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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Flip a coin

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path "

You must have an idea of who you like. Follow your gut instinct and you’ll make right decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one doesn't stand out from the other as a life partner you will only end up hurting both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one is the best fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too true.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do they know about each other? When they do you may end up alone OP!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Do you have to decide?

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have to decide?

V x "

True. I don’t have to decide. I enjoy boths companionship

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path "

I would say that neither of them are right for you if you can't make your mind up.

However if you definitely feel you have to choose don't see either of them for two weeks, or continue seeing them both it'll become clear which one you prefer in either case. There is a third option which is discussing the possibility of an open relationship with them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose the second one. If the first had been enough u would have never been interested in the second

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

Introduce them to each other and show them your Fab profile, you will either end up with two willing playmates or none, if one agrees and one doesn't you can at least have an honest relationship with that one.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Push both off of a cliff..... you obviously care more about the one you try and save!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choose the second one. If the first had been enough u would have never been interested in the second"

Brilliant ! Just brilliant ! I would never have thought of that but it is totally true.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Do a Ross (from Friends) and write a list of pros and cons for both.

Or get them to wrestle in jelly for your affections.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Choose the second one. If the first had been enough u would have never been interested in the second"

...but if the second was enough he'd have ditched the first by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choose the second one. If the first had been enough u would have never been interested in the second

...but if the second was enough he'd have ditched the first by now "

Or both aren't what he wants

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path "

Find a fab one, the fab the best ones are always fab ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut both of them with a dog in the boot of your car for an hour then open it and see which one is pleased to see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eenie meenie miny mo ?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Choose the second one. If the first had been enough u would have never been interested in the second

Brilliant ! Just brilliant ! I would never have thought of that but it is totally true."

I agree - unless you started dating them both at the same time, in which case neither of them, as neither one stands out to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path "

sarah jess uses foul language for a lady so not her lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Great suggestions. And Solomon could only come up with cutting a baby in half!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path

Find a fab one, the fab the best ones are always fab ones. "

Like ‘desperate women’ ha ha.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Move them both in and just have a 3 sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite them both to meet you for sex telling them there will be another girl there. The one that turns up is for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose which one you think you don’t think you couldn’t live without,the one who’s name makes you smile as that’s a good barometer of feelings.......advice given from a bloke who chose wrongly in the past lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path

Find a fab one, the fab the best ones are always fab ones.

Like ‘desperate women’ ha ha. "

For some reason that sentence I wrote made sense in my head but didn't make it to the page! 'fab ones are always the best ones' (joke fails)

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Depends if you are hoping it will become a long term relationship or not.

If it's just a fun relationship, then who can you see more often and is flexible time wise. Who has the best car. Who do you have best sex with and is happy to explore new things with you.

If it's long term. Who would you introduce to the family and friends. Who do you miss most when you go away and can't see them. Who cooks the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well one has just come out of a relationship. We have always been close but now she is single I guess I now realise I had feelings.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Hi all. Some advice please. I am torn between my feeling for two women (both non fab). What from experience is the best way to make a decision and choose the right path "

42 years of age and you are asking advice on a forum ? Nobody knows who you are or who the two women are ....

There’s only you walks your own path

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Tell them both you've been seeing the other and let them choose if you're worth it x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if either was the right one for you then you would know.

Do you like the same aspects about each woman, or does each have different things that you like?

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