FabSwingers.com forum: Friendzoned to Dominating lover

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey guys.

I need advice. I was seeing a girl and I really liked her. I sadly got friendzoned because I didn't take intuitive on her wanting sex and then became a needy fool.

it's been about 3 weeks now and I was talking to my friend who use to be on here and she said. you know if you shagged her you would still be dating.

my question is. How can I turn this around?

I messaged her and said we should hook up. plus she had a challenge to make me cum via a blow job which was never fulfilled.

she didn't reply.

So I said Damn, I blame alcohol #alcoholbreedshonesty.

we started talking and I was teasing her and making her laugh. Asked to hang out, as friends and that I wasn't hitting on her ... maybe a full mistake there. But she kinda said she was broke.

I didn't bring it up again and then she said she would like yo hang out.

She likes dominant guys who take charge and at the start I was that. but I fucked up.

Can I get her to be attracted to me again? How?

she knows I want to have sex because of my earlier text.

But I want her to crave it also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

You can't....

It's up to her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't repeat the same mistake twice. If you have to change to be with someone you're not the right person for them and they're not right for you.

You have a choice move forward or alter yourself to be what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move on."

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Stop drinking and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move on."

Honestly.

If she likes dominant guys it's not going to work at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either take charge be more confident or my advice is move on let her be....oh and don’t post it on. Forum as if she’s read this thread she’ll be mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey guys.

I need advice. I was seeing a girl and I really liked her. I sadly got friendzoned because I didn't take intuitive on her wanting sex and then became a needy fool.

it's been about 3 weeks now and I was talking to my friend who use to be on here and she said. you know if you shagged her you would still be dating.

my question is. How can I turn this around?

I messaged her and said we should hook up. plus she had a challenge to make me cum via a blow job which was never fulfilled.

she didn't reply.

So I said Damn, I blame alcohol #alcoholbreedshonesty.

we started talking and I was teasing her and making her laugh. Asked to hang out, as friends and that I wasn't hitting on her ... maybe a full mistake there. But she kinda said she was broke.

I didn't bring it up again and then she said she would like yo hang out.

She likes dominant guys who take charge and at the start I was that. but I fucked up.

Can I get her to be attracted to me again? How?

she knows I want to have sex because of my earlier text.

But I want her to crave it also. "

It's very hard if someone is looking for a dominate partner. They expect to see certain qualities and if that's not you then its not you.

Move on and find people to play with who you can just be your self with.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move on."

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By *olygodCouple
over a year ago

sandy

It’s probsbly time to stay friends and move on elsewhere for more intimate stuff.

AA can help you if alcohol is affecting your relationships!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

You have ZERO chance now, after posting this tread.

Just accept you're not what she is looking for, and accept the friendzone.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Friend zone is friend zone for a reason. This is a simple as an issuse of non comparability. No one's fault, just is what it is. You need to find someone who wants you for how you are naturally and vice versa. Things shouldn't be force or unnatural. To change your self to pander to her needs may work short term but will not last long term.

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