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"I should like to meet a nice localish couple or female for regular meetings apart from those I hope I can call friends from some distance away." With a status like that you’re going to need all the help you can get! Good luck. | |||
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"What grinds my gears is couples who say no bi males. When by its very nature a mmf is nk.especially if the female likes dp or wants to suck two cocks at once.what they should say is no straight bigots" That makes no sense at all. Why can’t people have preferences? And why do people like you waste time thinking about people that don’t want to meet you. | |||
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"Yep. Plenty real ppl here. But bcoz of some id.. S ladies/couples aren't willing to play. That site is for swingers not for serial shaggers and punters who only after one off f.. For free. If you can entertain girl outside the bedroom you wil not have chance to get into her bed for sure. " ooooo id love to entertain you every where imagineable. Stunning x | |||
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"What grinds my gears is couples who say no bi males. When by its very nature a mmf is nk.especially if the female likes dp or wants to suck two cocks at once.what they should say is no straight bigots" What a strange post. It is not bigot to not wish to meet Bi males. I have had dp and the men's cocks did not touch, except for rubbing together through my arse wall of course. XXX | |||
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"Looks like the only fake here is you OP i reverse Google image searched your profile picture.... FAKE.... OP all your cock picks are of different cocks care to explain that one?? " | |||
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"What grinds my gears is couples who say no bi males. When by its very nature a mmf is nk.especially if the female likes dp or wants to suck two cocks at once.what they should say is no straight bigots That makes no sense at all. Why can’t people have preferences? And why do people like you waste time thinking about people that don’t want to meet you. " Preference is a euphemism. Everyone here is fab straight, some people admit it. You might as well say "we prefer liars". | |||
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"Looks like the only fake here is you OP i reverse Google image searched your profile picture.... FAKE.... OP all your cock picks are of different cocks care to explain that one?? "One of them is literally a screenshot of someone else's fab photo | |||
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"I think we should start a hunt for who he screenshotted #FindTheCockSource" There should be a prize for the firest one to find it | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/" And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? | |||
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"I think we should start a hunt for who he screenshotted #FindTheCockSource" #notme | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%?" Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. " And your 100% wrong There’s no curse or hardship for friendly, articulate, engaging, respectful guys who really understand what Swinging is about. You don’t have to brad Pitt or built like a pro sports man or rich Those who think it’s just a quick shag, do no basic research on how the swinging works operates and the dynamics will always struggle. Why ? because they are not suited to the swinging world. Their mind set is out of kinter with what it’s all about. It’s all quite simple really. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. " Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. And your 100% wrong There’s no curse or hardship for friendly, articulate, engaging, respectful guys who really understand what Swinging is about. You don’t have to brad Pitt or built like a pro sports man or rich Those who think it’s just a quick shag, do no basic research on how the swinging works operates and the dynamics will always struggle. Why ? because they are not suited to the swinging world. Their mind set is out of kinter with what it’s all about. It’s all quite simple really. " There's no curse for friendly, articulate, engaging and respectful guys? Really? Do you believe that any of the above matters in the slightest bit? I have demonstrated the above as much as possible, all of my messages are well thought out and I exude a positive, happy mentality throughout. ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Looks are tantamount to success with women. It's actually sensible really, and I don't hold any grudges against them, only the nature of attraction. Supply and demand; men demand sex far more than women (on average of course). Thus there is a power struggle and women have the freedom to select the best men on offer. It is nought to do with the essence of swinging or your mindset, it is simple and universal standards of looks and attraction. I merely pointed out a fact so I'm not trying to start an argument, despite how the above may sound and I remain neutral, but trying to pander to emotions in the face of simple facts is pointless. It is to deny your own nature. Would you fuck an ugly, well dressed, articulate man? Or a handsome man who isn't well educated and sounds like an idiot? Studies on Tinder reveal the latter is the more attractive option for women. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in." How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? " Women look at profiles before opening a message. You need to ask yourself, do you really stand out? Is what you have to say interesting? You need to make someone want to know more. Does your profile do that? | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? Women look at profiles before opening a message. You need to ask yourself, do you really stand out? Is what you have to say interesting? You need to make someone want to know more. Does your profile do that? " Currently, no. I have tried a multitude of profile descriptions each left alone for months at a time. I didn't notice a difference at the time. I guess part of the problem is the simple fact of numbers. There's far more competition for me than there is for any woman. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED." Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? " It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored." I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? Women look at profiles before opening a message. You need to ask yourself, do you really stand out? Is what you have to say interesting? You need to make someone want to know more. Does your profile do that? Currently, no. I have tried a multitude of profile descriptions each left alone for months at a time. I didn't notice a difference at the time. I guess part of the problem is the simple fact of numbers. There's far more competition for me than there is for any woman. " Which means you have to try harder to stand out not less. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience." Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? Women look at profiles before opening a message. You need to ask yourself, do you really stand out? Is what you have to say interesting? You need to make someone want to know more. Does your profile do that? Currently, no. I have tried a multitude of profile descriptions each left alone for months at a time. I didn't notice a difference at the time. I guess part of the problem is the simple fact of numbers. There's far more competition for me than there is for any woman. Which means you have to try harder to stand out not less." Looks aren't really something you can "try harder" at. They're set in stone. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. " You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. " I'm afraid it is. You'll get less bothering with you with how your profile is now. Your competition is putting in a lot more effort than you are, which means you've got to put in more yourself or get used to be ignored for those who make the effort. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men. "
