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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title says i have my first real meet and im starting to get a little nervous dont know why, is there any tips people have as never done it before and yes i know i sound pathetic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try to relax, have a wank before hand so you not to eager, and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume that you're going to all hit it off, have sex etc - just relax and go with the flow, have fun. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's quite sweet really

it is nice to see a guy cut the bravado and admit that meeting someone for the first time can be as daunting as it is exciting

the run up to a meet is always more nerve wracking than the actual meet

so get gone, enjoy yourself and i bet within 10 minutes them nerves have diappeared !

hope it goes well x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

You are not new to socialising with people or sex so relax! Couples know that single guys get nervous, especially at first and are usually good at putting them at their ease. Just do what you enjoy, go with the flow, dont have huge expectations and you will be fine. Lucky guy!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

You dont sound pathetic, most of us get nervous, it only adds to the build up. Once you get there and get talking nerves will go. Have a brill time xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Ive been doing it all my life and still get nervous. Its kind of a nervous excitement. Try and relax and soon as you meet the person/people im sure the nerves will go.

Come back and tell us how it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i still get nervous when i meet someone for the first time, just go with the flow and enjoy yourself

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

I always do a social meet first and treat it like I'm going for a drink with a friend.. less nerves that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sound pathetic, most of us get nervous, it only adds to the build up. Once you get there you probably won't even get hard.Have a brill time xx"

Bit harsh Coantrim

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"You sound pathetic, most of us get nervous, it only adds to the build up. Once you get there you probably won't even get hard.Have a brill time xx

Bit harsh Coantrim "

FFS just had to re read my post thought i'd forgot to put in the "dont"

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

I am nervous at every new meet, some of them I have chatted to for a while some are sponteneous. It also adds to the excitement, chill go with the flow, listen to the person/people (if its a couple) look at it as a date with possibility of fun at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go if it's happened yet? Hope it went well. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always nervous with new meets but it never lasts long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little blue pill will help it last longer "apparently" ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I was the more nervous one, but most times I'm agent-provocateur, and the first to say, 'right shall we retire to the boudoir....' lol

Some say have a drink, do this, take that if you're nervous - the best way is to conquer it from inside (and once you realise it's really very very easy) then you'll find you don't need any of them things to put on a grand performance

Good luck and have a great time :o)

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never nervous...I'm seldom nervous of anything. Always excited though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sound pathetic, most of us get nervous, it only adds to the build up. Once you get there you probably won't even get hard.Have a brill time xx

Bit harsh Coantrim

FFS just had to re read my post thought i'd forgot to put in the "dont" "

"don't" waste your time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did it go if it's happened yet? Hope it went well. Z"

It went well thanks soon as i got there i was fine no nerves at all, i think it was just the build up to it that got me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did it go if it's happened yet? Hope it went well. Z

It went well thanks soon as i got there i was fine no nerves at all, i think it was just the build up to it that got me "

Great news, sometimes thinking about it is more nerve wracking than doing it! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the first meet.....

When meeting someone for the first time, i usually barge right in with a cry of "Grease the Cat's Arse I'm Home", obviously I then proceed to ridicule their decor "Still in your magnolia phase I see" followed by a "have a shower eh love, I can smell you from here"

Once said lady is in the shower I then open upthe wie that they have thoughfully provided, and then spray it across the kitchen as I realise its blossom hill....

I should write a successful first meet guide....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is always one lol i think its the anticipation and not knowing whats going to happen but im ready for next time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always one lol i think its the anticipation and not knowing whats going to happen but im ready for next time lol"

Glad u had a good time

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little blue pill will help it last longer "apparently" ; )"

Pmsl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im always nervous with new meets but it never lasts long."

Lol why's that then pmsl??

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