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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone I want you to give the best advice and top tips to getting meet on here and why some guys never get a meet.

Please only reply if you have advice no negative comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite,respectful and use manners,as you hopefully would in “real life”,get chatting to people socialise....don’t get disheartened by being ignored just stick to your guns hang in there it’ll be fine......and remember.......use the force

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you’re doing alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I want you to give the best advice and top tips to getting meet on here and why some guys never get a meet.

Please only reply if you have advice no negative comments "

Unfortunately as this is a public forum you will get both.. just suck it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't give profile advice as you haven't asked for it. But take the hint and look at that.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Don't be pushy.

Don't expect women to meet you instantly.

Don't make demands.

Do remember you're interacting with other human beings and not insta-shag robots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a hotter profile pic,it's your first selling point XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send fancy a fuck message with just two cock pics, not more than that. repeat this twice a week, rest is history

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Not a very appealing profile tbh OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sometimes have to play the long game, politeness and respect is key!

Ask about there day and keep it real don't be too over bearing also asking why a lady hasn't replied to you after 1 min of sending your message as ladies get quite a few mesages , if you get a reply keep the chat going and for fuck don't send cock pics unless asked !

Social meets are always a good idea , good luck

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Are you asking for yourself or as a service to all those poor wretches who don't get meets?

Just wondering as your profile makes you come across as a narcissistic prick and not as someone looking to help the men who are obviously less good looking than you.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

Green arrow.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Wow just read profiles, just wow,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You sometimes have to play the long game, politeness and respect is key!

Ask about there day and keep it real don't be too over bearing also asking why a lady hasn't replied to you after 1 min of sending your message as ladies get quite a few mesages , if you get a reply keep the chat going and for fuck don't send cock pics unless asked !

Social meets are always a good idea , good luck "

One size doesn't fit all: not everyone wants to be asked by casual hook ups how their day has been. Not everyone wants a social before play.

Read the profile and tailor your message accordingly would be my advice.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can't give profile advice as you haven't asked for it. But take the hint and look at that. "

Also people will check the green arrow

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. You can hardly come on what is a Public Forum page within the site and ask for good advice only.

Negative stuff can always be looked at as Constructive if seen that way!

But hang on; you have 3 Verifications already in such a short space of time, so you're doing something right!!

But your Profile... it needs a bit of work TBH. Break it down into paragraphs. Start your sentences with an Upper case I .

Check your spelling; there's an odd error or two but some people will see these as a lack of attention to detail.

Get into Forum pages & discussions or get to Socials or Clubs in your area if you can; it's all about getting noticed! You have to sell yourself.

It does work in the long run but have Patience.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"OP. You can hardly come on what is a Public Forum page within the site and ask for good advice only.

Negative stuff can always be looked at as Constructive if seen that way!

But hang on; you have 3 Verifications already in such a short space of time, so you're doing something right!!

But your Profile... it needs a bit of work TBH. Break it down into paragraphs. Start your sentences with an Upper case I .

Check your spelling; there's an odd error or two but some people will see these as a lack of attention to detail.

Get into Forum pages & discussions or get to Socials or Clubs in your area if you can; it's all about getting noticed! You have to sell yourself.

It does work in the long run but have Patience.

"

Good advice

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