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The little blue pill and stagefright

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By *ants_Nerdy_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Havant

Hi all,

I know there have been lots of threads about use of the little blue pill, but I'd like to ask for advice specifically relating to overcoming stage fright.

I understand different types have slightly different applications, so I wondered if there was anyone that had any experiences with any specific variants that work to overcome stage fright when in normal situations you have no problem getting hard.

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good blow job or 69 gets me hard if I have stage fright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that on Sunday. The first time at a club it was just me and Mrs. We did not play with anyone els. So wish I had took one.

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By *east and belleCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

I had this, I was fine when we were alone in a room but as soon as somethingnelse came into the room I just lost it

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Go in a private room, so you aren't being watched. Then if that's ok, maybe next time try a room where people can watch through gates , window but cannot just walk in.

Don't just strip off in an open play area and then get anxious.

If it happens, you can still pleasure the lady , so don't panic

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By *ants_Nerdy_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Havant

Yep it's frustrating because we both love public sex, and when it works it's AMAZING. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak (although it's more likely the mind, but I don't think they make a pill for that!)

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Yep it's frustrating because we both love public sex, and when it works it's AMAZING. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak (although it's more likely the mind, but I don't think they make a pill for that!)"

So take the pressure off a bit and opt for a single room for a while until you get your confidence back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really was frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr is always worried about stage fright and always takes a little blue pill just in case lucky that we can get our hands on them, i dont think he needs them and if i gave him a placebo think it would work just as well lol its all in the head o think the worry that its gonna happen maked it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid most of the 'pressure drop' problems are mental issues. It doesn't matter how much Viagra you've taken, if the brain isn't comfortable then it ain't gonna happen. It's happened to me on several occasions.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I had this, I was fine when we were alone in a room but as soon as somethingnelse came into the room I just lost it "

"something else"? Whereabouts were you??

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

The blue pill only works if your brain is driving your sex drive. its not an automatic hard-on generator. So any stage-freight will still cause it to go floppy.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I'm afraid most of the 'pressure drop' problems are mental issues. It doesn't matter how much Viagra you've taken, if the brain isn't comfortable then it ain't gonna happen. It's happened to me on several occasions."

Same here, normally I have no problem rising to the occasion, but now and then it happens, so rather than dwell on it, I just use fingers and tongue, if you take your mind off it and don't focus on it, you'd be surprised how quickly you are back in the game lol.

Just remember, it will happen to every guy once or twice, but if you let it bug you it will happen a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm afraid most of the 'pressure drop' problems are mental issues. It doesn't matter how much Viagra you've taken, if the brain isn't comfortable then it ain't gonna happen. It's happened to me on several occasions.

Same here, normally I have no problem rising to the occasion, but now and then it happens, so rather than dwell on it, I just use fingers and tongue, if you take your mind off it and don't focus on it, you'd be surprised how quickly you are back in the game lol.

Just remember, it will happen to every guy once or twice, but if you let it bug you it will happen a lot more."

That’s a fair point. Because we are new to this I have a whole lot going on in my head

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We all have these moments. Some good advice above.

If it happens to met I try to focus my mind on a past event or a fantasy such as watching Sara have sex with another guy. Usually works

Good luck

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