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By *ecretbear94 OP   Man
over a year ago

travelling

I am struggling to find meets as people are saying they won't meet without verifications. Some people say go to clubs but I work strange hours and am on call often so can't seem to get. It's like trying for a job interview but you need 10 years experience bit nobody over the age of 20. Can anyone help?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

There are lots of organised socials about. Maybe think about that rather than paying to go in a club that you may have to leave due to a call out.

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By *ecretbear94 OP   Man
over a year ago

travelling

Thanks how do I find an organised social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks how do I find an organised social?"

The meets section

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Maybe try the Meet requests and parties forum.

People hold there own parties.. I'm sure if you was to explain that you may get a call out the organisers wouldn't mind if you had to rush off.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Try a daytime event if you can’t do an evening? x

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"There are lots of organised socials about. Maybe think about that rather than paying to go in a club that you may have to leave due to a call out. "

Great pint as most socials are reasonably priced and you don’t require membership.Dont expect fireworks straightaway but if you attend regular socials and make every effort to communicate with people you’ll soon build up your own net work of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as much as on my profile i say verification's are important but if they are photo verified, spoke on cam chat and phone then thats good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem.

While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.

Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.

100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you can't get to clubs either daytimes or evenings when will you be able to meet ?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Look for a different job

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Hi. You are in Stoke on Trent. I sometimes meet gents to give them a veri.

The fact that you aren't fussed about ladies and anything means that I should be an acceptable catch for you.

I am suggesting a social meet only. I have health issues and am not allowed to drive, so you would need to meet me at a local pub during the day.

This is a genuine offer. Please message me to arrange.

This is an offer for this OP only

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it. "
well said what a brill offer

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it. well said what a brill offer "

Absolutely and very kind of the lady however is one social verification going to make a huge difference to the op or are there other things he needs to do also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet someone without verifications

But then again I wouldnt meet someone with just cockshots on their profile either

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"What a lovely offer. I hope OP takes you up on it. well said what a brill offer

Absolutely and very kind of the lady however is one social verification going to make a huge difference to the op or are there other things he needs to do also? "

of course not once you get that tick the girls start fighting over you

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.

A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.

It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.

I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !

Newbies, you gotta start somewhere.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Honourable what you are doing. I would jump at the chance for a social veri if I was new and veri meant alot to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honourable what you are doing. I would jump at the chance for a social veri if I was new and veri meant alot to me.

"

Some are lucky

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.

A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.

It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.

I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !

Newbies, you gotta start somewhere. "

And this is why we love you!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I have the same problem.

While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.

Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.

100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out."

A veri indicates that you are a real person, not a time waster or pic collector and that you are prepared to make an effort to meet. That is pretty valuable, especially for someone new.

What most of us want to avoid is people who don’t see this as a lifestyle but are here as a temporary stopgap between girlfriends to try & get an easy shag

Maybe that’s why you’re having difficulty?

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I have the same problem.

While a few people will have empathy and accommodate your difficulty, most just expect verification and I think this is why single guys have such difficulty.

Personally I don't want to treat this like a lifestyle, it's temporary. Maybe I'll have fun as couple later. So I don't want to attend sex social with a big group. Although happy to meet individual or couples that way.

100% being ignored and deleted, unless I'm offering a girl, it's never panned out.

A veri indicates that you are a real person, not a time waster or pic collector and that you are prepared to make an effort to meet. That is pretty valuable, especially for someone new.

What most of us want to avoid is people who don’t see this as a lifestyle but are here as a temporary stopgap between girlfriends to try & get an easy shag

Maybe that’s why you’re having difficulty?"

I would think so most people who are genuinely into the lifestyle will suss someone like that out pretty quickly

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By *ecretbear94 OP   Man
over a year ago

travelling

Thank you all so much for your help here I've sent a few messages out. Great stuff guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP there are a selection of reasons why you are finding it hard to get a meet, not just your lack of verifications. No meet verifications do make it a slower process for those starting out, but that doesn’t get in the way for some guys. On the other hand, for many guys a verification will make no difference whatsoever, and they will never get a meet. Have a good think about what your target market may find appealing, and perhaps ask the forum for profile advice if you are unsure. But please be aware that there are too many single guys to go round for all to be successful on Fab.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op get photo verified by admin or go on chat and can and get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op get photo verified by admin or go on chat and can and get verified"

He is photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op get photo verified by admin or go on chat and can and get verified

He is photo verified "
to be honest I didn't check as not into guys

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I was offering to meet him in a pub in the day. Chat about how he could improve his profile and give him a few helpful hints.

A social verifications says if he turned up on time. If he was chatty, polite, attentive and looks like his photos. If I persuade him to put a couple up.

It's a good start for a newbie. But let's see if he replies and wants to actually meet someone.

I recently offered to meet an unverified person, but when I said it was social and to write a veri, the guy didn't want to meet. No point if I wasn't going to fuck !

Newbies, you gotta start somewhere.

And this is why we love you!! "

Thankyou lovely lady

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The OP has been in touch and I shall be meeting in the near future. Lizzy *** always happy to help

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"The OP has been in touch and I shall be meeting in the near future. Lizzy *** always happy to help "

That’s great news as long as you don’t take advantage of him lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"If you can't get to clubs either daytimes or evenings when will you be able to meet ?"

Why does it need to be a club?

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