FabSwingers.com forum: Is it acceptable

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from guys you know yes

from guys you don't know, no....

its not even worthy of a response

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

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Yes.

Other answers are also available.

However, how are you?

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I hate those questions cos I feel I have to answer even if I don't want to meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bearing in mind when you meet someone in passing in a shop, for instance, you say ‘hi, how are you?’ But don’t want to actually know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bearing in mind when you meet someone in passing in a shop, for instance, you say ‘hi, how are you?’ But don’t want to actually know. "

I always tell people..... their fault for asking....makes me feel better as it’s good to talk and get things off your chest. Hahaha

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't see why not, after all they did ask. It's not your problem if they get more than they bargained for. Unburden yourself and see what the response is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see why not, after all they did ask. It's not your problem if they get more than they bargained for. Unburden yourself and see what the response is

Down...... loading

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

Absolutely....let rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse one is "I hope you're okay?"

What if I'm not? What should I say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

I often reply with one of the following:

Bored after visiting your dull as fuck profile...

Sick to death of being asked how I am daily by guys who I’ve told politely that I’m not interested

I’m not impressed by your homage to a cock of a profile

Etc x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve tried telling them;

About my day on a building site.

About how emotional I am with the hormones I take.

I’ve covered in great detail my life issues.

I’ve talked about my relationships.

My work life balance.

My bowl control.

Yet still they ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all sorry to invade lol

What would you all rather someone ask you on a first message?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

Ask them if they really do want to know, or are just looking to get laid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all sorry to invade lol

What would you all rather someone ask you on a first message? "

A 3 page message about specific things on their profile. A good half a dozen compliments thrown in and jesus christ don't forget the code word which you will find on paragraph 10 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate those questions cos I feel I have to answer even if I don't want to meet! "

I’ve fancied the pants of you for ages just wanna tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I answer that, they’ll never want to meet

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I often reply with:

I’m not impressed by your homage to a cock of a profile

Etc x"

This made me giggle

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I hate those questions cos I feel I have to answer even if I don't want to meet!

I’ve fancied the pants of you for ages just wanna tell you"

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have done many times.

They normally go quiet after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put yes I’m fine

quiet normal lol

Makes me chuckle.

Look up Katie brand , normal farm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually put

"Thanks for asking ... the AIDS is under control but the syphilis, hepatitis B and gonorrhea are not responding to treatment.

I'm a bit smelly at present because the thrush won't go away but we can still meet

as if!!!!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

He’s perfectly acceptable

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

Oh yes ... ive replied something like this

Well actually im not very well today ... ive got a chest infection and I feel rotten , I think I will have to go to.my gp ..thing is I have to be carefull with antibiotics as they can upset my tummy

....my back isnt too good today either, I suffer with arthritis you see ... it flares up especiallly when its cold, and my knees ......well somedays I can hardly walk .

Funny I dont usually get a reply .... how rude

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Dam right (as long as you mind sharing). Why as a question if you don't want/like and honest reply?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Totally is the right thing to do. I’d even describe in-depth detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not, they asked !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate those questions cos I feel I have to answer even if I don't want to meet!

I’ve fancied the pants of you for ages just wanna tell you

Message me and I’ll send face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha like it lol and exactly what I thought dam female's all way's want a journey a few stops along the way pop in a few shops haha and we just like to make good time and get the job done right hehe x

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

"I’ve tried telling them;

About my day on a building site.

About how emotional I am with the hormones I take.

I’ve covered in great detail my life issues.

I’ve talked about my relationships.

My work life balance.

My bowl control.

Yet still they ask.

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Thats enough about you

hows the penguin

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By *ueen of the SouthWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve been replying honestly that I’ve been in hospital having tests for cancer! I still get responses like ‘i’d still fuck you’ ir ‘you’re quite fit for your age ‘

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Guilty. It's just like saying hi. No big deal. Think the single women have so much choice they feel it's okay to poo poo ppl. Better than writing a long msg with code words that probably won't get open

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

P's only jealous haaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

buttt how are you

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

Absolutely, I do and it's not exclusive to guys I do it in real life too lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

They did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...I do often

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As Maureen Lipman used to say ‘it’s good to talk’ so talk and leave no stone unturned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guilty. It's just like saying hi. No big deal. Think the single women have so much choice they feel it's okay to poo poo ppl. Better than writing a long msg with code words that probably won't get open "

It's just part of the site,

Almost all girls / couples who have contacted me have started with"Hi how are you?"

My favourite was a lady who said "I'm within a mile, want to meet now?"

That was a great afternoon

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Its an ice breaker. Get over it. Not aimed at you OP. I like you a lot. More at the replies.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I usually put

"Thanks for asking ... the AIDS is under control but the syphilis, hepatitis B and gonorrhea are not responding to treatment.

I'm a bit smelly at present because the thrush won't go away but we can still meet

as if!!!!

Love it. How are the genital warts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually put

"Thanks for asking ... the AIDS is under control but the syphilis, hepatitis B and gonorrhea are not responding to treatment.

I'm a bit smelly at present because the thrush won't go away but we can still meet

as if!!!!

Love it. How are the genital warts? "

Crusty.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Yes .....but how are you in yourself ....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’ve been replying honestly that I’ve been in hospital having tests for cancer! I still get responses like ‘i’d still fuck you’ ir ‘you’re quite fit for your age ‘"

Yeah, when I was in hospital I had all sorts of messages offering to come, draw the curtains, and "distract" me.

I had/ have a broken bone and was awaiting surgery, do you mind?!

As for what I want to hear, "I hope you're having a nice day" or "I hope this finds you well" are nice. Plus what someone likes about my profile and what they think we have in common. (My profile right now is a bit cranky at the start, but that will change)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

I often reply with one of the following:

Bored after visiting your dull as fuck profile...

Sick to death of being asked how I am daily by guys who I’ve told politely that I’m not interested

I’m not impressed by your homage to a cock of a profile

Etc x"

I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To actually reply telling guys how I actually feel when posed with the question “how are you?”

Once got “what are you doing right now?” Or similar. Responded that I was as waiting for six lots of sink and plug hole unblocker to work their magic and enjoying the smell of bleach from various corners of my house. Not sure that was entirely what they were hoping for.

Heh ho, honesty and all that shizzle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually put

"Thanks for asking ... the AIDS is under control but the syphilis, hepatitis B and gonorrhea are not responding to treatment.

I'm a bit smelly at present because the thrush won't go away but we can still meet

You never said any of that when you met me lol xxxx

as if!!!!

Love it. How are the genital warts?

Crusty.

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