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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.

Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet"

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.

Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet""

That's fair enough maybe it's a confidence thing and dont want be knocked back lol

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.

Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet"

That's fair enough maybe it's a confidence thing and dont want be knocked back lol "

Better get used to it mate.. you will get more knock backs than sucess.

Good luck

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

As long as I’ve chatted with someone for a bit and it’s clearly going well, I don’t mind them asking. I’ll suggest meeting for a drink if we seem to be getting along.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t mind being asked or doing the asking. I usually meet for a social first.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Be upfront and once you've established there's mutual attraction just ask

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Ask me ol mucka. Women generally like confident men.

Nothing wrong in asking.. "would you like to meet"

That's fair enough maybe it's a confidence thing and dont want be knocked back lol

Better get used to it mate.. you will get more knock backs than sucess.

Good luck "

This - we all get knock backs, even women & couples! It’s nothing personal, just that you’re not what they are looking for at that moment in time!

Good luck! xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"

What are you scared of? It will be a yes or no answer.

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"

No harm in asking.....what’s the worst that could happen? NB: they may also decide not to reply which is as good as a ‘no’.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"

You simply say "I would really like to meet you" is that simples enoughs

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just suffer from anxiety lol always think the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"

If the chat is going well asking for a meet can change the whole tone of the conversation. Talk about what their plans are so you know when they are free or going out. You can ask what their plans are after their night out etc. Then pop on oh if your lucky or play your cards right I might be free. Put in a wee lol to keep it light hearted then you can be by their response how they feel about meeting you x

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x"

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time. "

That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If the chat is going well, they tick my boxes and we've swapped face pics I'm assuming we're both interested in meeting up for coffee! I have been known to ask first

Just go for it OP....unless you're happy to just chat.

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ill just have go for it won't i lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Make sure you read profiles before messaging first.

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Make sure you read profiles before messaging first. "

Always do, maybe it's me lol but just gotta keep trying

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.

That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol "

Maybe don't hint you would like to meet. Just say, do you fancy meeting for a coffee and chat in person sometime ?

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.

That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol

Maybe don't hint you would like to meet. Just say, do you fancy meeting for a coffee and chat in person sometime ?

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Yeah sound like a good idea to me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely messaging them lets them know you want to meet them right?

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

yep best just to ask rather than faff about with 20 questions like how am I etc etc.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ill just have go for it won't i lol"

Yep man up and go for it

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.

That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol "

That, to me, screams time wasters, probably because they're fake. . Don't take it personal. Just move on to someone else. *Mrs

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By *apascouse OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hey guys I have spoke to a few lovely people on here, but i dont exactly onow how to ask for a meet or hint that im interested without going full bore, any tips would be greatly appreciated x

The way I look at it. If you've been chatting more than a few lines then the chances are they are interested too.

We never carry on conversations if we are not interested. It wastes everyone's time.

That's fair enough but there have been a lot of times where we have chatted for ages then when i do hint at a social or whatever i get no reply lol

That, to me, screams time wasters, probably because they're fake. . Don't take it personal. Just move on to someone else. *Mrs"

I get that there are time wasters lol, just seem to be the only people i attract haha

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