FabSwingers.com forum: strange scenario

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hope this is ok to post.

today I got messaging with what seemed a lovely woman.

she had a meet arranged already so I accepted it. then she messages me asking if I'm free tonight.

start swapping messages via another platform and then once she's given me her address and time she says,

May bf may be in the other room.

wow. a single woman profile. no precious mention of a bf.

she wants to be filmed being fucked and being cum over her front which I'm down for.

but I'm not comfortable with the fact the full story wasn't told from the off.

said user is unverified and also only 4 days on the site.

I offered a compromise of a hotel meet, out of my pocket, nearby, and she declined.

think I've dodged a right bullet there.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

If alarm bells are ringing in your head then yes it's best to avoid avoid avoid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if it was a couples profile and I knew he may be there and blah blah blah from the off I'd have been ok with it. but the fact that part was hidden set the bells off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety first, but besides the safety aspect, sex is not fun when you're worried, so what's the point?

I wouldn't see a hotel meet as a compromise, because it flips the situation from her being in control (her place, possibly some other people there) to you being fully in control (who's to say you're not a weirdo yourself, you know?)

A social in a public place, or a meet in a club, or more chatting online, until everyone is comfortable, could be a way forward, but once trust is broken it's very hard to build it back up again. Probably not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes Judy. I see your point and agree with you.

maybe by suggesting the hotel I was looking like taking control.

what I aimed to do wa a meet at a neutral point. there's a bar in the said hotel I suggested so could have just met there.

thank you for your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always weary of new unverified profiles, i'd steer well clear

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You went with your gut feeling, always the best thing to do but if it’s a fantasy she should have told you from the off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either dodged a bullet...or missed out on fun.....? But you’ll never know...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm always weary of new unverified profiles, i'd steer well clear"

All members join with no veri’s!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah not many women would give u their address for a meet op,probably a bloke

Miss

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Your gut feeling never lies. Our heads may, at times, try to override our gut feelings but in my experience, gut feeling is always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a geezer getting off on his fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bother with unverified profiles, let someone else take the risk lol

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'd say it was a guy you were messaging. If in doubt , bail out

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

Definitely always go with your guts, you’d be surprised how many single fem profiles reveal a boyfriend or husband once you’ve been talking about a meet. Makes finding a fem to play with 1on1 rather difficult, “it’s ok, he will only watch” nah love do one

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

You'd probably arrive to find the boyfriend saying that the girlfriend had just 'popped out' to the shop and 'why don't you go ahead and get undressed'? And 'maybe we can have some fun while we wait for her?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always weary of new unverified profiles, i'd steer well clear

All members join with no veri’s! "

Getting photo verified is fairly simple though, at least that proves that they haven’t stolen someone else’s pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bank on that being true!

Getting photo verified is fairly simple though, at least that proves that they haven’t stolen someone else’s pics"

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You are born with the ability to have a 'gut feeling' - its a survival mechanism, so listen to it. Also don't let the little head overrule the big head!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

99% sure it was a bloke!

If in doubt ask for a social meet first with no expectations! Then you (or she) can do a runner if either one of you is a weirdo!

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I'm always weary of new unverified profiles, i'd steer well clear

All members join with no veri’s!

Getting photo verified is fairly simple though, at least that proves that they haven’t stolen someone else’s pics"

Not necessarily.... my friends had their photo veri pic stolen and used for a fake profile....they were fuming and reported it to admin straight away

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"hope this is ok to post.

today I got messaging with what seemed a lovely woman.

she had a meet arranged already so I accepted it. then she messages me asking if I'm free tonight.

start swapping messages via another platform and then once she's given me her address and time she says,

May bf may be in the other room.

wow. a single woman profile. no precious mention of a bf.

she wants to be filmed being fucked and being cum over her front which I'm down for.

but I'm not comfortable with the fact the full story wasn't told from the off.

said user is unverified and also only 4 days on the site.

I offered a compromise of a hotel meet, out of my pocket, nearby, and she declined.

think I've dodged a right bullet there."

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