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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I seem to have a problem when it comes to doing anal with any females I have been with. Even with females that have had and do anal it seems to be a problem due to size and girth. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on this? Thanks

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By *uckfriends2011Couple
over a year ago

Dudley

make them relax, use lots of lube and start with something small to loosen them up and then more lube, lol

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Poppers help me, especially with the bigger guys, but taking your time and plenty of lube is also vital.

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

I have had same problem, just take it easy, lots of lube and it Will go may take some minutes . Hmm enjoy it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

girth with the right person just makes it better

build up to it,fingers and toys and try different positions...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

angle of entry can make a huge difference! Have taken really quite big ones easily and struggled with smaller sometimes. Let her pick the position and work with her. Instead of trying to pull her into position let her make the adjustments in her position and you move if need be. Also try silicon lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I will take all your advice and try my best next time!

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Wet and slippy helps.

Patient helps. Once your head's popped inside? Wait. Then wait a bit more. Maybe distract them a little (it's why god invented the clitoris, so they don't notice what you're doing back there) [The previous comment may not be suitable for individuals suffering from sense of humour failure.]

Then go for it. It would be rude not to. If you've been invited round to the tradesman's entrance it would be rude not to be the mystery milkman.

BTW, how many people do yo think have looked at the OP and thought 'Is he really bragging about the size of his cock?' And how many do you think have thought 'He's not very good at back door burglary?'

Either way, good luck....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Wet and slippy helps.

Patient helps. Once your head's popped inside? Wait. Then wait a bit more. Maybe distract them a little (it's why god invented the clitoris, so they don't notice what you're doing back there) [The previous comment may not be suitable for individuals suffering from sense of humour failure.]

Then go for it. It would be rude not to. If you've been invited round to the tradesman's entrance it would be rude not to be the mystery milkman.

BTW, how many people do yo think have looked at the OP and thought 'Is he really bragging about the size of his cock?' And how many do you think have thought 'He's not very good at back door burglary?'

Either way, good luck...."

i didnt know you needed an invitation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wet and slippy helps.

Patient helps. Once your head's popped inside? Wait. Then wait a bit more. Maybe distract them a little (it's why god invented the clitoris, so they don't notice what you're doing back there) [The previous comment may not be suitable for individuals suffering from sense of humour failure.]

Then go for it. It would be rude not to. If you've been invited round to the tradesman's entrance it would be rude not to be the mystery milkman.

BTW, how many people do yo think have looked at the OP and thought 'Is he really bragging about the size of his cock?' And how many do you think have thought 'He's not very good at back door burglary?'

Either way, good luck...."

hahahaha this made me laugh! cheers for the tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound a bit extreme but why not try a fisting lube,(not oil or gel though) they are thicker and seem to lubricate better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may sound a bit extreme but why not try a fisting lube,(not oil or gel though) they are thicker and seem to lubricate better. "

fisting lube ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if hes big down below maybe a fisting lube would help ease the way a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried and tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF is fisting lube

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"WTF is fisting lube"
spit?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"WTF is fisting lube"

Is it that wite, lardy Crisco stuff you see being used in porn films?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"WTF is fisting lube

Is it that wite, lardy Crisco stuff you see being used in porn films? "

Boy Butter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I seem to have a problem when it comes to doing anal with any females I have been with. Even with females that have had and do anal it seems to be a problem due to size and girth. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on this? Thanks"

Perhaps ask them to use a smaller strapon or dildo, til you can handle the size and girth!

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Try the lady lying on her side and backing on to your cock at her own speed rather than having her on hands and knees. She would be more relaxed in the relevant muscles that way and can control the "input". Once in and going you can go into doggy position.

Just a suggestion.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try the lady lying on her side and backing on to your cock at her own speed rather than having her on hands and knees. She would be more relaxed in the relevant muscles that way and can control the "input". Once in and going you can go into doggy position.

Just a suggestion.

Jane x"

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get the woman to lie on her LEFT side with kness bent...thtas the easiest angle...taught to me in hospitals for enemas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get the woman to lie on her LEFT side with kness bent...thtas the easiest angle...taught to me in hospitals for enemas lol"

ooh gonna try that.

I love anal but really struggle if the guy is large,no amount of lubes or anal ease seem to make a difference,ave tried to use toys to help a little but its a struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WTF is fisting lube"

margarine i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get the woman to lie on her LEFT side with kness bent...thtas the easiest angle...taught to me in hospitals for enemas lol

ooh gonna try that.

I love anal but really struggle if the guy is large,no amount of lubes or anal ease seem to make a difference,ave tried to use toys to help a little but its a struggle."

i can take more if on my side too , definately works ,

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Apart from plenty of foreplay, lube and being with a partner who is experienced and can relax I dont know. Its probably not a first meet type of pastime as there is an element of trust involved. As long as you are considerate Im sure it will be fine.

Mistress x

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