FabSwingers.com forum: What do you deem as a c**k pic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

In the profile the lady asked for face pics and no dick pics, so I attached a face pic and the body pic (July 8) I've made public. This young lady then berated me about having the audacity to send a dick pic (not reading her profile).

If my judgement is way off I'll happily concede defeat and crawl back into my cave to lick my wounds and reassess my understanding of 42. Does a long body shot covering head to toe that has also happens to catch the outline of flaccid dick count as a dick pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

Why would you send a pic that she already had access to?

I dont understand

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes! If a profile says no dick pics it's generally because we are fed up of being bombarded with them, out of context cocks arent the most sexy of things lol.

I do get the hump when I get them no matter how attractive they are, as it means the owner couldn't be arsed to read my (admittedly long) profile xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that since she asked for a face pic and no dick pic, and you sent her a picture which had a dick in it, then yes you were in the wrong.

I personally wouldn’t have been offended, but if that’s what she expressly asked for then I can see why she’s annoyed.

Better luck next time

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

IMO.

I would have thought that your own description of the picture you sent would have been the full answer apart from calling it a dick,

If it has your appendage in the picture then it can be classed as a c**k pic, but if it's already in public view why on earth send it?

Some will disagree completely with your thoughts others with mine, you have to go with what you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a naked pic with a dick in it. It's disrespectful to send it when someone has asked for no dick pics.

Some men just don't give a shit about what women want.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"the lady asked for face pics and no dick pics"

Hello OP,

Yes, we would say that you sent a cock pic. Put it this way, a picture with a cock in it, IS a cock pic.

More importantly that pic doesn't show your face, so it definitely wasn't what she wanted to see.

For other users: I think the OP has made a once private pic into a public one, so you can all see it and help him out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the dick is in the pic then it’s a dick pic my friend,she specifically said no nudger in the photo and you sent one so sorry but you deserve a bit of flack for it,most women Sedona wanna see that in a pic and it’s part of the anticipation(I’ve no nudger pics btw) I’d say sorry it was unintentional x

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By *rmskirk360Woman
over a year ago

Wigan

The clue is in the name... If it's a pic that has a dick in it... It's a dick pic...

Why you're here so confused as to why she isn't interested after being clear she doesn't want dic pics and you sent her a dick pic, it's completely beyond me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The clue is in the name... If it's a pic that has a dick in it... It's a dick pic...

Why you're here so confused as to why she isn't interested after being clear she doesn't want dic pics and you sent her a dick pic, it's completely beyond me... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I sent a full face pic in the message and yes I made the previously private pic public public for critique. As for my face pic; I do not need public voting as to if it is a face or not.

From the overwhelming majority "any pic that has a cock in it in any way whatsoever is deemed a dick pic". I was under the mistaken view a dick pic was a centred and clear image of a dick. The kind guys seem to flood their profiles with. Not related to nudity in general. Alas I was wrong. I guess it could also be deemed a toe, lips, nipple, chest, or foot pic.

** pic has been made private again **

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By *rmskirk360Woman
over a year ago

Wigan

"I sent a full face pic in the message and yes I made the previously private pic public public for critique. As for my face pic; I do not need public voting as to if it is a face or not.

** pic has been made private again **"

And THAT is why women have issues with most single men on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos."

Yeah, the lady made it clear she didnt want a dick pic

OP disregarded that, and sent one anyway

I can see why its so very confusing for men on here

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos.

Yeah, the lady made it clear she didnt want a dick pic

OP disregarded that, and sent one anyway

I can see why its so very confusing for men on here"

HER: I want to see your face. I don’t want to see your dick.

HIM: *sends a photo with a dick in it*

HER: Oh ffs...

I’m failing to see the confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as in the meets or browse sections , youll see a couple or female posting a meet for M and when you try and message M sexes are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos.

