FabSwingers.com forum: Cancer can't get hard.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't get hard due to cancer.my wife still needs sex.I am ok with her wanting sex.and have said to meet people for sex.she is why but wants to do it.problem is I want to watch as she has sex.

I am a c/d

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There is no reason why you can't have a couples profile.

Lots of couples meet men and the husband/partner doesn't play, he just watches.

Just put into your profile that this is what you both want from meets. It would probably be advisable to say you are a cross dresser too as some guys may not want to meet while you are dressed.

Going to a club would be a good way to find this too. If you choose a night where single men are allowed you will have the opportunity to watch while she plays.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

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"I can't get hard due to cancer.my wife still needs sex.I am ok with her wanting sex.and have said to meet people for sex.she is why but wants to do it.problem is I want to watch as she has sex.

I am a c/d"

Right... who is that a problem for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she said you can't watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a problem at all. There's a lot of decent people on here who would understand your problem, plus it's a swingers site so really no one ahould judge. Personally if you were closer I would love to help you guys out.

Can you not look into medical treatment. Sure they so something for your problem, implant, pump etc...

Good luck guys

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I know from having cancer myself that sex was the last thing on my mind plus I physically couldn't, not without me causing more problems.

So focus on getting better, if your wife loves you she'll understand unlike my ex that did it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively mate, consider one of those prosthetic devices that effectively gives you a pump up penis. As I recall they replace one of your testes with a small pump and replace the erection tissue in your penis with a "balloon" of sorts that means you can still get hard regardless of blood flow or anything like that.

I don't know what your situation is, and whether or not it's something you would be interested in but I found the idea fascinating when I read about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah did read about it.but for to go through all the alternatives first.

Thanks for the advice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to your wife and tell her what you're thinking.

I'm sure she'll understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the type of cancer look on the respective website.

There are tips for maintaining a good sex life, whilst having cancer. Macmillan offer good advice on their website.

Alternatively, bite the bullet and speak to your gp about it. It's not an unusual problem.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

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"Has she said you can't watch? "

Yeah I'm still confused what the actual problem is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is bladder cancer and had prostrate taking out as well.

Spoken to gp so going down the road off tablets at the minute.if they don't work have to see a specialist.

But watching my wife with another guy really turns me on.she doesn't want me to watch though.??

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