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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,been on the site a while,but this is the first time I've looked at the forums,so go easy!!

Had very limited success on here and I'm beginning to wonder why, I don't write one word emails but tend to get a lot of ignores or one word responses.

Wondered if a few of you kind souls could have a look at my profile and see where I'm going wrong,

Thanks in advance.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi and welcome to the forums

I can't see anything that stands out as maybe holding you back on your profile. If I was to make a suggestion I would say you could add in something about what attracts you to a potential meet.

The biggest problem you face is the sheer numbers of men on the site.

No matter how good your profile and messages are you will always find lots of people will delete without replying and this is covered in the site faq's.

Have you considered going to a club and/or an organised social? It can be much easier to meet people this way.

Stick around the forums too. Although only a small percentage of site members actively use the forums they can be a great way of getting to know people and meets do happen from chatting on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi and welcome to the forums

I can't see anything that stands out as maybe holding you back on your profile. If I was to make a suggestion I would say you could add in something about what attracts you to a potential meet.

The biggest problem you face is the sheer numbers of men on the site.

No matter how good your profile and messages are you will always find lots of people will delete without replying and this is covered in the site faq's.

Have you considered going to a club and/or an organised social? It can be much easier to meet people this way.

Stick around the forums too. Although only a small percentage of site members actively use the forums they can be a great way of getting to know people and meets do happen from chatting on here."

Thanks very much,how on earth does one take a picture of Ines own bum though?lol I shall stick around here too,seems quite interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x"

Thanks for the help,I'll try and work out how to take a bum picture lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x

Thanks for the help,I'll try and work out how to take a bum picture lol"

Perhaps stand in front of a mirror?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Or you could use the timer on your phone. Place it on the floor strike a pose and away you go

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x

Thanks for the help,I'll try and work out how to take a bum picture lol

Perhaps stand in front of a mirror? "

Get someone else to take it for you ......oh yea. You can't get a meet . Doh !

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x

Thanks for the help,I'll try and work out how to take a bum picture lol

Perhaps stand in front of a mirror?

Get someone else to take it for you ......oh yea. You can't get a meet . Doh ! "

A friend used the delay timer on his phone if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums. Pics are good, perhaps add a couple of bum and torso shots, otherwise all looks OK and you've had a meet as well. Best of luck to you x

Thanks for the help,I'll try and work out how to take a bum picture lol

Perhaps stand in front of a mirror?

Get someone else to take it for you ......oh yea. You can't get a meet . Doh !

A friend used the delay timer on his phone if that helps? "

Yep,the timer worked,managed to take a bum picture,can't say I've ever done that before??

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

All looks good to me, well written text and good pics! Good luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All looks good to me, well written text and good pics! Good luck to you! "

Thanks guys

Guess I'm just getting used to the difficulties faced by us chaps lol,think I may try the club scene

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"All looks good to me, well written text and good pics! Good luck to you!

Thanks guys

Guess I'm just getting used to the difficulties faced by us chaps lol,think I may try the club scene "

I think that would be a good idea

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nice bum pic but it would be even better with your jumper off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice bum pic but it would be even better with your jumper off!"

Thanks Sally I shall modify when I get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your doing quit well so far nothing wrong with your profile good luck ahead at less better than me

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

Unhiding your profile would be good place to start.

Particularly when you’ve asked for advice on it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unhiding your profile would be good place to start.

Particularly when you’ve asked for advice on it! Lol"

Haha I know!!! My bad, I've no idea how I managed to do that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unhiding your profile would be good place to start.

Particularly when you’ve asked for advice on it! Lol

Haha I know!!! My bad, I've no idea how I managed to do that either "

It's magic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unhiding your profile would be good place to start.

Particularly when you’ve asked for advice on it! Lol

Haha I know!!! My bad, I've no idea how I managed to do that either

It's magic "

Call me Gandalf the almost grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do look young. And yummy.

Profile seems OK to me. I like the bit of humour and the hints at things to talk about. Photos are yummy too.

2 meets in 4 months isn't bad going on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You do look young. And yummy.

Profile seems OK to me. I like the bit of humour and the hints at things to talk about. Photos are yummy too.

2 meets in 4 months isn't bad going on this site.

"

Lol,thanks,not too shabby yourself I guess it's just tough for single guys on here ey,such is life!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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2 meets in 4 months is very good going for a new single guy on here so obviously the profile is actually working well. I am quite curious what your expectations on here were exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"2 meets in 4 months is very good going for a new single guy on here so obviously the profile is actually working well. I am quite curious what your expectations on here were exactly?"

Hey,hope you're well, I'm not sure tbh,I guess I hadn't really considered the fact that there's an abundance of men on here in comparison to women, I thought it'd be a lot easier I guess,ATM finding it easier to find fun on a night out lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Yes most men are finding it that way, they join with high expectations of sex on tap, it's not quite like that in reality. Attend a few clubs and get yourself known on the scene for being respectful, and you could be surprised by how in demand you become.

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