Yeah, the lady made it clear she didnt want a dick pic

OP disregarded that, and sent one anyway

I can see why its so very confusing for men on here"

They can't follow clear instructions. Or they just don't give a shit what the woman wants as they know better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, this post is about me.

You sent me three dick pics, after claiming to have read my profile, which states I don’t want any

I’m cock blind! I don’t want to see any unless I ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos.

Yeah, the lady made it clear she didnt want a dick pic

OP disregarded that, and sent one anyway

I can see why its so very confusing for men on here

They can't follow clear instructions. Or they just don't give a shit what the woman wants as they know better!"

Clearly!!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Lol, this post is about me.

You sent me three dick pics, after claiming to have read my profile, which states I don’t want any

I’m cock blind! I don’t want to see any unless I ask for them. "

Ha! Take a bow, QL

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

Lucky escape mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, this post is about me.

You sent me three dick pics, after claiming to have read my profile, which states I don’t want any

I’m cock blind! I don’t want to see any unless I ask for them.

Ha! Take a bow, QL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sent a dick pic, she didn't like your dick. You may have made a little faux pas there, fella.

I'll tell you why.

Man sends face pic and I like it, so I have a conversation. After a while I'm enjoying talking to him and feeling a little excited about meeting him, and now wondering what he will look like naked. I get a naked pic/video clip and think mmm, I can't wait to try that.

Man sends dick pic and my brain switches off. No conversation, no excitement about meeting, don't bother asking for a face pic because the brain has already said no.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

to Answer the question .... I call a cock picture any picture that has a cock in it.

Pretty easy one I think. Very few grey areas or ambiguities.

Is there a cock in this picture? Oooh yes. It’s a cock picture.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "

Swingers vs swingles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "

I honestly don’t mind seeing them if I’m attracted to the man attached. But until I have established that I am indeed, attracted to them, I’m not too keen

. Some men (and no, not all) seem to think that sending me a dick pic and a ‘want to fuck’ message is enough. Sorry but not for me!

Just my preference that I’d rather not see them straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "

If I just wanted something inside me I would use a dildo and save shaving my legs. Are you only interested in people's genitals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sent a dick pic, she didn't like your dick. You may have made a little faux pas there, fella.

I'll tell you why.

Man sends dick pic and my brain switches off. No conversation, no excitement about meeting, don't bother asking for a face pic because the brain has already said no. "

This is my mindset 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

If I just wanted something inside me I would use a dildo and save shaving my legs. Are you only interested in people's genitals?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Swingers vs swingles..."

Do you not have to be attracted to person to want to touch genitals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

To flip this on its head, and ignoring the fact that you may or may not send such pictures of yourselves, but hypothetically would the ladies who have responded considered full length nude pics of themselves, or for that fact another lady, to be a pussy shot just because a tiny percentage of the image included this in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To flip this on its head, and ignoring the fact that you may or may not send such pictures of yourselves, but hypothetically would the ladies who have responded considered full length nude pics of themselves, or for that fact another lady, to be a pussy shot just because a tiny percentage of the image included this in it?"

I would...but that’s just me. If someone wanted a face pic, I’d send my face and that’s it. If they wanted a full body shot, I’d send me in underwear or clothing

unless they specified, I wouldn’t assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the outer labia can be seen, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Swingers vs swingles..."

It just makes me think of the type of man that would grope a woman in a swingers club. "She's here for sex, why is she saying no?"

Swingers should fuck anyone that asks, right?

Hence why I am NOT a swinger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Swingers vs swingles...

It just makes me think of the type of man that would grope a woman in a swingers club. "She's here for sex, why is she saying no?"

Swingers should fuck anyone that asks, right?

