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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here a while...no meets for a long time, must be my chat/profile...

Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile has a discrepancy in height...umm...and it reads very clinically and...irritated ? Not fun or inviting but yeah we all know how it is here...lots of messing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not the only one they other single guys in the same boat on here that how hard it is.

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By *ucky Lucky meMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Don't worry,if you are desperate for a shag it won't happen.

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By *haun12345Man
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Been here a while...no meets for a long time, must be my chat/profile...

Any tips?"

Probably need to cut down the writing a bit. Get rid of some of the yap. That's what I think anyway.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Profile is very clinical, reads a list of demands. It also comes over like you can’t be bothered getting to know someone, you just want a ‘fuck & go’.

Approx 70% of Fab is single guys looking for women. Maybe 10% couples looking for couples and women and 10% single women looking for couples & women. That leaves 5% women looking for men.

Single women have their pick of single guys.

Why should they pick you over someone else? Your profile doesn’t give any reasons at all.

Women like to get to know someone on the whole. Swinging is a social activity. I can pick up an anonymous fuck in any bar of any town any time I like. Swinging is more than that, it’s a lifestyle, an experience with someone who stands out from the crowd it is a little different.

You’re not offering anything I can’t get in my local boozer.

If you want a meet, sell yourself. What’s special about you? Get to a club. Your last veri is from cam a year ago. That’s going to work against you. Get social veri’s. And lose the ‘I’m just looking for an easy fuck’ stance - as you’ve found out, it’s a guaranteed way to not get anything!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True, cheers for time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice,

Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing you’ve changed your profile in response to what others have said. Few things don’t make sense? What’s a ‘1 time meet’? Does that mean one night stand? Also you have ticked ‘cuckolding’ in your list of interests. Cuckolding is normally something a single guy does with an MF couple, but you aren’t looking for MF couples. Unless you mean you are looking for a single lady to make you the cuckold? Again threesomes tends to involve couples, but maybe you meant an MFF? It seems to me that you don’t really know what you want, yet you say we are all here for the same thing. Are we?

Mrs

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Profile is very clinical, reads a list of demands. It also comes over like you can’t be bothered getting to know someone, you just want a ‘fuck & go’.

Approx 70% of Fab is single guys looking for women. Maybe 10% couples looking for couples and women and 10% single women looking for couples & women. That leaves 5% women looking for men.

Single women have their pick of single guys.

Why should they pick you over someone else? Your profile doesn’t give any reasons at all.

Women like to get to know someone on the whole. Swinging is a social activity. I can pick up an anonymous fuck in any bar of any town any time I like. Swinging is more than that, it’s a lifestyle, an experience with someone who stands out from the crowd it is a little different.

You’re not offering anything I can’t get in my local boozer.

If you want a meet, sell yourself. What’s special about you? Get to a club. Your last veri is from cam a year ago. That’s going to work against you. Get social veri’s. And lose the ‘I’m just looking for an easy fuck’ stance - as you’ve found out, it’s a guaranteed way to not get anything!!"

This, in a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a while...no meets for a long time, must be my chat/profile...

Any tips?"

How do you chat?

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