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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Who else agrees second meets are better. You have shaken all the first meet performance anxiety and got to know peeps better..

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Assume from the silence of replies few have had second meets

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

That depends, some won't play on a first meet but for us time is precious so we will often meet and play on that first occasion.

We often find we click with people straight away or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet. "

More times the better it gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet.

More times the better it gets "

Again, not always. Sometimes, after meeting for a year or so, you and up falling asleep after 15 minutes and have barely any sex.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet.

More times the better it gets "

I agree and therefore meet a few people often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say that first meets are blighted by nerves and anxiety but I’d agree where there is familiarity then it’s maybe easier to explore further

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet.

More times the better it gets

Again, not always. Sometimes, after meeting for a year or so, you and up falling asleep after 15 minutes and have barely any sex. "
lol...

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Think we scare people off, no second meet for us....

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We prefer one offs, had a few second meets and they have always disappointed so we don’t do them anymore

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in


"Who else agrees second meets are better. You have shaken all the first meet performance anxiety and got to know peeps better.. "

Always love second meets. I think they are definitely better. Plus you're only going to be doing a second if the first was good anyway. I'm not nervous on first meets but if the other person has been then its only going to be better.

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By *parklingGrey.xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've always enjoyed our first meets as much as our subsequent meets, although the nerves staying away after the first one is always a bonus!!

It does help knowing exactly what the person you're meeting likes and how you vibe with one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second meets are usually more relaxed and make the exploring far more mutually satisfying...

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet . "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meets tend to be more exciting. Second meets more relaxing. I wouldn't say one was preferable... it depends what mood I'm in. Ah. The joys of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me"

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Would say second meets are better but overtime you learn more about the other person/people and therefore it become more pleasurable. Love the fact that you can experiment more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always, but I don't get anxious or nervous on the first meet.

More times the better it gets

Again, not always. Sometimes, after meeting for a year or so, you and up falling asleep after 15 minutes and have barely any sex. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Who else agrees second meets are better. You have shaken all the first meet performance anxiety and got to know peeps better.. "

I agree; the more you get to know someone, the better the connection and sex becomes.....

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Who else agrees second meets are better. You have shaken all the first meet performance anxiety and got to know peeps better..

I agree; the more you get to know someone, the better the connection and sex becomes....."

But at what point does it start to wain and become a bit stale?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Who else agrees second meets are better. You have shaken all the first meet performance anxiety and got to know peeps better..

I agree; the more you get to know someone, the better the connection and sex becomes.....

But at what point does it start to wain and become a bit stale?"

It's different strokes for different folks

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I don’t get second meets think I frighten them off

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Think we scare people off, no second meet for us.... "

Same here .... I must scare them off too

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me "

This for me too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me

This for me too "

It's usually only geography which has ruined the potential for a second meet for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time they are better but not always

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

As long as both keep making the effort they did first meet 2nd time ,then yes it can be.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me

This for me too

It's usually only geography which has ruined the potential for a second meet for me "

If you really want too meet someone you workout a plan of action .if they arnt that important that mèet will never happen .Thats how i see fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me

This for me too

It's usually only geography which has ruined the potential for a second meet for me

If you really want too meet someone you workout a plan of action .if they arnt that important that mèet will never happen .Thats how i see fab . "

Sadly that isn't the same for everyone. I've met people where it's taken a complete fluke in joint circumstances making it possible for us to meet. The likelihood of the same set of circumstances occurring again at the same time are highly highly unlikely. We don't all have that much flexibility or the inclination to hugely impact the rest of our lives for a fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me

This for me too

It's usually only geography which has ruined the potential for a second meet for me

If you really want too meet someone you workout a plan of action .if they arnt that important that mèet will never happen .Thats how i see fab .

Sadly that isn't the same for everyone. I've met people where it's taken a complete fluke in joint circumstances making it possible for us to meet. The likelihood of the same set of circumstances occurring again at the same time are highly highly unlikely. We don't all have that much flexibility or the inclination to hugely impact the rest of our lives for a fab meet. "

I guess that depends on how much both parties want that second or third or more meet...

All things are possible in a world where we can believe six impossible things before breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefere regular but i find alot of men on fab rather do one offs .In my experience on fab better sex and experimenting with same person adds too more fun .One offs always dissapointing and 2nd times always better .But if sex first time not good there would never be 2nd meet .

Same for me

This for me too

It's usually only geography which has ruined the potential for a second meet for me

If you really want too meet someone you workout a plan of action .if they arnt that important that mèet will never happen .Thats how i see fab .

Sadly that isn't the same for everyone. I've met people where it's taken a complete fluke in joint circumstances making it possible for us to meet. The likelihood of the same set of circumstances occurring again at the same time are highly highly unlikely. We don't all have that much flexibility or the inclination to hugely impact the rest of our lives for a fab meet.

I guess that depends on how much both parties want that second or third or more meet...

All things are possible in a world where we can believe six impossible things before breakfast "
I'm not saying it's impossible. Just highly highly unlikely.

If I wanted more than sex I might make the effort but no matter what the connection when we have sex it's only ever that for me. Those looking for more may well disagree.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I much prefer second meets rather than one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes much prefer regular meets than one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the photos guys. Most peeps don't look like their photos so the nervous excitement we feel pre meet turns to oh well we are here so let's get it over with as we will never meet them again lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get anxious at every meet, whether 2nd or 3rd , they just get better each time!

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