Hence why I am NOT a swinger!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is on here for different reasons .. we are a couple who have a great sex life together but every now and again want to try different scenarios or sometimes just a extra guy ..we don’t have relationships with the people we meet and usually only meet them once .i don’t particularly have to fancy them if they know how to use their cock that’s great ... and if you are comparing a sex toy to having sex with a guy there’s something wrong there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is on here for different reasons .. we are a couple who have a great sex life together but every now and again want to try different scenarios or sometimes just a extra guy ..we don’t have relationships with the people we meet and usually only meet them once .i don’t particularly have to fancy them if they know how to use their cock that’s great ... and if you are comparing a sex toy to having sex with a guy there’s something wrong there ! "

Exactly. Everyone is on here for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it should all involve gentials seeing as it’s a swingers site rather than dating .. I think a erect cock is a beautiful thing and wouldn’t be interested in a profile without at least one cock pic on ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I dislike close up genetalia pictures whether cock or pussy. However my pussy is on display in one of our photos. I regard that as a nude picture, not a pussy picture. It sounds like the OP sent what I would regard as a nude picture as opposed to a cock picture. Would I be annoyed if a nude picture was sent to us if we asked for a face pic? Yes a little bit. I would be wondering what it was about our profile or message that gave him the impression that we wanted a nude picture sent personally to us. It wouldn’t be a deal breaker in the way that a close up picture of a penis would be. But I would feel that it’s a bit premature in communications to be sending naked or erotic pictures. I realise that’s a bit hypocritical because there are semi nude and erotic pics in our public gallery. However I just feel it’s a bit different when sending a picture personally. When a picture is being sent privately to a specific person, there is an underlying assumption that they will want to see that picture and that the picture is specially for them.

Mrs

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes...if it can be seen. Obviously. If someone asked me to send a photo without my genitals in...I’d send them a photo without my genitals in. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But it should all involve gentials seeing as it’s a swingers site rather than dating .. I think a erect cock is a beautiful thing and wouldn’t be interested in a profile without at least one cock pic on .. "

YOU want to see a cock. Other people don't.

You're the type of person that concerns me and I'd never meet.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What has a swingers site got to do with genitalia photos?

I love sex. I have sex with lots of different people. I enjoy sex more than icecream. I find male and female genitalia bloody ugly. Whether on a swingers’ or dating site, I don’t want to see Dick or Fanny Jr until we’re alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course everyone is here for different reasons.

There is no debate about that.

But the fact remains that the OP disregarded the lady's request, and did what he wanted ( quite why he would send a pic she already had access to, is anyone's guess)

What signal does that send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has a swingers site got to do with genitalia photos?

I’m married, and fully aware this is a SWINGERS site, not a dating site. Doesn’t mean I want to see random dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a cock picture is a picture of an erect or flaccid penis close up. A full body one with a penis in I would call a nude photo. However it's the recipient who decides what is a cock photo or not, so her response is correct for her. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see I don’t think swinging has anything to do with pictures of genitals. Some people might find it useful in their quest for a swing partners. And we’ve certainly enjoyed taking semi nude pictures. But it’s a fun addition to the lifestyle, and us personally would have equal amount of fun without it. Those who swing only in clubs would not normally see someone’s genitals prior to having sex. The Internet seems to have made this a prerequisite to an activity that long predates the Internet.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for being a prude guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a cock picture is a picture of an erect or flaccid penis close up. A full body one with a penis in I would call a nude photo. However it's the recipient who decides what is a cock photo or not, so her response is correct for her. XXX"

I would be wondering why he felt the communication had got to a level that he should sending her a nude picture when she hand them expressed a desire for that. When men do that I find it very presumptuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to point out that I had never spoken to him before, and this was his first message

. I’m one of those annoying people that have ‘if you read my profile title it...’ and he used the title, which means he at least skimmed read my profile

but ah well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU want to see a cock. Other people don't.