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men. " I find most women demand a face pic in the first message (which is ridiculous in my opinion). Attaching a face pic warrants an instant delete or sometimes a block. I have put effort in, more than I should have given my success rate. If I could have the time I've spent on fab back, I would. I could have launched another business in the time I've sat here attempting to meet someone. The first law for getting laid: Don't be unattractive. I think I failed that one. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. " Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
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Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them."Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's?" I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! " If you want, I'll give you some tips to better help you . Let me know lovely and I'll inbox you.We can also have a little chat about perhaps chatting on cam's to get you a cam veri. Not perfect, but a start for you, I hope, lovely | |||
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"Looks like the only fake here is you OP i reverse Google image searched your profile picture.... FAKE.... OP all your cock picks are of different cocks care to explain that one?? " busted | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? " Chin up chap Rome wasn't built in a day. There's plenty of options for you here and if this is your 1st profile 4 week's is a spec on the fabs time line. The forum's are a great place to get to know people and they also have a lot of socials in different parts of UK. The chat rooms can be manic but might be worth exploring too. Keep going it will happen just be yourself and wait patiently. | |||
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"Looks like the only fake here is you OP i reverse Google image searched your profile picture.... FAKE.... OP all your cock picks are of different cocks care to explain that one??
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! " Tbh you come across as a decent bloke with something to offer, just maybe got sidelined by perceptions. Clear the desk and get your cock and brain in gear. There is plenty for you here if you want it. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! Tbh you come across as a decent bloke with something to offer, just maybe got sidelined by perceptions. Clear the desk and get your cock and brain in gear. There is plenty for you here if you want it." It always the decent bloke who lose out in the end  | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! If you want, I'll give you some tips to better help you . Let me know lovely and I'll inbox you.We can also have a little chat about perhaps chatting on cam's to get you a cam veri. Not perfect, but a start for you, I hope, lovely "Advice would be awesome! Especially coming from my intended audience. Thanks | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! Tbh you come across as a decent bloke with something to offer, just maybe got sidelined by perceptions. Clear the desk and get your cock and brain in gear. There is plenty for you here if you want it." Probably, I'm willing to listen to others though. even if I sound like a pig headed fool! I'll do my best. | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? Chin up chap Rome wasn't built in a day. There's plenty of options for you here and if this is your 1st profile 4 week's is a spec on the fabs time line. The forum's are a great place to get to know people and they also have a lot of socials in different parts of UK. The chat rooms can be manic but might be worth exploring too. Keep going it will happen just be yourself and wait patiently. " It's actually 9 months but I get your point either way. Its just a little worrying is all! | |||
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! If you want, I'll give you some tips to better help you . Let me know lovely and I'll inbox you.We can also have a little chat about perhaps chatting on cam's to get you a cam veri. Not perfect, but a start for you, I hope, lovely
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"3 weeks? I've been here for 9 months and tried just about every profile description I can think of. I've deleted my profile twice now due to the realisation that it isn't going to work. But for some reason I'm back again. I know it's a waste of time but there's still a tiny sliver of hope. I guess if you're not in the top 10% you'll not get to meet anyone. :/ And your current one is the accumulated knowledge one? Surely, if you accept it's a waste of time there can't be a sliver of hope. What is the top 10%? Well, that's a good point. I think deep down I know it's a waste of time and I won't get to meet anyone here, but I'm too stupid to delete it and spend my time on my empire, such as it is. Top 10%? I guess it's my perception of the type of men that women are attracted to. Mostly handsome, physically fit, wealthy men. Why don't you have a fucking massive re-think and get meeting on here. Your perception is very wrong, get rid of it. You have it in your power if you're willing to put a shift in. How do you get meeting if your messages aren't opened or well received, despite the content? It might be stating the bleeding obvious but re-evaluate your message content and target audience. Have done. I've even had advice from other successful users which I still use. Doesn't make a difference who I message and/or what I say. Your messages must be shit, it's the only common denominator. Have you answered meet ads or posted meet ad's? I have. 5 years with one date and a handful of replies across various dating websites and now Fab have crushed any confidence I had in securing a meet. Since there are a few people in here replying to my comments, I'll take your advice and have another go at a better profile. And btw, I'm not always a miserable c*nt! Tbh you come across as a decent bloke with something to offer, just maybe got sidelined by perceptions. Clear the desk and get your cock and brain in gear. There is plenty for you here if you want it. It always the decent bloke who lose out in the end "You say that all the time on the forums. It’s not a very nice thing to say because it implies that the guys who don’t lose out are not decent. Are you decent? If you were you wouldn’t persistently say the sort of things you say about other guys. Mrs | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence. "If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back.... | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence.
