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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Random question for you. I still have my anal virginity intact and got fingered whilst rimmed the other day.

Here's the question. It hurt a bit, makes me worry if I want Anal, did you have this pain or concern or should I just man up and do it?

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury (shropshire, not wales)

Stop if it hurts, I find I need to be fully relaxed well rimmed/lubed before anal

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Fingers can be worse if nails aren’t manicured!!

Plus lube, being prepared & being relaxed are the key to good anal play!

But, if you’re not comfortable, then no - don’t do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal should be pleasurable and not hurt.

The first time is important and needs to be a gradual process of relaxation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal should be pleasurable and not hurt.

The first time is important and needs to be a gradual process of relaxation "

Yep I agree, I used to not like it , however different parntner now and after being fully prepared Totally relaxed loads of foreplay , anal toys also help with lube . It's totally different and when in the mood now I love it!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lots of lube and very gentle pressure until it pops in. Angle is critical to avoiding pain.

Don't forget to lube inside with a finger too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers all!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford and Stockport

Yup all the above. If you're thinking about trying this then have a go with toys first, work up through sizes, always plenty of lube, relaxation needed etc. I find that vibrating toys are good for me. If it's hurting then stop, you are really sensitive and easily damaged back there. Get it right and it should be really good, just don't let anybody get it wrong with you. Polly xx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Lots of lube OP

Actually I don’t like being fingered in the ass but I do like a nice cock in there.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Lots of lube OP

Actually I don’t like being fingered in the ass but I do like a nice cock in there. "
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Too true x.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

The 2 objects would enter you with very different processes - being fingered is a different process to fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bed your self in by using different sizes of Butt plugs to help stretch your bum hole gently over time .. start of small and work yourself up to a bigger size over time

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By *y PussyWoman
over a year ago

Crickhowell

Having a finger is not as pleasurable as the real thing. Just remember "patience is a virtue"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb says my fingers are more uncomfortable than the bigger toys we use. So id say start experimenting with some toys working up x

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By *oitreMan
over a year ago

Aylsham

Apparently there is an anal muscle. If this hasn't relaxed then you will feel pain when entered. I suggest you buy a dildo and practice on yourself. I did just that many years ago and now a cock can slip in easily!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Lube with muscle relaxant.....awesome stuff.....it make you feel all warm and fuzzy.....and then it will slip right in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure you douche first if you decide to play further with anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bed your self in by using different sizes of Butt plugs to help stretch your bum hole gently over time .. start of small and work yourself up to a bigger size over time "

this, helps a lot

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