You're the type of person that concerns me and I'd never meet. "

Concerns you ??? We wouldn’t meet you either , our interest lies in guys and rarely a couple ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to point out that I had never spoken to him before, and this was his first message

. I’m one of those annoying people that have ‘if you read my profile title it...’ and he used the title, which means he at least skimmed read my profile

but ah well! "

Well this is the thing. We all set out our profiles to sell ourselves and most people include a certain level of nudity in their profiles. But to send a naked picture to a total stranger comes across to me as a little too personal for an opening conversation. It’s the same as when men talk about sex in their first message. With private communications these things should be built up unless they are sure the recipient doesn’t mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to point out that I had never spoken to him before, and this was his first message

. I’m one of those annoying people that have ‘if you read my profile title it...’ and he used the title, which means he at least skimmed read my profile

but ah well!

I agree 100%, and this is my mindset too!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?"

No, he did send other pictures too

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

a pic with a cock in it obviously! which is what you sent, then you get all offended and start a thread about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even tell you what he looks like because the only ‘face pic’ he sent only had the bottom half of his face, and was blurry. OP I’m not having a go, I have my preferences and that’s that really. People choose how to run their fab pages in different ways, if mine doesn’t appeal to you then I’m not sorry, plenty more fish in the sea for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

No, he did send other pictures too"
totally agree u said no dice pic and that should of been it me I'd ask if you wanted to see my BOM and torso and waited to hear back from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?"

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics? "

Could be a number of reasons

. I wasn’t bothered enough to make a forum post about it, I get men every day sending dick pics, having read my profile or not. Just delete and move on. (Well, usually. I’ve never had a forum post about me!

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Ok so i haven't read the whole thread but i get the gist of it, and yes a cock pic is a cock pick if it has your cock in it simple, but how many lady's on there insist on a face pic but dont have a face pic on there profile??? Come on lady's play fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so i haven't read the whole thread but i get the gist of it, and yes a cock pic is a cock pick if it has your cock in it simple, but how many lady's on there insist on a face pic but dont have a face pic on there profile??? Come on lady's play fair"

I have on mine

I never used to to be fair, but I would send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics? "

I've asked the question as another thread.

I do realise that the types of men that send unrequested cock pics will be sat home alone wanking and not reading forums.

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I have on mine

I never used to to be fair, but I would send one

And its a very sexy face too, ment to be shown not hidden

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

if I send the first message I always attach my face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that scenario is not fair. Asking for a face pic to be sent privately for one person to view does not mean the requester should be expected to have a face pic on there profile for everybody to see.

Mrs

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By *uilty_pleasuresCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos."

Exactly. ...I personally would not deem a full body shot a dick pic....but I don't get bombarded like the single fems on here...who unfortunately have had to create a system of rules for themselves and others just to make sense of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on mine

I never used to to be fair, but I would send one

And its a very sexy face too, ment to be shown not hidden

You’re too kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah think you miss judged that one my friend. only way you’d get away with that is if the dick was in your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah think you miss judged that one my friend. only way you’d get away with that is if the dick was on your head "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flaccid dick = still a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

ANY pic with a dick in it... be it a full frontal or from toes to belly. If It's still got a dick in it, DON'T send it... simple answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture with a pussy in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any picture with a cock in it ...

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

To me, if it’s a full body picture, it’s a nude, rather than a dick pic, because it’s not just a dick in the pic.

That said, if ‘no dick pic’ has been specified, don’t send a nude either!! It’s splitting hairs OP!!

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "
Not all of them unfortunately some on here seem to prefer coffee and cake in Starbucks rather than getting down and dirty

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over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? Not all of them unfortunately some on here seem to prefer coffee and cake in Starbucks rather than getting down and dirty"

I’m here to fuck men. Simple as that. Doesn’t mean I want to see their dick in the first message. I don’t see how in any other situation you’d just show your knob to someone you’re introducing yourself too. Just because it’s a swingers website, men seem to think it’s alright, even when they know the women doesn’t want to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have every right to lay down your criteria and make your choices based on that. If the man is stupid enough to ignore your request then he only has himself to blame for his lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it was costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have every right to lay down your criteria and make your choices based on that. If the man is stupid enough to ignore your request then he only has himself to blame for his lack of success. "

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By *issyme555TV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

Just asking so say if in this whole body pic witch happens to show a dick the dic say had a smiley face on the end or what ever else is it then still a cock pic.