If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back...."My defeatist attitude is only evident in this thread. As I've said I remain positive, up-beat and normal in my messages. Success with women and success with business are two vastly different and unrelated things. Business is a simple game of risk, conscientiousness and good ideas. Your genetically determined looks are irrelevant. I am a happy person, but you cannot just become confident in yourself without first having validation (something everyone needs). If you suddenly stopped receiving messages altogether, and your messages were ignored, your confidence would start to wither and die. Nevertheless I did say I'd take some advice, specifically that pertaining to my profile. | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence.
If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back....
My defeatist attitude is only evident in this thread. As I've said I remain positive, up-beat and normal in my messages. Success with women and success with business are two vastly different and unrelated things. Business is a simple game of risk, conscientiousness and good ideas. Your genetically determined looks are irrelevant.
I am a happy person, but you cannot just become confident in yourself without first having validation (something everyone needs). If you suddenly stopped receiving messages altogether, and your messages were ignored, your confidence would start to wither and die.
Nevertheless I did say I'd take some advice, specifically that pertaining to my profile. "Glad to hear business is so easy! You must be very rich then! | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence.
If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back....
My defeatist attitude is only evident in this thread. As I've said I remain positive, up-beat and normal in my messages. Success with women and success with business are two vastly different and unrelated things. Business is a simple game of risk, conscientiousness and good ideas. Your genetically determined looks are irrelevant.
I am a happy person, but you cannot just become confident in yourself without first having validation (something everyone needs). If you suddenly stopped receiving messages altogether, and your messages were ignored, your confidence would start to wither and die.
Nevertheless I did say I'd take some advice, specifically that pertaining to my profile. "As I said it’s all about attitude. Being a happy person does not mean you have the right attitude for swinging. All your comments imply you have ( currently) the wrong attitude and approach for swinging. Therefore you will always be unsuccessful | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence.
If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back....
My defeatist attitude is only evident in this thread. As I've said I remain positive, up-beat and normal in my messages. Success with women and success with business are two vastly different and unrelated things. Business is a simple game of risk, conscientiousness and good ideas. Your genetically determined looks are irrelevant.
I am a happy person, but you cannot just become confident in yourself without first having validation (something everyone needs). If you suddenly stopped receiving messages altogether, and your messages were ignored, your confidence would start to wither and die.
Nevertheless I did say I'd take some advice, specifically that pertaining to my profile.
As I said it’s all about attitude. Being a happy person does not mean you have the right attitude for swinging.
All your comments imply you have ( currently) the wrong attitude and approach for swinging. Therefore you will always be unsuccessful "I’ve now looked at his profile. I’m not sure that he wants to swing anyway. It’s not very clear but it sounds like he looking for a friend with benefits. If that the case OP you might find it easier on a casual dating site. Mrs | |||
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"ALL of my messages are deleted or ignored. ALL OF THEM. ESPECIALLY IF A FACE PIC IS ATTACHED. Lots of people will look at your profile before your message. If your profile is lacking in effort they won't bother with your message. Your profile is your shop window, your way of standing out from the crowd way before a message is even considered. Maybe take a look at yours from the point of view of those you are trying to attract to give yourself an idea of why your messages are being deleted/ignored. I've tried all sorts, detail, charisma, interesting personal points etc. And I don't believe for a second that a profile description is even remotely as important as good looks. You're wrong. Most can't see what someone looks like intially. A good profile is the main lure initially. If you can't put the effort in, the ones who do, will be the ones getting laid. Look at the more successful men on here. They are not hot bods and great looks. They are average, well articulated and respectful men.
I agree.
Have more confidence in yourself, be positive, put up a decent profile then get on with you life outside Fab. In time someone will come along take a look at your profile and be able to see from the effort you've made that you are attractive to them.
Confidence is earned, you can't just summon if from nothing. As I say, I have tried all manner of profile descriptions to no avail. My life outside of Fab is quite something to behold, I'm a very successful, conscientious young man with will to succeed. In that at least I have confidence.
If you are successful in business then you will know that constant “yeah....but” responses will not not get you very far......the same goes for here, it is actually really, really unattractive....so even your responses on here, to people giving you advice, are putting women off you....I would advise you to go away, do a mindfulness course, mediate, find yourself or such like.....and when you have become happy in yourself, then come back....
My defeatist attitude is only evident in this thread. As I've said I remain positive, up-beat and normal in my messages. Success with women and success with business are two vastly different and unrelated things. Business is a simple game of risk, conscientiousness and good ideas. Your genetically determined looks are irrelevant.
I am a happy person, but you cannot just become confident in yourself without first having validation (something everyone needs). If you suddenly stopped receiving messages altogether, and your messages were ignored, your confidence would start to wither and die.
Nevertheless I did say I'd take some advice, specifically that pertaining to my profile. "There’s that “yeah ....but “again.....  | |||
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