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By *arker116 OP   Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Now I haven’t wanted to make one of these posts but hey-ho as I’m at a dead end.

I don’t seem to be getting anywhere with fab, I know it is hard for single guys and it is a bit of a numbers game but it’s a game I have been playing for a good few months and don’t seem to be getting anywhere.

I will message singles and couples very respectfully and always try to include something from there profile to show that I have read it and that I’m not just copy and pasting. But most of the time I never get a message back or at best exchange a few messages and then get ghosted.

Any advice from all you experienced foke??

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will want to see more pics, they wont message you to see them.

You cant accommodate, most will, rightly or wrongly assume you are attached and cheating.

Your headline isnt a great start, your already saying your not staying here long, if i were looking for straight guys, this would make me pass you by.

Poppy

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I wouldn't be bothered to tip my head or my iPad to see your pic properly. Rotate it and re-upload! And some more, that's not the clearest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find it a bit odd when men describe themselves as "curvy".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's about presentation and interest. This is your shop window.

I'm not a lady but I didn't feel your text makes you stand out. Make sure you use a spell checker and capital letters and full stops in the right places. For example, you spell 'here' as 'hear'. This will upset some people!

You need more and better pictures. Say, about eight. But no more than one cock pic, preferably showing your whole body and not a close up.

Try to show your personality!

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By *arker116 OP   Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Thanks for the advice guys. Iv made a few small changes to my profile so hopefully that Inproves that side of it.

Seams to me the main problem is my pictures so that’s something I’m going to work on over the next few days and hopefully have a bit more look over the next few weeks

Thanks again for the advice it is appreciated

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

It's hard even for us

My advice would be go clubs loads of time wasters on here me /woman/couple we've arranged loads of meets then when it comes to it they disappear or don't reply and most of people don't even read your profile

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