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

) "

He says you didn't just delete and move on... you berated him for it? Which I feel is a bit harsh given it wasn't just a cock pic, it was a full length (ish) nude. He clearly read the profile and just misinterpreted it.

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

Furthermore, I feel it is acceptable to send pictures that can be viewed on a profile already.. on the grounds of initial attraction stipulated by women above. How many women look at all men's profiles?

I love your lipstick by the way.

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way. "

Women and couples get hundreds of unsolicited cock pics with very little else. Most of us get fed up with them. You might feel it’s acceptable but clearly the woman did not. He can’t complain as he did not do as she asked, and what she asked was perfectly reasonable!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Search the site for "private photos" and "direct send".

D'oh.

Also, this is not about being fair. Whoever starts the conversation should send a name and a face. Basic manners. I know (been told) that this is too much work for some. Self-filtering is also a good thing.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Wonderful. And some men seem to prefer forgoing their own personal safety and expect women to do the same. Some men seem unable to see beyond today and beyond what they want.

Self-filtering.

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way. "

I didn’t berate him for it. I asked ‘why haven’t you read my profile?’ And that was that. And thanks - just finding the confidence to wear bright colours. I have bright orange - that’s my next challenge

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

Oh! And yes, I read men’s profiles.

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At least he wasn’t abusuve!

We just replied to a self proclaimed, fisting and watersport expert (two things definitely not listed in our profile) and Dom with a simple “no thanks”.

He then replied abusuvely!

Is it any wonder single men get a bad name!!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "

Extending that logic I guess it's ok to flash random women in the street on the basis that's what women & men are here for-procreation?

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At least he wasn’t abusuve!

We just replied to a self proclaimed, fisting and watersport expert (two things definitely not listed in our profile) and Dom with a simple “no thanks”.

He then replied abusuvely!

Is it any wonder single men get a bad name!!

Oh I love getting abuse, I usually turn into a fat slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At least he wasn’t abusuve!

We just replied to a self proclaimed, fisting and watersport expert (two things definitely not listed in our profile) and Dom with a simple “no thanks”.

He then replied abusuvely!

Is it any wonder single men get a bad name!!

Oh I love getting abuse, I usually turn into a fat slut

That’s only mild abuse, count yourself lucky!!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I mean a well taken bum photo works better I find than a cock pic

Also key things before sending photos is read the profile that you are sending them to.

I hardly ever now message people off here without meeting them in a club.

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At least he wasn’t abusuve!

We just replied to a self proclaimed, fisting and watersport expert (two things definitely not listed in our profile) and Dom with a simple “no thanks”.

He then replied abusuvely!

Is it any wonder single men get a bad name!!

Oh I love getting abuse, I usually turn into a fat slut

That’s only mild abuse, count yourself lucky!! "

Oh it gets worse! The block button is my best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

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Cock pic to me is cock close up. The lady could have blocked you if she felt that you’d overstepped the mark with the nude pic.

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over a year ago

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

Cock pic to me is cock close up. The lady could have blocked you if she felt that you’d overstepped the mark with the nude pic. "

Knowing how difficult it is to get a response from a single woman due to the overwhelming demand, why couldn’t he have just given her what she asked for?

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over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

You've misinterpreted what had been said or not read the whole thread. A number of people said you shouldn't send a picture that is already visible on a profile, I am saying it is reasonable to do so. Nothing to do with cocks, it's a seperate point.

The discussion is around what he percieved she asked and what she perceived he did. We are discussing the definition of a cock pic. Not the acceptability or not of sending them unsoilicted.

All I'm saying is he didn't think he was stepping outside the boundaries he's asking where he went wrong. He's accepted his mistake.

