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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry for yet another post asking for advice... Just wondered if you lovely people would mind telling us what your first thoughts are upon viewing our profile. Constructive criticism welcome, rude and abusive ones not so much xx

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Profile reads fine to me. The only thing missing is pictures of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile reads fine to me. The only thing missing is pictures of course."

Thank you. Pics are set to private, but willingly sent once a conversation is established xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pretty good profile. The obvious thing is - you have no pics and your avatar pic isn't particularly helpful. Only one of you in it and kind of hard to see what you are like.

Your text is pretty good. If I'm being fussy it would be helpful to split up the dense slabs of text a bit and add more detail about how you like to soft play. A bit more punctuation would be good.

I would have suggested socials and clubs to get to know people, but you clearly go to Quest regularly. Have you tried social events to network?

And, sorry to say it, but I wonder if some would be put off by your body type. As a big girl myself I know it stinks, but many look for slim toned men. The lack of pics means people can only go on the description.

I think you sound sociable and fun. I hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Rather than starting your profile with the negative "no single males" why not block them and delete the phrase.

I would not message a couples profile with only one pic of the female and nothing of the male.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out? "

I see your point there. I probably should have gone into more detail there. My meaning behind that was if they had pictures of themselves having bareback sex with anyone other than their partner x I'll amend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rather than starting your profile with the negative "no single males" why not block them and delete the phrase.

I would not message a couples profile with only one pic of the female and nothing of the male. "

I've amended. Thank you xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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I've amended. Thank you xx"

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

So where is "funkytown" anywhere near trumpton ?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out?

I see your point there. I probably should have gone into more detail there. My meaning behind that was if they had pictures of themselves having bareback sex with anyone other than their partner x I'll amend."

how would you know if it was their partner or a pic from a bbgb they attended? listing safe sex is all that's necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out?

I see your point there. I probably should have gone into more detail there. My meaning behind that was if they had pictures of themselves having bareback sex with anyone other than their partner x I'll amend.

how would you know if it was their partner or a pic from a bbgb they attended? listing safe sex is all that's necessary."

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out?

I see your point there. I probably should have gone into more detail there. My meaning behind that was if they had pictures of themselves having bareback sex with anyone other than their partner x I'll amend.

how would you know if it was their partner or a pic from a bbgb they attended? listing safe sex is all that's necessary. "

nice to see folks acting on profile advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The part about 'no bareback pics' could do with some attention? If a husband and wife profile had a pic of them having sex without a condom together, would you rule them out?

I see your point there. I probably should have gone into more detail there. My meaning behind that was if they had pictures of themselves having bareback sex with anyone other than their partner x I'll amend.

how would you know if it was their partner or a pic from a bbgb they attended? listing safe sex is all that's necessary.

nice to see folks acting on profile advice "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think that your information is pretty sound, but seems very very condensed.

I think profiles with bulletin points or well spaced make for a much easier read. Also makes it look neater and less hurried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think that your information is pretty sound, but seems very very condensed.

I think profiles with bulletin points or well spaced make for a much easier read. Also makes it look neater and less hurried."

Thanks for the advice...ive just spaced it out a bit x hope it looks better xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


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So where is "funkytown" anywhere near trumpton ? "

so that a no then..how about Greendale ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for yet another post asking for advice... Just wondered if you lovely people would mind telling us what your first thoughts are upon viewing our profile. Constructive criticism welcome, rude and abusive ones not so much xx"

I like it, straight to the point and you clearly know what you want. Looks good to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry for yet another post asking for advice... Just wondered if you lovely people would mind telling us what your first thoughts are upon viewing our profile. Constructive criticism welcome, rude and abusive ones not so much xx

I like it, straight to the point and you clearly know what you want. Looks good to me! "

Thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Overall a pretty good profile.

Though it lacks what many do - full length photo of both clearly showing body type.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poor pics

screen shots and cropped pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't love ffm!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't love ffm!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think that your information is pretty sound, but seems very very condensed.

I think profiles with bulletin points or well spaced make for a much easier read. Also makes it look neater and less hurried.

Thanks for the advice...ive just spaced it out a bit x hope it looks better xx "

Much better. I'd say you've officially nailed it ! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think that your information is pretty sound, but seems very very condensed.

I think profiles with bulletin points or well spaced make for a much easier read. Also makes it look neater and less hurried.

Thanks for the advice...ive just spaced it out a bit x hope it looks better xx

Much better. I'd say you've officially nailed it ! X "

Why thank you kind sir x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The pic of you both with pink hearts is pointless. We can't see anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The pic of you both with pink hearts is pointless. We can't see anything."

It's to show that we are a couple..together..in the same pic. All our face pics are set to private and can be sent once a conversation has been established. We just don't want our faves splashed all over the internet for all and sundry to see/read about our private life. That's not to diss anyone who does have public photos but it's just not for us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The pic of you both with pink hearts is pointless. We can't see anything.

It's to show that we are a couple..together..in the same pic. All our face pics are set to private and can be sent once a conversation has been established. We just don't want our faves splashed all over the internet for all and sundry to see/read about our private life. That's not to diss anyone who does have public photos but it's just not for us x"

Faces*

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Female half here , I would pass your profile by as there’s nothing in it that would make me want to message you. No pictures definately makes you anonymous but also makes you one of a crowd . No point in messaging back and forth and then finding out your not attracted. Couples want to meet females but don’t put anything on their profile to attract a female.

Boobs

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By *TAYfunMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Lucy your profile is outstanding you say what you want and what you two are up for anyone not reading it properly doesn't deserve a response

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

The no public pics and the location being "funky town", would be enough for us to not even read any further, We like to see if we are attracted to your pics, and if you are close enough for a meet to be possible, just choose a major town somewhere near you to set as location, somewhere people will have heard of, (ie nr Exeter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wee bit forgettable and a lot of it goes without saying. You could say what you've said in one paragraph x

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