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"Evening all we are looking for some advice on how to start a conversation, we find no issues in person but find messaging a little awkward any tips to help us along our way? Many thanks S n J xx" Well I am the opposite I find hard in person and easier on here. On here if someone has put something on the forum that catches me, and has a nice profile, just a message to say something like I saw what you put etc, and maybe compliments them on profile In person everyone says I am chatty I just am crap at asking people to play lol | |||
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So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha  | |||
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 Haha yeah I see that a lot with peoples profiles, one minute they say they don’t want one of meets and aren’t on here to shag the whole site but on the other hand they don’t want you to ask them what they are looking for ect can be confusing | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha "You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message  | |||
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"Evening all we are looking for some advice on how to start a conversation, we find no issues in person but find messaging a little awkward any tips to help us along our way? Many thanks S n J xx Well I am the opposite I find hard in person and easier on here. On here if someone has put something on the forum that catches me, and has a nice profile, just a message to say something like I saw what you put etc, and maybe compliments them on profile In person everyone says I am chatty I just am crap at asking people to play lol " I do find that “asking someone to play” can be awkward we feel it’s better for it to happen in the heat of the moment | |||
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"Evening all we are looking for some advice on how to start a conversation, we find no issues in person but find messaging a little awkward any tips to help us along our way? Many thanks S n J xx Well I am the opposite I find hard in person and easier on here. On here if someone has put something on the forum that catches me, and has a nice profile, just a message to say something like I saw what you put etc, and maybe compliments them on profile In person everyone says I am chatty I just am crap at asking people to play lol I do find that “asking someone to play” can be awkward we feel it’s better for it to happen in the heat of the moment " It’s different for single guys as I often find couples and females like you to be assertive and ask Also in the clubbing scene asking is seen as more polite | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha
You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message "Well that tends to be my view of things too, but a few people we've spoken to wanted to get straight to the point haha. Whatever floats your boat though I suppose  | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha
You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message
Well that tends to be my view of things too, but a few people we've spoken to wanted to get straight to the point haha. Whatever floats your boat though I suppose "If we get a message saying fancy a fuck or Something similar it’s a simple delete and block, it’s just rude, if we were at a club or party I would put money on it no one would walk up to you and say “fancy a fuck” so why is it acceptable in messages? | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha
You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message
Well that tends to be my view of things too, but a few people we've spoken to wanted to get straight to the point haha. Whatever floats your boat though I suppose
If we get a message saying fancy a fuck or Something similar it’s a simple delete and block, it’s just rude, if we were at a club or party I would put money on it no one would walk up to you and say “fancy a fuck” so why is it acceptable in messages?"Fancy a duck I have seen work a number of times at in acubb  | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha
You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message
Well that tends to be my view of things too, but a few people we've spoken to wanted to get straight to the point haha. Whatever floats your boat though I suppose
If we get a message saying fancy a fuck or Something similar it’s a simple delete and block, it’s just rude, if we were at a club or party I would put money on it no one would walk up to you and say “fancy a fuck” so why is it acceptable in messages?
Fancy a duck I have seen work a number of times at in acubb "Yeah although funny, I just think it’s would put us off like right away to bold to start with | |||
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"Definitely! Especially people who say 'dont ask me how I am, don't ask me what I'm looking for, don't ask me x/y/z, don't send something boring lol' Maybe it's just cause we're so new, but I'm not used to being really bold
So hopefully I can follow this thread and get some ideas haha
You don’t need to say fancy a fuck in the first message
Well that tends to be my view of things too, but a few people we've spoken to wanted to get straight to the point haha. Whatever floats your boat though I suppose
If we get a message saying fancy a fuck or Something similar it’s a simple delete and block, it’s just rude, if we were at a club or party I would put money on it no one would walk up to you and say “fancy a fuck” so why is it acceptable in messages?
Fancy a duck I have seen work a number of times at in acubb
Yeah although funny, I just think it’s would put us off like right away to bold to start with "Yeah it has put me off before if I didn’t know the person but sometimes you have to go with flow  | |||
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