Don't get me wrong in a big fan of swift and decisive corrective messaging

where warrented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At the risk of going off topic, you certainly should they look great on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the woman is a miserable bitch. A full body with a hint of flaccid penis is not a dick pic. IMO a dick pic is a pic where the dick is the main focus. I have no idea why women get offended by them anyway. When most of them have their tits and vag out and think theyre better than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I just wanted a dick, and didn’t care about who the person was or if there was any attraction, I’d go to a gloryhole. Or use my toys

But the op didn't just send a close up pic of his dick did he?

Why do you think men send naked pics to someone they haven't spoken to and asks for no dick pics?

Could be a number of reasons

)

If I said no bird pictures everyone wound define that as a picture of a bird.

If I then recieved a picture of a castle on rolling county side I don't think many people would argue strongly that it was infact a bird picture if one happened to be sat on a tree.

Missinforemed and even foolhardy, maybe. Malicious and worthy or a berating... no.

I love your lipstick by the way.

At the risk of going off topic, you certainly should they look great on you!

Aw thank you!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"The clue is in the name... If it's a pic that has a dick in it... It's a dick pic...

Why you're here so confused as to why she isn't interested after being clear she doesn't want dic pics and you sent her a dick pic, it's completely beyond me... "
:-the trouble with some guys is their brains,are in their dicks . you can say no dick pics as much as you like but there will always be that clever dick out there who thinks its still OK to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The clue is in the name... If it's a pic that has a dick in it... It's a dick pic...

Why you're here so confused as to why she isn't interested after being clear she doesn't want dic pics and you sent her a dick pic, it's completely beyond me... :-the trouble with some guys is their brains,are in their dicks . you can say no dick pics as much as you like but there will always be that clever dick out there who thinks its still OK to do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it’s simple if asked for a face picture send a face picture. Baffling why so many guys think sending cock pictures will incessantly get them meets. Maybe try thinking if was other way round o/p what would you prefer been sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes down to common sense. I agree with some, it’s not a cock pic, it’s a nude pic. However if someone says ‘don’t send me cock pics’ what is that likelihood that she is going to appreciate a nude pic? Common guys wake up!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it’s simple if asked for a face picture send a face picture. Baffling why so many guys think sending cock pictures will incessantly get them meets. Maybe try thinking if was other way round o/p what would you prefer been sent "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried sending a cock pic once... but I couldn't get a good shot with all those feathers in the way...

Back to the drawing board eh

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Don't try to understand the rules with regards to single females on here mate, just accept when you have broken them.

Reason being - They change every hour and breaches of the rules will be punished this time and rewarded the next. You are attempting to apply order to chaos."

Order to the chaos... Being bombarded by dick pics and "wanna fuck" type message is order to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all cos soooooo many.but for me personally if your advertising your cock or torso and not your face .u automatically dont even get looked at .its lie already youve either got huge ego or you got summin to hide. No way gents. Call it foreplay even if you dont get that shit.yes its wonderful u may av worked hard for that shit or got good genes to get such a wonderful pecker but at end of day you gotta make us wanna meet you first to get that shit anywhere near us . And for me automatically the bigger the cock well that quite frankly scares shit out of me that it gonna either fucking hurt like hell if your clumsy or im one to please and if i dont think i can fit that in then see ya . Lets see ya faces lets see your personality loosen up a lil and then even if you have got huge fucking cock lease we would be lil looser to take that shit if we want it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Extending that logic I guess it's ok to flash random women in the street on the basis that's what women & men are here for-procreation? "

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over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Extending that logic I guess it's ok to flash random women in the street on the basis that's what women & men are here for-procreation?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Although I wouldn't class a naked body pic as a dick pick you've not been to cleaver here have you? The lady in question asked for a face pic. You sent her a body pic with a dick. I'd say in future if someone asks for a face pic don't send them a picture with your cock in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although I wouldn't class a naked body pic as a dick pick you've not been to cleaver here have you? The lady in question asked for a face pic. You sent her a body pic with a dick. I'd say in future if someone asks for a face pic don't send them a picture with your cock in. "

What could be simpler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look in the lounge forum

willy Wednesday, all dick pic's appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

If a birthday card had a rabbit in a hat and your mum happened to love rabbits but was mortally offended by top hats and told you so many times over the years..even going so far as to jump up and down on your dads favourite top hat screaming blue murder would you buy her it for her special day?

