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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice would be appreciated.

We went to a club and it was a very quiet night only 5 in including us. Me and Mrs had a play. Yup you guessed it I got stage fright. We want to go again but it’s already on me that it will happen again.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have to add this was are first time at a club. Also we have never swung before.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Have to add this was are first time at a club. Also we have never swung before. "

Here is most likely you're answer. Most likely you will be fine going forward. Try to be relaxed and remember you are there to enjoy yourselves. Best way to learn is to do is an applicable mantra to most things in life including nookie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to add this was are first time at a club. Also we have never swung before.

Here is most likely you're answer. Most likely you will be fine going forward. Try to be relaxed and remember you are there to enjoy yourselves. Best way to learn is to do is an applicable mantra to most things in life including nookie "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read similar threads, though never been to a club myself. They say this happens to most guys... basically it takea a while to get uses to the environment. Maybe go next time with the attitude of just watching? Build up to it and remove the anxiety.

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Just relax, don’t wind yourself up about it, it happens and anyway, replaying when you get home is the best bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just relax, don’t wind yourself up about it, it happens and anyway, replaying when you get home is the best bit "

Fair point thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've read similar threads, though never been to a club myself. They say this happens to most guys... basically it takea a while to get uses to the environment. Maybe go next time with the attitude of just watching? Build up to it and remove the anxiety.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Get some blue pills , problem solved .

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Blue pills is the answer if you have ED.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got some now lol

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By *TheBoneMan
over a year ago

Bury, Lancashire

The advise in these situations is always to chat to others and go with the flow.

However with only 3 other people in the club when you went, there couldn't of been much of a flow to go with.

Dont give up, with that figure you will be fine

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Got some now lol "

You managed to get some in 43 minutes! Thats impressive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got some now lol

You managed to get some in 43 minutes! Thats impressive! "

Lol yup I had some wish I had taken them with me

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