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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Maybe she has picked up on the vibe that you are on here. Have you talked to her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This all stopped before i came on this. We spoke she told me she still likes it just not interested. One of the guys we used was a mate and they still chat away x

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"This all stopped before i came on this. We spoke she told me she still likes it just not interested. One of the guys we used was a mate and they still chat away x"

Maybe shes getting what she wants from him.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Try asking her why

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

If your "relationship isn't going so well at home"... then perhaps she just doesn't want to play at all?

Sx

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Maybe shes on here as a single ??

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Sounds like she got bored ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi not sure what to put I've had cancer so no longer get hard.I've said to my wife she can take a lover if she wants she said if i was ok with that.I was .problem is I want to watch her have sex with me dressed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did ask is she was doing stuff with him said no. Not sure tbh i did also say she could go with other guys aswell.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "

There is only one way to find out if she wants to get back in to it and thats to communicate with her. That means listening properly, asking questions and her listening to you and asking questions.

You won't get her back in to it if she doesn't want to but at least your communication will be improved.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Maybe she just wants a break and ain't feeling it anymore. Communicate and leave her be,maybe in time she might want to again or just give up completely. No one can make her, it's her Choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was no pressure was just looking for ideas as i thought she liked it. Was just hoping for more thats all.

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By *exeterMan
over a year ago

m5 Devon-Somerset border area

Maybe you should support her decision what ever it may be play or no play for how long it will be.

You can only embrace someone for who they are and never change them

No matter what I never want any pressure to do anything and expect to be treated equally

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "

I doubt you even got a wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she still as interested in having sex with you, or has her libido taken a bit of a dip? There can be many reasons why a woman's (or a man's) sex drive changes, the best thing you can do is talk to her and support her with whatever she might be going through.

Have you tried going to a club together? If she's interested, you could go with no pressure to do anything with anything else, just being in that environment and having sex with each other can be incredibly arousing. We've been together 14 years and have a great sex life, but we still enjoy time together in a club where we can switch off from the mundane stuff and just focus on us.

You're very young to be having problems in your marriage, if you want it to work long term, you need to learn how to work through sticky patches together, rather than looking for sex elsewhere without her knowledge...there's a strong chance that that will only damage your relationship further because it'll create distance between you. Invest some time, patience and understanding into your relationship, you'll build a stronger bond between you, and that'll ensure you're closer and happier together in the future.

Good luck, I hope you can work it out so you're both happy.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So me and my wife for about 2 years were having mmf fun. All of a sudden she is not into it anymore. I loved seen her enjoying herself and having a good time. She still likes to watch double penetration porn and mmf porn. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her back into it. "

Maybe she wants to make love not just have sex? If you only appear interested when she is with another man she may feel unloved.

Maybe she is in love with another man who she wants to be "faithful" to? So she only has sex with you as her husband because she has to?

As above... ASK her and listen to what she says.

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

We have our ups and downs on the subject and try not to make it a normal part of our sex life but rather a monthly treat and something to look forward too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP, the bit on your profile that says "Relationship at home not going well so i need discretion" is that true or just some blather for on here as you think it makes being on here cheating excusable?

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