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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, im a little confused and wondering if anyone can offer advice. I have a reoccuring pattern. I add, or someone adds me as a friend (to see the rest of my photos i assume?!).

I message them, it must be a bloody boring message because they don't reply. I then remove them from my friends list after a while. They than add me as a friend again and the cycle repeats itself. What an earth is going on? Are they fake profiles or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be. Just don’t accept their friend request in future. Don’t decline it either - it means they can’t re-add you for 90 days (maybe 60? I’m not entirely sure, it’s a while anyway).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, i don't mind them adding me. It's more a case of 'whats with the silent treatment'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t accept any friend requests, but back when I did, it would be from people I had spoken too and had continued to speak too. I used to (and still do) delete people if we haven’t spoken in a while.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

You must have good friend only pics if they keep wanting to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be. Just don’t accept their friend request in future. Don’t decline it either - it means they can’t re-add you for 90 days (maybe 60? I’m not entirely sure, it’s a while anyway). "

30 days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes sense, thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you keep accepting their friend requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You must have good friend only pics if they keep wanting to look "

There's a though. Let's have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand having a look but I have chatted to people added them then they seem to not want to speak you forget about them and their still on your friends list months later.

Strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand having a look but I have chatted to people added them then they seem to not want to speak you forget about them and their still on your friends list months later.

Strange"

It's not strange. They want access to your pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You must have good friend only pics if they keep wanting to look "

I like this thought process

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you keep accepting their friend requests? "

I only re-accept once, but today there will be no more. I just want to understand why more than anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You must have good friend only pics if they keep wanting to look

There's a though. Let's have a look "

I would share but you have blocked single guys....and in all honesty they aren't very exciting.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I generally only add people I've met and a few forumites who have become good friends that I plan to meet.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If you delete a friend, their request appears back. Just delete the request or keep it there so they can't keep re-sending.

Same with blocking a friend, the friend request appears back in your list.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My friend list only contains people I’ve met. I can’t see the point in adding new friends. If new people want my pics then they are free to ask me.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

My friends list I keep just for people I have met and people I have chatted to and want to stay in touch with. I don't accept random requests from strangers.

In your situation I wouldn't accept the request and if they keep requesting I would block them.

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