” men disappear

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I too would have assumed Saturdays would be best time to meet but the weekends also the time to go out and party

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.

However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one."

Try early evenings through the week, when all the "single" males with no commitments have to be at home eating tea with their wives and kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.

However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one.

Try early evenings through the week, when all the "single" males with no commitments have to be at home eating tea with their wives and kids."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturday night is my night out with my sister and/or friends.

Maybe men and couples do that too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol"

What's wrong with going to the pub? Perfectly normal if you don't fab 24/7 lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to our shift patterns Saturday was and is our day if we're lucky enough to both have it off at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to work I find Saturdays the easiest day to meet whether it be a social or whatever, i figure most people are free at weekends too."

I fully agree

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc

But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will "

I find that if I log on to FAB after about 9pm on either a Friday or Saturday night, I get loads of messages. I get a lot Sunday evenings too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me..

Due to commitments i am a weekday meeter

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol"

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

"

yeah we do... now bow down before her

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By *eorgeo1Man
over a year ago

Slaley

Due to work commitments and other duties, i cant meet every saturday day/ night, but its definitely the easiest to get ready and be relaxed before meeting.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

yeah we do... now bow down before her "

Sorry I've got to go down the pub, but I'm free at lunch breaks during the working week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

yeah we do... now bow down before her

Sorry I've got to go down the pub, but I'm free at lunch breaks during the working week "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We have to get sitters when we go out , and finding sitters for a Saturday night is damn near imposssible . So weeknights are easier for us , generally Friday nights .

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I don't do weekend meets as that's "my time" after working away all week.

Too much 'life' happening to organise meets

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By *otSoNewWalesCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc "

Crikey! That's a lot to fit into a single Saturday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too. I'm much more rested on a Saturday than during the week. I think it's because there are very few genuinely single men.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Our preferred day is Saturday. Plenty of time to get ready and hyped up, and we go out Saturday evenings anyway.

However, we've found Saturday to be the hardest day to arrange meets. Perhaps Saturdays are sacred and not to be infringed upon. It's often the case that guys we talk to try and avoid committing to Saturday meets. Perhaps that's THEIR evening out with their loved one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man we are looking for needs to be athletic / muscular, tall, handsome, charming, intelligent, clean, well-hung, talented, and prepared to put a bit of effort in to interest her with polite but seductive messages

Probably makes things a bit more difficult to find on here

Most of the fit blokes are more than likely out on the piss chating up the fit athletic girls who are maybe not going to take weeks of talking round to get I thier knickers

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I work alternate weekends and start at 7am so don't tend to meet or go to clubs then as I'm too tired

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I work alternate weekends and start at 7am so don't tend to meet or go to clubs then as I'm too tired"

Sounds like we have the same job lol

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

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And single males don't do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do prefer a Saturday night, but it can be difficult getting meets ..we even had somebody say they can not meet Saturday night as they are going to the pub.....If it's a meet with a Guy, maybe it's because they are with their wife or girlfriend and Saturdays are difficult, It's like on a profile you see "I can only meet daytimes"... they must hibernate of an evening lol

I get the feeling that some couples seem to think we us guys just wait there sitting around for that message or call from them to drop everything and leap into action, kneeling and bowing because they have decided to grace us with their company

And single males don't do that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturdays aren’t an issue for me although I share custody with my two boys mother, so every other weekend is a no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work rolling shifts so no such thing as a weekend off for me

My 3 days off are when ever they fall and that becomes my weekend

So a Saturday is just another normal day, lots and lots of people out there in same work situation

So not Bering able to meet at a weekend does not mean married

However in my case I am but I state that on my profile

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Possibly because they have their kids at weekends and have a life away from fab. A lot of people work weekends too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise, I tend to fly back into the UK at very irregular times (work abroad) including Saturdays. Saturday night is keeping up with friends and going out to the pub for me - which kind of wrecks Sunday too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever suits both parties obviously

im self employed so can schedule meets around peoples commitments, so i can do days afternoons evenings mid weekor weekends

ive found allmy meets have been a saturday night though.

its to rushed on a friday night after a hard weeks work

id love a sunday afternoon meet as sundays are dead boring for me .

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Saturday is my preferred day to meet as you say, there is more time to get ready etc

But yes, most men do appear to be busy at the weekend, same as my messages seem to be at the lowest ebb come the weekend, infer to that as you will "

They have gone home to the wife!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Saturdays are hard for me. I work 2 out of 3 Saturday's due to my shifts. Then half of them I'm working in the evenings (the weekends when my kids go away to their mum's). Plus if I'm on earlies or off these are the weekends when my kids are at home. So often for a Saturday I'd normally have to take annual leave. So for a Sat meet would have to be very special and reliable.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Friday or Saturday nights are good for us. Still hard on here to find a lady who wants to meet on either evening.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I prefer mid week meets - occasionally I’ll go to the club on a Saturday night, but weekends are for ‘real life’ things more often than not. Seeing friends, shopping, pottering round at home or in the garden, out for dinner, cinema, drinks etc

Crikey! That's a lot to fit into a single Saturday!"

You laugh, but so far today I’ve done some tidying in the garden, been to see two lots of friends & done a shop - and I’m just now getting in the shower to go out to the club tonight with friends!!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sunday evenings seem to be the busiest for messages on here. Mid week seems to be the best for first social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bad luck is I work every Saturday till late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak for everyone else but I mostly work weekdays and even some weekends which leave weekends really busy for everything else including meeting with non fab friends.

I have maybe 2 people from fab that have crossed over into my real life who I'd meet up with socially and have my number so we can text chat about things other than sex.

Fab still I'd s fraction of my life and as such gets a fraction of my time.

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