Just asking?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Most kerfuffle on here is regarding sending a cock pic that doesn't show much else of the bloke let alone his face. There is more acceptance of a full naked body shot. That being said I wouldn't have risked it in the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your description of you pic you sent obviously answers your question. Unless u were castrated and butchered I'd say you violated her request.

Simple.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Extending that logic I guess it's ok to flash random women in the street on the basis that's what women & men are here for-procreation? "

No correlation between the 2 things whatsoever. I don't expect women on the street to flash their bits at me on the street despite seeing lots on here. Nonsence comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit thrown by a response I got to a message.

Naughty naughty

No dick pic means a pic without a dick in the shot at all! Next time cup it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look if I say I don't want a woman to send pics of her vagina to me and she then sends a full frontal pic where I can clearly see her bits then she has ignored my request(all vagina shots greatfully received lol) simple and so goes it with what u were asked op u were told no cock pics yet u sent a frontal nude with your cock on show simple

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

Extending that logic I guess it's ok to flash random women in the street on the basis that's what women & men are here for-procreation?

No correlation between the 2 things whatsoever. I don't expect women on the street to flash their bits at me on the street despite seeing lots on here. Nonsence comment."

It was an extreme analogy to demonstrate a point in the context of the post I was responding to.

The message suggested it's ok to send unsolicited pics to women here because that's what they want men for.

If that's the case why is it not permissible to reveal your bits to women generally, since the interaction between sexes at it's highest is about procreation. Of course I'm not suggesting that should be the case, it's just common sense, as it should be here.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

I had a discussion about cock pics with a female friend of mine who is a professional photographer.

She dislikes pics of just the cock as she thinks it turns it into an object in its own right, as opposed to when you see it as part of a man. It tends to lose its role in relation to the whole body when seen alone. I guess kind of like seeing the engine of a car as opposed to the whole car.

Just my friends point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe for you it is but I would like to date a fellow swinger so I need attraction first. I don’t need to see the goods until I feel that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe for you it is but I would like to date a fellow swinger so I need attraction first. I don’t need to see the goods until I feel that. "

For us certainly Clare is attracted to the man first and foremost. The cock is secondary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst a pic of their dick is important, as I wouldn’t meet up with a guy who has an ugly one, I hate it when people send one in a message and it’s the only pic. Or you go into their profile and it’s got the same pic but taken in 27 angles!! WTF no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any pic of a man is. According to most women we’re all dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ?? "

I have to say I kinda agree with this, especially in the pic the OP has described.

I don't like receiving messages that just say "hi" and a half dozen close up pics of a cock (who knows if it is theirs or not) but wouldn't take the hump at one as described...

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over a year ago

"Why are women on here so touchy about seeing dick pics after all isn’t that what you want the guy for ??

I have to say I kinda agree with this, especially in the pic the OP has described.

I don't like receiving messages that just say "hi" and a half dozen close up pics of a cock (who knows if it is theirs or not) but wouldn't take the hump at one as described... "

She asked for a face pic and he sent a pic that has his cock in it. It’s not what she wanted, and he only has himself to blame if she doesn’t like what he sent.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I sent a full face pic in the message and yes I made the previously private pic public public for critique. As for my face pic; I do not need public voting as to if it is a face or not.

** pic has been made private again **

And THAT is why women have issues with most single men on here...

Because they don't read, neither do most couples for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your cock pic happened to be in the picture (even a full body one), that is a cock pic. It doesn't have to be a close up of your cock only, to be deemed as that. That's how I see it anyway. If it's not in hiding, it's a cock pic

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