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how long wiil i have to wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just wondering how long single guys have had to wait before getting their first meeting.I am patient and only been here a couple of weeks but it would be nice to have a ball park figure.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

3 weeks, 2 days, 7 hours, 22 minutes and 11 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 weeks, 2 days, 7 hours, 22 minutes and 11 seconds "

10 seconds, 9 seconds etc etc

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By *igco51Man
over a year ago

lockerbie

how longs a piece of string m8 lol just be patient and make ure profile stand out i waited about 2months for my 1st meet

good luck and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the answer is - there is no ball park

everyones experience is different

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Assuming that you joined 2 weeks ago on the Wednesday at 10pm, your first message will arrive on Thursday at 9.30am. Sorry I can't be more precise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2 months arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

god you ask a simple question all you get are comedians. lol

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

Everyone is different. Some have said on similar threads that they have waited over a year for a meet, others get meets very quickly, so all we can say is somewhere between 10 seconds and 12 months.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

N London

Unfortunately the ball parks were sold off ages ago along with school playing fields. You are more likely to get a 'Car Park figure' as a result or a 'Mixed use development with social housing and ground floor retail units figure'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh well i just hope its less than 10 years like the last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer. No mercy shown around these parts buddy - don't worry you'll grow very thick skin quite fast lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

got that already, been rejected so many times in so many places lol

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Why on earth do people assume that by joining this site they are going to get a meet let alone a session?

The odds of finding someone who

a)Fancies your pic/profile

b) Is within your area

c) Falls in your criteria and you theirs

d) Knows how to communicate properly

e) Is actually who they say they are

f) Understands what being a swinger really is as opposed to "it's a sex site so everyone must be gagging for it"

Not sure what the bookies would give any one!

There are however exceptions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably it's like buses wait ages then 2 come at once......The meets that is not the women.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not assuming anything. I am doing this not just for sex but for friendship too.

ok i would like to get sex out of it but i understand that i would not be everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bet u wish u adnt asked that ? but do wish u well on the site x

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"3 weeks, 2 days, 7 hours, 22 minutes and 11 seconds "

A tad optimistic there bb or did u just forget to add the 6months bit lol

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By *-oxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Abingdon

Your warts might be a bit off-putting, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i not actually got any warts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how long is a pice of string ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

looks like i am going to need all the luck i can get, now where did i put that four leaf clover

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach


"Probably it's like buses wait ages then 2 come at once......The meets that is not the women......."

more's the pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor OP you rotten lot!

Seriously OP you've asked a bit of a fact question but three weeks is early days, and if the thought if two months without getting your end away makes you scream you may need to rethink your options.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that was a joke, i did without for 10 years until my last girlfriend. i understand it will take a while to build online relationships before people trust me. I was just wondering how long other people have had to wait before their first meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can vary so hard to put a timescale on it. I'm sure you're only too aware that single guys vastly outnumber couples and ladies on here. If you're truly into swinging (as opposed to shag hunting) then be patient and play the long game as it will be worth it. Good luck.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Get to socials and meet people...and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh try clubs and socails mate and if you meet someone there, they may verify you and youll have a better chance of getting meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some real advise for you now change your profile pics one shows a not very tidy room and your profile could do with a clean up to ask this lot they will help you right a better one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience, an attractive profile and an ability to work out what people actually want without being either too pushy or too brief. Give it a few months and get to know people, maybe visit a club first and get a feel for the scene,few single guys do this and then start asking impatient questions.x

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